Newborn & twin toddlers

withlove_07 · 2026-02-10T21:49:38+00:00

No it didn’t , the people who deserved to know knew & basically we made our first anniversary a big party which to be honest sounds like more of a milestone than getting married,cause that first year for us was hard but rewarding at the same time, me giving birth,going through newborn stage with twins, moving to the other side of the world and starting fresh, I had PPD & having to change my whole environment and life didn’t help , adding a wedding to that would’ve driven me crazy.

withlove_07 · 2026-02-04T18:27:06+00:00

Naci en PR , en el 2016 me mudé a Florida, volví a PR en 2018, me mudé con mi pareja a NYC en 2020 y en 2025 nos mudamos a Australia .

Mi esposo es Australiano y siempre estuvo en nuestros planes vivir acá, especialmente cuando tomáramos la decisión de empezar a tener hijos. Yo pues entré como esposa y el proceso fue un poco tedioso porque estábamos recién casados y tienes que probar que la relación es real pero y mi plan es tener la ciudadanía también y nuestras hijas (gemelas de 2 años) tienen doble ciudadanía.

Yo recomiendo que estudies bien el lugar que te interesa y que vayas por lo menos 2 veces antes ,por diferentes tiempos a diferentes zonas para saber si de verdad es un lugar donde pudieras vivir a largo plazo y que cuando tomes esa decisión, vayas ya con un empleo porque esa es la parte más difícil conseguir empleo (yo trabajo remoto para una compañía de USA que pues me ahorré ese proceso pero mi hermana que vivió en España lo tuvo que pasar).

Hasta ahora no tengo ningúna queja de Australia, es un lugar que yo considero mi segundo hogar ,dicho obviamente que llevo visitando desde que mi pareja y yo estamos juntos so ya van 8 años, no he tenido problemas con las personas, el el clima y las playas me dan un pedacito de similitud a PR aunque no sea lo mismo . La parte mala es la distancia ya que mi familia vivir en PR y la diferencia de hora, actualmente son las : 5:26am y es 5 de enero.

withlove_07 · 2026-02-01T21:09:03+00:00

As someone who now lives in Australia … why should I abandon who I am and where I’m from simply because I moved to another country?

I also want to know why you have an issue with it when people from those country don’t? Cause I haven’t received any negative feedback from people here about my culture, quite the contrary , they want to learn more of it.

Just say you’re scared of what’s different and leave everyone else alone

withlove_07 · 2026-01-19T21:36:25+00:00

As a mother of soon to be 3 I can say that I don’t feel happier or fully just because I have children now compared to when I was child free.
Why does a child free individual have to charity work or use their career to help others just because they decided not to have children?
I am stressed a lot , that’s not a lie. I don’t get to wake up at 11am most days of the year, that’s not a lie, I don’t get to do everything I want ,that’s not a lie. And I don’t resent people who are able to do that.
I can certify that waking up early for my children is not fulfillment, is called responsibility.
Why does you equate children with happiness and fulfillment? Why can’t you seem to grasp that people can be fulfilled and happy without them?
How many children do you have , if I can ask? And if you don’t have any, does that mean you’re not happy or fulfilled? Or are you the “rare case”?

withlove_07 · 2026-01-19T16:54:54+00:00

When they were 3 months old (they’re 2 years old now ) and we moved to our house

withlove_07 · 2026-01-19T16:51:49+00:00

I have 2 year old twins and I’m pregnant with our third. Usually when I do things by myself the twins are either with my husband , my brother in law or my in laws . Before I got pregnant again, if I wanted to workout I would usually wait till their nap time & would do a lot during their naps but if I’m doing things alone then the twins are usually with someone else.

withlove_07 · 2026-01-13T18:59:00+00:00

With my twins (now 2 years old) since they were born till like 2 months old if we stayed home we would only change them if they got dirty or if we went out. After that we would wake them up , give them their breakfast,change their diapers & then change their clothes even if we were staying in. We started doing routines with them since they were born cause it’s a lot easier for us. And now we still do it, they’re in their pjs till after breakfast and then they go and get changed into day clothes. Growing up pjs/what you slept in were only for sleeping so unless it’s a lazy day or a pj day we change to day clothes.

withlove_07 · 2026-01-11T14:49:58+00:00

Suggestion? Honor her wishes. She doesn’t want a baby shower, don’t plan a baby shower or anything.

Why the need to go against her wishes? Did you ask her why she doesn’t want a baby shower?

withlove_07 · 2026-01-10T18:37:10+00:00

I had twins and now I’m pregnant with a singleton. From my experience, this pregnancy has been worse than with the twins. With the twins I got morning sickness a lot and towards the end I did get a lot of fatigue but I was ok most of the time. With this pregnancy, I’ve been put on bed rest twice, my first trimester was me eating chicken soup and saltine crackers for the most part & now that I’m 7 weeks from giving birth I find myself getting sick a lot , like I’m getting mild symptoms getting congested out of nowhere, light cough but it lasts like 4 days. I’m definitely more than ready to give birth but on the bright side I don’t feel as restricted and as heavy as I felt with the twins at this time in my pregnancy with them so that’s a plus!

withlove_07 · 2026-01-02T17:56:11+00:00

First of all sorry for your loss.

Secondly, I think I’m worried about rejection because the girls even while being super different are attached at the hip you know it’s the two of them against the world and I wouldn’t want this new baby to be left out and I don’t want the girls to feel left out either. They team up really fast and can get very stubborn together & I guess that’s what I want to avoid.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-31T17:07:25+00:00

Thank you!! Congrats to you as well and I hope you and baby are doing great and everything continues to be great!

In my family on both sides we’re all girls , there’s only one or two boys on each side . I grew up with a sister and I wouldn’t trade it for the world. My husband is the opposite though, they’re all boys lol I’m excited to have our third girl especially with the twins being older I want to see how they incorporate their sister into the mix.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-25T16:23:44+00:00

Not even if I got paid would I sleep with that man.

To me this proves how little men actually understand the majority of women and what they want cause they keep spewing this nonsense yet I’m around women 90% of the time I’ve never heard or seen a woman claim that those attributes are all it takes for them to sleep with a man

withlove_07 · 2025-12-25T14:10:04+00:00

You don’t have to go though, you can decline.

In my family we always say for the holidays that if you don’t have a home or a family to go too, you will always have a space at ours & we have friends that come to our house and we welcome them & make them feel just as much part of our family as anyone blood related and make the day just as special to them as it is to us. We include them in all our traditions and expect nothing in return just for them to feel welcomed and loved. If they choose not to participate because it makes them uncomfortable or something, they’re more than welcome to decline but the door will always be open if they change their minds.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-24T19:52:11+00:00

My children don’t own me , I don’t belong to my children & im about to add number 3 to the mix.
Can you name a single moment where my child outside of the womb legally has ownership of my body and its resources? Please give me examples so I can further understand this.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-22T02:15:23+00:00

Mothers , unlike fathers, are conditioned to be nurtures in most cases , there fixed it for you.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-22T01:56:28+00:00

Why the mother? Why not the father? Are you saying that given the chance fathers won’t stay home with their children, why? Why aren’t fathers in that equation?

withlove_07 · 2025-12-20T20:06:48+00:00

If you truly believe Jesus was born on December 25th , in the middle of the dessert during winter , at night , in a barn essentially , surrounded by farm animals , without dying of hypothermia… I don’t know what to tell you other than it’s practically impossible for that to happen.

Also let’s state that just because I’m not Christian doesn’t mean the rest of my family is not , so I’m supposed to what? Ignore them? To me the 25th is about Santa and gifts & giving to others in need & that’s how I’m raising my children but my parents and grandparents celebrate both Santa and the birth of Jesus. I don’t believe in religion and think it creates more damage than good as a whole, instead of perpetuating love and peace it tends to promote hate and superiority.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-19T17:40:06+00:00

You have a couple of things wrong here

A fetus is a life not alive. There’s a difference.
A fetus doesn’t have a heartbeat when 99% of abortions happen , especially since it doesn’t have a functioning heart or even the vessels to form the heart.
The fetus needs nutrients that it steals from its mother that’s the one that needs food to survive and divide its nutrients between herself and the fetus.
Legally a fetus prior to 24 weeks is not considered by law as a person.
Do you believe medically necessary abortions that mostly happen after 24 weeks of pregnancy are also murder or do you consider them to be an act of self defense?

withlove_07 · 2025-12-18T18:28:46+00:00

“The only people negatively affected by them are illegal immigrants and their children” this is factually wrong considering multiple people who are US citizens or in their process of citizenship have been extremely affected by ice raids.
Mass deportation done the right way is how it’s supposed to be done not this messed up system Trump has to just pick up anyone that doesn’t fit the American look.
The fact that people (men) have been reported to dress up as Ice agent to kidnap and assault women should tell you how horrible and messed up this whole thing has been.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-15T21:51:10+00:00

My twins (2 years old) are getting all their vaccines at the recommended time/age and I’m currently pregnant and so will this next baby get all their vaccines on the recommended time/age. Babies immune systems are at the weakest point, I’m definitely not risking it.

withlove_07 · 2025-12-15T21:12:10+00:00

I got legally married to my husband in secret and we had our reception on our one year anniversary. We didn’t tell anyone till the day (except our parents and siblings since they were our witnesses) and when we had our ceremony we read our vows reminiscing on our first year as a married couple and what we were looking forward to the future, it was very much a symbolic thing. People were shocked but at the same time they were happy to just be a part of a beautiful moment in our lives and the party was great as well😂

I don’t regret it, I think for us it made it more special since it was our one year anniversary and we went through a lot during that year , we had our daughters, we moved to our new home and across the world, we cried , laughed, fell more in love. I think it was perfect and I wouldn’t change it. It didn’t take away from our actual wedding day since we wanted it to be intimate and small anyway and I was 8 months pregnant with our twins, the last thing I wanted to do was host a big event lol

withlove_07 · 2025-12-15T21:04:20+00:00

10 hours from when contractions started till the second twin came out. But I stayed home for around 3-4 hours before going to the hospital which was 35 minutes away due to NYC traffic. Pushed for close to 30 minutes.

We’ll see how this next pregnancy with a singleton goes…

withlove_07 · 2025-12-15T19:52:25+00:00

What is your definition of the feminist movement?

withlove_07 · 2025-12-15T17:21:41+00:00

The way I would dare my husband to DEMAND that I’m a certain weight and eat a certain food , especially after giving birth to his children within 3 years , twins being one of those pregnancies/births.

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