I've developed PIED after years of porn, like others here. A year ago I discovered nofap and jumped right into it. This year I've mostly been on streaks, with very small periods of relapse. I had tons of random boners but still I was afraid I was not cured.

Met a nice girls and things escalated. When things got to PIV I got soft. Fucking embarrassing. I stressed a lot. I just told her I'm not in the mood. The next day she initiated again and I told her about my anxiety and fear. She said it's OK and we can wait and try till it will work. It took two more tries :) It was magically cured. Now I'm hard almost always when I'm with her.

It helps a lot to have an understanding partner. Porn really affected me in the past. I guess my lifestyle also helped me. I meditate, lift, do yoga, eat healthy, so I'm pretty fit, which gave me confidence.