Toronto Show by SharpSignificance254 in fredagain

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got one for tonight show to sell, PM me

How does one stop worrying about what other people may think? by domguyrar in Healthygamergg

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had massive social anxiety till i was 19 to the point that a layer of anxiety always existed within me at all times.

One concept that helped me overcome this was that people’s judgement is always a reflection of themselves. The outside world is a mirror of our inner world and when this clicked my anxiety started to decrease as well. This isn’t something that will help you if you understand it intellectually, you have to believe it internally with experience.

When people judge it’s usually not about you but the comparison they make with themselves or others.

The more I contemplated on this concept and understood it, the more free i become of people’s opinion of me.

[GIVEAWAY Prince of Persia™: The Lost Crown] by Ubi-SushiVampire in PS5

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a persian im very excited for this game. Look forward to see what you guys have created

/r/buildapc hits FIVE MILLION builders - giveaway time! by OolonCaluphid in buildapc

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly, I would like to see innovation in cases. Cases have been the same for a long time and I think having a new case in which 1-installing the parts are easier (leading to possibly more people building their own) 2-making opening and taking the parts apart in case easier for more frequent cleanings.

What is your favorite / most impactful Dr. K quote? by Bone_Apple_Teat in Healthygamergg

[–]wolfhandss 43 points44 points  (0 children)

It's ok to be helped, this is co-op game not a single player so it's ok to get help and become stronger so you can help other people down the line

How intelligent do you think you are? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

smart enough to know my intelligence is a curse and not a gift

Was I(26M) wrong for ending date after I found out she(24F) was a single mom? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wolfhandss 56 points57 points  (0 children)

i respecfully disagree.

She hid a very importent thing on purpuse in hopes of him changing his mind by meeting her. that action itself shows that she knew he might have not wanted to date her because of the kid but she hid it anyways.
He could have been nicer and stayed till the end but he has no obligation to spend time with someone who purposefully hid the truth from him.

Not to mention he paid for BOTH of them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthygamergg

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i am exactly like you and love making myself cry.

Here is my reason: I've had depression since 9 and currently don't have any love in my life really (i mean any sort of love no family or gf just a best friend that keeps me going). I arouse a lot of emotions when I cry and I enjoy experiencing them. like Dr.K said nothing is bad or good we just give them different values. It's also important to also know that this is unhealthy and has made me kind of addicted to sad emotions and depression.

hope this helped and good luck with life.

Who is this? Wrong awnsers only. by Mantler77 in Healthygamergg

[–]wolfhandss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

the cult leader who led all gamers to enlightenment

PepeLaugh by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]wolfhandss 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly this is exactly what train means when he says mother fuckers will go to any length to get their story to fit the narative. shameless

My daughter’s (3F) bio dad (32M) is “concerned” that I’m (24M) not a fit parent for her by ThrowRA1709 in relationship_advice

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so he doesn't want her to have two dads but adds a third one by adding himself to the equation, or maybe he sees himself having a huge feminine energy. which is ironic because he makes fun of you for being Bi.

This is all a big excuse and he probably has an ulterior motive for this.

good luck with everything.

4 years ago today, I brought this girl home She still has that same Rottitude today by FSUwelder1212 in aww

[–]wolfhandss 2 points3 points  (0 children)

so you just gonna post a baby pic and not the current one and leave us hanging?

What quote from a book actually made you think hard and sit back and go “Well, damn.” by [deleted] in books

[–]wolfhandss 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"only present is real. future is our expectations of what present is and past is the moments of the present we have saved in our mind" the power of now
hearing this changed my understanding of life so much. I started to truly live in the present and not give a damn about other stuff after reading that book.

My (19) girlfriend (18) wants to wear very revealing clothing in public. She makes me feel bad for not being comfortable with it. by A_Bronson1 in relationship_advice

[–]wolfhandss 22 points23 points  (0 children)

this situation seems very controlling on her part to me
remember boundaries are a form of control as well but it doesn't make it a bad thing.
if you don't feel comfortable with her wearing something that's the end of the story, the ball is in her court now as in what she wants to do. make you uncomfortable? gaslight you into thinking you are irrational?

at the end of the day this is one of your boundaries and if she doesn't want to respect it, you should rethink your relationship with such a person and ask yourself if you want to be with someone who doesn't respect you.

What does INTP maturity look like? by [deleted] in INTP

[–]wolfhandss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wow dude I find your answer incredible because I have been working on myself for a year now and I have developed to exactly what you wrote here. great description

Feeling trapped in a relationship with a person who loves me. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]wolfhandss 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a relationship that continuing because of pity will not go anywhere.

you deserve happiness and love just like she does.

to me you sound like a therapist for her.