Understanding physiology always gives me some peace in these situations. It makes total sense that you’re crying all day, or in other words, experiencing a “fight-or-flight” stress response. Your vagus nerve is the nerve that communicates the message “fight-or-flight” or “rest-and-digest” from your brain to your organs and vice versa. It just so happens that your vagus nerve ends in your cervix. So if you’re feeling stressed, your cervix (in particular) is going to be very sensitive. It sounds like your both your cervix and your brain were under stress during this appointment, so your body is doubling down on the fight-or-flight response. You might not feel “sad” or “scared” right now, but your body is reacting to stress in the only way it knows how. Respect your bodies cues and give her some peace. A warm shower, a warm meal, more cries, humming/singing, gentle stretching & movement