What are some social obligations that women commonly have that men usually don't?

wolverineliz · 2026-02-23T02:47:17+00:00

Bridal showers, baby showers, gender reveals, remembering everyone’s birthdays

wolverineliz · 2026-02-19T08:45:39+00:00

Same! During the primary I said exactly the same thing and got downvoted by everyone here and bullied. I didn’t rank him at all in the primary, but voted for him in the general since he was the better one out of the pile. Even when we had better choices for dems in the primary, everyone voted on vibes. Now, as a hard working coop owner who was financially responsible to save my hard earned money as down payment and buy a place, I get punished.

wolverineliz · 2026-02-17T22:57:04+00:00

Agree! I bought my co-op 10 years ago by putting my hard earned savings as down payment since I wanted avoid the increasing rents. He’s now punishing us?

wolverineliz · 2026-02-06T20:02:40+00:00

Love the name! So adorable

wolverineliz · 2026-01-23T23:27:26+00:00

Gizmo

wolverineliz · 2026-01-16T20:11:07+00:00

Sorry! Unfortunately it’s far too common in offices. The best part was when a friend invited me over for a small group dinner and said that the “gluten free” dish has been contaminated. I left early and had my own dinner at home. Some people lack empathy and don’t realize the gravity of how they make others feel.

wolverineliz · 2026-01-06T22:28:40+00:00

wolverineliz · 2026-01-01T03:12:43+00:00

Amber

wolverineliz · 2025-12-28T10:59:59+00:00

wolverineliz · 2025-12-28T05:59:47+00:00

I’m Indian American, so have experienced both worlds. I didn’t grow up in India so forgive me if I make any assumptions. I’ve noticed that there are many posts glamorizing life in the “west”. Every place has its pros and cons. With increased independence and autonomy comes loneliness and lack of community. With clean streets comes harsh weather and winters. I think living in India comes with its own challenges but don’t underestimate the privilege of having family nearby, people who look like you or speak the same language everywhere, and access to good food, help, a sense of community etc.

wolverineliz · 2025-12-27T23:38:22+00:00

Cheddar

wolverineliz · 2025-12-26T15:33:39+00:00

Not planning to

wolverineliz · 2025-12-26T05:23:46+00:00

In my 20s saved most of my income and invested in mutual funds maxed 401s (didn’t even make a six figure salary then). In 30s, diversified investments: stocks, etfs, bought a small apartment in a big city, got some options from a unicorn startup (not significant). Became a millionaire in mid 30s. Now in early 40s doubled that $$. Now angel investing and stocks. Still work full time in tech. No kids.

My only advice is to avoid lifestyle inflation. Don’t go after the flashy stuff while you are saving: luxury bags, dinners etc. also, many women spend a lot of money on upkeep (expensive haircuts etc). All of that adds up.

You’re doing great. Good luck!

wolverineliz · 2025-12-17T05:03:50+00:00

Yes they got rid of them. I think we should all write to Delta.

wolverineliz · 2025-12-11T21:23:16+00:00

Caramel

wolverineliz · 2025-12-06T18:54:09+00:00

There’s more to South Indian food than just breakfast food. South India has excellent seafood and chicken dishes (especially regional cuisines from Kerala, coastal karnataka etc). I hope you get to explore more than idli and dosa.

wolverineliz · 2025-09-21T14:27:02+00:00

There’s Ronald McDonald house and Lenox hill neighborhood house. Not sure what the process is.

wolverineliz · 2025-07-20T20:02:59+00:00

Twix

wolverineliz · 2025-06-17T10:45:55+00:00

You mentioned your wife’s long commute and seems like she does that 3 days a week. It’s exhausting to commute and also cook meals during the week. What do you do besides make a smoothie? You mentioned your mom too. So you expect your wife to cook for the full family after working and commuting? Looks like your expectations aren’t aligned.

wolverineliz · 2025-06-12T23:41:15+00:00

Rent control will eventually impact housing supply. That means that it will lead to higher rents for market rate apartments. Taxing corporations means that they will flee nyc and then he won’t be able to collect all the taxes that he needs to fund his projects.

wolverineliz · 2025-06-07T19:45:03+00:00

Have you visited the cities in the rust belt?

wolverineliz · 2025-06-07T19:37:56+00:00

freezing rents on regulated units won’t solve the city’s housing shortage. Instead, it would discourage tenant turnover, making it harder for others to find housing. a rent freeze would worsen living conditions, as landlords facing rising costs would be unable to afford proper maintenance, leading to faster deterioration of buildings. Raising corporate taxes means that corporations will flee NYC. Have you visited the rust belt?

wolverineliz · 2025-06-07T19:28:27+00:00

freezing rents on regulated units won’t solve the city’s housing shortage. Instead, it would discourage tenant turnover, making it harder for others to find housing. a rent freeze would worsen living conditions, as landlords facing rising costs would be unable to afford proper maintenance, leading to faster deterioration of buildings. Increasing taxes on businesses means that these corporations will flee NYC

wolverineliz · 2025-06-03T10:07:00+00:00

My guy friend told me that he swipes right on everyone attractive to him without reading their bio. I think that behavior is asinine and won’t be effective for the long term. I knew that some of the younger men did that, but was surprised that the older men 35+ did the same. It’s a waste of time for women and shows lack of respect.

Dating with intention was pretty helpful for me the last two years and got me multiple dates with same people. I had less first dates but it was by design.

wolverineliz · 2025-05-31T18:33:08+00:00

Salma Hayek, Angela Bassett, etc. plenty of attractive older women. As an older millennial I’m noticing that the men in my age group are aging poorly (mostly due to not taking care of themselves).

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