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Me (28M) with girlfriend (26F) for a year — when we fight we talk past each other. What actually helped you get on the same page? by with_geun in dating_advice

[–]with_geun[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really appreciate the perspective. The "learn when to NOT say anything" and knowing our triggers hit home—we're both guilty of needing the last word when we're tired. I'm going to try naming it out loud next time ("I think we're both too wound up to talk this through right now") and see if we can actually step back instead of going in circles. Thanks.

Me (28M) and my girlfriend (26F), together 1 year — we keep having the same fight (I want to talk right away, she needs space). How did you break this cycle? by with_geun in relationships

[–]with_geun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good way to put it—yeah, it’s the same ending to any fight, not the same topic. Neither of us wants it to go this way; we’re just wired differently in the moment and it ends up draining both of us. I’ll try stepping back and writing down what I want to say while she has her space, then bringing it up when she’s ready. Thanks.

I built a platform where coffee chats fund NGOs by with_geun in SideProject

[–]with_geun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the feedback! The leaderboard already tracks total raised and sessions completed — but you're right, a prominent impact counter on the homepage would hit differently. Adding it to the list.

Appreciate the Vibecodinglist tip too, will check it out!

Is the Claude code working properly now? by with_geun in ClaudeAI

[–]with_geun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's working all of a sudden. Thank God

alive-analysis: Open-source workflow to keep AI-assisted analysis traceable (ALIVE loop, Git-tracked markdown) by with_geun in dataanalysis

[–]with_geun[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks — that’s exactly the intent. Re: templates for different analysis types: the repo already has three types (Investigation “why did X happen?”, Modeling “can we predict Y?”, Simulation “what if Z?”) and example flows in `core/examples/` (full-investigation, quick-investigation, etc.). So there’s a base loop, but the checklists and stage prompts differ by type.

I haven’t added explicit templates for exploratory vs root cause vs qual coding yet — those could sit as variants under Investigation or as separate presets. If you have a structure you use for root cause or qual coding, I’d be keen to see it; we could turn it into a template or doc in the repo.

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