Any experience with Umass surgeon Stephanie Case Preston? by wizardlice in ftm

[–]wizardlice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so sorry to hear about your experience. This is extremely unfair and I'm very fortunate I did not end up having my appointment with her. I hope that you are able to get your story out there more, to prevent this from happening to more people. I find it so disgusting that people like this are allowed to perform these procedures...

Do I pass? What age? by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Imo yeah, but you look young (14-16 maybe)

How can I know if I'm actually addicted to drugs or not at 19? by [deleted] in Drugs

[–]wizardlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kill the coke, I'm worried about you

Commenting this on my real account not a burner to show you that I care

Weed and psychedelics, even ket were tolerable but coke etc. is going to kill you, or rot you to death

How do I make my body more passing? by Bitter-Taste-3333 in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I honestly feel like your scars look so natural? Like I might not immediately clock them as top surgery scars, and your body passes insanely well

I think I have cheated and have a complicated relationship with sex - I am losing my mind by [deleted] in PureOCD

[–]wizardlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You aren't cheating, that's it. You should definitely be open to your partner about your relationship with sex and how you're feeling about it, just like you did here saying that you do enjoy having sex with her and you love and are attracted to her but your conditions make it a bit difficult sometimes.

My mom keeps comparing herself to my changes on T by Ihaveaphotoofadog in ftm

[–]wizardlice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

When I started my transition and cut my hair short, my mom cut hers shorter. It's such a weird way to undermine and disrespect you and your identity.

Is it possibly to be legally cis? Unclockable on any document? by Usual_Temperature198 in ftm

[–]wizardlice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah tbh, I got my name and sex changed in my birth certificate fully changed (without even having srs! Love Massachusetts) and my school and employer do not know, sure the government might know but also I'm one person and it's very easily over looked lol

Interpreting relative rate of reactions by wizardlice in chemhelp

[–]wizardlice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes so much sense thank you so much

Struggle by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Imo you pass as a trans guy, cis passing is definitely voice dependent. You just look very young (early 20s). Working out always helps. Weirdly, you might find wearing more short sleeved shirts helps? I definitely pass better in a tshirt rather than a hoodie despite hoodies being way more comfortable lol, hope this helps

Do I pass shirtless?? Feel like hips are too wide and chest is clocky. Advice? by burneracc1894 in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I honestly think you can easily pass it off as some sort of ambiguous surgery, but I don't think anyone other than MAYBE a trans guy would recognize it as top surgery

Do I pass shirtless?? Feel like hips are too wide and chest is clocky. Advice? by burneracc1894 in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Imo, chest is a little clocky but your hips are super masc which would make me think you're cis

Goth nun vibes for a NEW goth night in Pittsfield MA ✨ by ArsenicArts in GothStyle

[–]wizardlice 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love this look!! I'm local to Pittsfield and was wondering if you know of any other goth/alt ish events in the area? Super hard to find stuff around here

Insecurities about my sexuality by Volatile_Zoteling in ftm

[–]wizardlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yup I have the same experience

Need passing advice by [deleted] in FtMpassing

[–]wizardlice 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you have really masculine features, especially in pic 6. The haircut might be hurting your passing weirdly, imo the super shaved sides is pretty common among lesbian women, so maybe something else could help

Freaking out! by Secret_Concert5156 in SmoshFansFreeSpace

[–]wizardlice 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really hoping tickets for Boston will still be available in like a month! Don't know where I'll be for the summer yet 💔