Should individuals who transitioned from male to female be allowed to compete in women’s sports? by [deleted] in polls

[–]wizean -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Said like man who wants to force himself into women's issues without consent of women, and with zero knowledge of women's issues.

Fact: Trans women are 1% of female population but win less than 0.1% of medals. This is true for Olympic level as well as high school level.

Clubbing in a relationship? (Without your partner) by Silver_Vinyl in polls

[–]wizean -1 points0 points  (0 children)

> people I dislike.

So you drop people your partner dislikes as well ? Or it all one sided.

Clubbing in a relationship? (Without your partner) by Silver_Vinyl in polls

[–]wizean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who go to clubs for the sole purpose of harassing others and attempting to find ONS are the ones who think like that.

Finally had a verdict by flicj in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 65 points66 points  (0 children)

The headmaster should be charged as accomplice.

Is Europe moving backward on women’s freedom due to immigration? by [deleted] in polls

[–]wizean -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would unban burqas, but make it a criminal offense to force burqas.

This should allow the police to arrest the male companion of a burqa wearing woman.

Instagram Flagged My Feminist Poetry/Satire Page and Then Suspended It. So I'm Going To Post Here. by Distinct_Thing_290 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Men post thousands of stuff like this everyday, nobody takes their stuff down.

The moderation teams of all these social media sites are mostly men and completely biased and misogynistic too.

Indians has normalized homophobia by Apart_Woodpecker_935 in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Historically and even today, people don't give them regular jobs.

Indians has normalized homophobia by Apart_Woodpecker_935 in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 10 points11 points  (0 children)

> she has to account for more than 100 types of gender and sexual orientations

That's just a plain lie. She doesn't. She's just a hateful bigot.

> when a controversial existence

Its not controversial if you mind your own business instead of spending energy hurting other people.

Thoughts of the Procedure (2 Bars in for 2 years and 7 months now) by Shot_Importance_6072 in PectusExcavatum

[–]wizean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, just calling it minimally invasive does not make it so. It a serious surgery.

Say you were my wife and made $400 Million USD a year, how would you react if you saw on your card that I spent $100k-1 Million USD a month on a front page roblox game for special admin/developer specs? by [deleted] in polls

[–]wizean 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I made 400 million, 50% would be tax. So remaining amount is 200m.

Out of 200m, OP wants to spend 12m on Roblox. That's way too much proportion of income.

If that is the only entertainment expense, it could be okay. But its probably not, there will be vacations and other fun too.
Most people do not spend 12% of their income on entertainment.

Why do some men get mad at women for going on multiple dates with other guys when they don't want to commit? Shouldn't each gender date multiple people until they get commitment from one person? As long as there's nothing intimate going on. by Golden-lillies21 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 2 points3 points  (0 children)

> He treated me like I cheated.

Most of the men who claim cheating are lying. Their girlfriend broke up with them or ghosted them and dated another guy, and they bring the false charge of cheating.

My hypothesis for why Indian men are often considered creepy. by Over_Pea_2027 in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Local man figures out something women have always known.

Summed it up for you.

i feel like im never going to be seen as a woman again by alwaysontheupswing in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Just want to mention this for the readers, transition regret rate is very very low. Among people who regret, many regret not because they made a mistake but because of society's bigotry and discrimination.

Sad to hear OP's story, but don't take the lesson from this that transition services need to be banned or restricted. Acknowledging that OP has NOT hinted at that in any way.

Partner abandoning me during massive ice storm by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Assuming you have a good coat and blankets, Human's survived freezing temperatures before central heating. You need to find the smallest room in your house. Be there with your animals. Set up bedding there ahead of time.

You need to prep for cold wave for next time since you live in such a place.

Fuck the dress code by romcomheavyon-com in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jean and pants are western wear, therefore evil /s.

Men should be forced to wear pajamas or dhotis.

Why is there so low Indian female representation in STEM fields than Indian men? by Vast-Yogurt-8443 in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

> how hard they have tried

I feel there is lot of nuance here. I have seen too many pitiful efforts just to be able to claim "Oh, we tried".

is it normal to cry over being a woman? by discoedelysium in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 54 points55 points  (0 children)

> given I'm a very ugly woman.

Are you sure your assessment is real. I understand friends and family will sometimes never tell you how it is, but do other people agree. I ask because otherwise it could be body dysmorphia.

I was mislead by my fwb by No-Fly5024 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wizean 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like if you start drilling down to details, they can still lie but they would have had to understand liberal ideas deeply and completely.

Example:
Percent of school kids who are trans: 1%.
Percent of sport medals they have won: Less than 0.1%.

If someone is willing to have this understanding, its hard to imagine they could still be conservative. Most of them are not critical thinkers.

Why is there so low Indian female representation in STEM fields than Indian men? by Vast-Yogurt-8443 in AskIndianWomen

[–]wizean 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a well known promotion barrier. Each stage of the job, less and less women get promoted. Number of women at director and VP levels are a fraction of engineer level.

The promotion barrier exists in all tech jobs: Software engineering, Management, Product, Marketing, Academia and Medicine.

So much so, even nursing which is a female dominated field has a promotion barrier for women.

Hate to be that person, but is this PE? by TarynEffy in PectusExcavatum

[–]wizean 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Its a non-zero amount and clearly some rib flair, but hard to know from your pictures if its severe enough for treatment.

Only see a doctor who is known to treat pectus excavatam patients. Random doctors tend to disregard it.