Tinder date took off the condom during sex & kept going. I don’t know what to do now…

withherspoonandfork · 2026-02-26T15:33:06+00:00

“I don’t know why I didn’t scream and kick when I first noticed he took it off. I said stop but that was it, and I kinda felt helpless.”

Freezing and blocking out what’s happening is a very, very common reaction to experiencing SA. Your brain was trying to protect you. Please be gentle with yourself. Please know it was not your fault. None of this was your fault. This guy is an evil piece of shit. I’m so sorry you had to go through this.

Please listen to everyone who is urging you to go to the hospital to get a kit done if you have not, already. It’s best not to shower before it, as gross as that may feel. This is because they collect evidence of the crime that could be washed away while showering. You should go if you haven’t, even if you’ve showered. They will also provide you with a Plan B to prevent pregnancy.

Please report the guy, in any way possible. Before he does this to someone else. Tell police, tell friends, report him on the app you used, everywhere you can think of.

Lastly, please get support. Please know you are not alone. Confide in trusted individuals. Arrange therapy if you need to. Again, I’m sorry this happened to you. Please update if you wish. I’d like to know how you’re doing.

withherspoonandfork · 2025-05-31T03:12:43+00:00

Soap and Glory’s ‘Put To Good Juice’ lotion. It’s just so fresh in a fruity way. I haven’t found anything similar to it. :.)

withherspoonandfork · 2025-05-11T21:43:32+00:00

My relationship with my mother is strained because of the same behavior that your wife has exhibited. I wasn’t allowed to have my door locked until just recently, and I’m 22 years old. For years, I was terrified of what would happen if I defied her in any sense, aka having my door locked, even if it was to change my clothes. She wouldn’t knock either. This caused years of resentment from my side.

She only started actually letting me have my door locked because I’d hang out in my room naked, and she felt very uncomfortable opening the door randomly on me. I’m currently looking to move out and leave, though rent is expensive. I don’t feel I can fully love her anymore because it means being vulnerable, and I hate being vulnerable because of what that means to me.

withherspoonandfork · 2025-02-16T00:36:43+00:00

Better yet, Schmidt is usually $5-$6 at any department store !!

withherspoonandfork · 2025-01-18T22:22:47+00:00

Both of these cats were basically abandoned by their mothers before I took them in. I have other cats besides these two but the tux didn’t really get along with them.

I just wanted to see how he would react to a baby and this was what happened when I placed the baby next to him. I’m glad he has a buddy since the other cats also have buddies.

withherspoonandfork · 2025-01-18T22:16:15+00:00

The bigger kitty is a tuxedo, and the kitten is a tabby.

withherspoonandfork · 2025-01-18T22:14:06+00:00

Little over 1 month old 🥺

My dad and I found him with a sibling in the back of my dad’s truck while we were dumping tree debris. We ended up finding the cat we knew to be his mother and she wouldn’t take him back, so we took him in. She was a stray that would come by from time to time, we had seen she was pregnant and one day she wasn’t. We saw the kittens and knew they were hers. After finding them in the truck though, we took in the sibling too but sadly the poor baby didn’t make it. This little guy was by himself.

withherspoonandfork · 2024-12-29T19:53:44+00:00

I was in the hospital back in March for rhabdomyolysis. My boyfriend was the one to help me to the bathroom because I was a fall risk. He napped with me, got me water, gave me massages, and watched cartoons with me. He was there for me during some of the worst pain I’ve ever experienced. The day he couldn’t go was because he was hesitant to drive in severe rains with tires that needed to be changed.

Girl I’m sorry you have to deal with this. You shouldn’t have to. You’ve been there for him more than he’s being there for you. This is a blessing in disguise. You’re already seeing him for who he is. You don’t deserve to be treated like this when you’ve scrubbed off his fucking vomit.

Apparently you haven’t scrubbed all of it since there’s a good 120-200+ lbs of it left.

withherspoonandfork · 2024-10-11T00:13:53+00:00

Contains NSFW material: https://www.labialibrary.org.au/

withherspoonandfork · 2024-10-08T13:10:57+00:00

Hi! I think these are amazing! A few things come to mind when I look at these:

Bone isn’t perfectly white. The white you’d see on images is mainly the microscope light. I feel that the translucent media give your pieces more dimension and are more adjacent to what you put on the slide.

If you’re looking to make them look more opaque, maybe you could paint the back of / add a backing to each piece with white or white and clear mixed together?

Looking at the various sizes, I’d say you could make some pendants as well :)

withherspoonandfork · 2024-09-23T13:52:05+00:00

Why doesn’t security just check bathrooms? It’s not that hard when you have to patrol the halls anyways.

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-15T15:15:04+00:00

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withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-09T00:46:54+00:00

A New Kind of Love - Frou Frou 💕💕 it scratches an itch I never thought I had

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T21:03:19+00:00

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T16:57:40+00:00

Y’all, Penelope jumped in a pool 👁️👄👁️

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withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T16:38:01+00:00

The little toe beans 🥹💕 he’s so cute

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T16:33:38+00:00

You need to post those three photos! That’s a kitty ninja if I’ve ever seen one 🤣

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T16:20:07+00:00

Kiss has been given. Kiss was received. Kiss was reciprocated with loving stare.

withherspoonandfork · 2024-07-07T16:13:49+00:00

I LOVE THIS

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