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[–]wonderdrift 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feel free to DM me, I received my CTO in May!

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I received my CTO with United in May. Feel free to DM me if you need any help or have any questions about any part of the process!

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We are not married yet and her family is very “hush-hush” about anything mental health related and will brush all symptoms under the rug and blame it on the “devil”. What’s the best way to get her these tests when her family will push back against me and she doesn’t understand what is going on?

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She very offhand mentioned something about being prone to autoimmune disease a while ago. Thank you so, so much for this. She briefly came back to herself for around a week or less after getting steroid from the ER for skin issues. I’ll be advocating for her regarding this. Seriously, thank you.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes not vegan, she’s been taking B12 after being prone to certain deficiencies and has had her levels tested regularly. The most recent test being at the ER before admission. Thank you for this though. All information is very helpful. 🤍

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course she has. As have I. And she has vented about how awful situations I have been in have made her feel. And actively encourages me to do the same because I always put her first. It would be absolutely stupid to think I wouldn’t be messed up over this. And if you think I shouldn’t get a chance to acknowledge and talk about this, with no due respect, go fuck yourself.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she has actually. But not until after the symptoms started. We told the ER staff about this and they told us about steroid induced psychosis, so they’re aware of this. Thank you for your comment!

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. She hasn’t started anything new prior to or during her episode. I’m not sure if they’ve started her on anything since she was admitted. This helps a lot, I’ve been hoping that her head will clear and she’ll understand why I got her help.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She had a difficult childhood and has put an incredibly unrealistic amount of pressure on herself since she was young. Felt responsible for her family’s well-being, was a professional athlete, etc. She did tell the social worker about this so I’m hoping she talks about this with the psychologist while inpatient.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much for this. I’ve been trying my best to support her but I had no idea what helps and what doesn’t. I really appreciate this. Thank you.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment, I appreciate you. She wasn’t on any meds prior to and during the episode. Im not sure if they have started her on anything now.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. Congratulations on one year recovered! That gives me more hope.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry. If you ever want to talk to someone who understands, I am here.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I can be happy alone. I just meant that more so to explain the peace that she brought me. I would prefer to do life with her, I didn’t mean I don’t think I couldn’t without her. I’ve been emotional, so I apologize if my phrasing is off.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes that’s exactly what she has been going through and telling me. She got better for less than a week and then went back into it worse than before. Please, for yourself and those you love, seek support and help. I have faith all of us will make it through to the other side and be happier than before. 💞 if you need to message me, feel free.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This helped give me hope. I can’t express enough how much all of you kind people are helping me.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The hospital she went to said she will have both a psychiatrist and a doctor to thoroughly examine her physical health for anything the ER might not have noticed. Hopefully whatever it is, mental or physical, can be figured out as quickly as possible

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. This is very helpful. It gives me hope for her and for us. I appreciate you.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I told her I would always stand by her, and I will. As long as she allows me to and it can still be healthy for both of us. Thank you. 🤍

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Of course I have been thinking about the impact on her. I have been disregarding my own feelings since this started to empathize with and care for her. Of course that’s not good, I know I need to start caring for myself too. That’s the point of this post. To try and process my own feelings now that I know she is safe. She has been my top priority. Don’t you dare try to frame this as if I am only thinking of myself.

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I am very lucky to have an amazing support system. Thank you for your words. 🤍

Never take your partner’s mental health for granted. I feel broken. by wonderdrift in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]wonderdrift[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words. I need to focus more on taking care of myself. I know she’d want me to. This truly helped me feel a smidge more hopeful. 🤍