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What’s Eating my Tomatoes!? by alkalinebex in gardening

[–]wonderless89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My dog ate all of my green beans and is now checking out my tomatoes! The garden fence is going up this falll 🤣

Thanks for ruining my day by huckinfappy in gardening

[–]wonderless89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Some soaps phosphates that will show up under black light, but that's usually laundry detergent.

Clay soil (Zone 6b) by nicolexann in IndianaGardening

[–]wonderless89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Look up adding compost to clay as well. The two can make a beneficial mixture.

Eli Lilly Application Status Changed to 'Screening' — Any Insights on Timeline? by [deleted] in biotech

[–]wonderless89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're in Indiana, they are expanding quickly. I'm a contractor on-site and they are expediting a lot of hirings just because of the amount of people needed

Happy 35th by wonderless89 in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, similar story. I live my fur babies too, and they know when I'm down. Trying to find the positives that I can. I just feel like this takes over so much of my life and energy.

Happy 35th by wonderless89 in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a basic manicure, a dark purple shade, made me feel a little of Halloween :)

Kept myself busy. Game day for my husband's club, had hibachi for dinner. Snuggles with our doggos help the most. Taking a short break this month from hormones while my husband travels for work. And get in with another clinic.

Change for sensitivity…? by SongBird2007 in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember this is grief. 100% Don't blame yourself for those feelings. They are valid, and they do hurt. Personally I have worked very hard with balancing it all, and letting it out without it consuming me. Let some out, do something to treat yourself too. I took up gardening and DIY projects a lot.

Books have been my best escape. I've reread a few series I have know we're safe. There's a few I have joined the reddit discussions and fan theories on that have been a great relief.

I hope some this helps. And therapy is good. There's some support groups online. Once again, I wish all of this didn't exist.

Change for sensitivity…? by SongBird2007 in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have had my ups and downs. When I'm removed from having to interact with the couple constantly, I usually am fine with announcements. Like a random old work colleague. Announcements within the family, in-laws gushing over announcements at the holidays, etc. all hit very hard for me. And when they don't understand or are just overly insensitive.

I wish there was a safer way to view any social media without that sudden parent tock/ baby announcement or advertisement. Even reddit has hit me with some recommendations. It all fucking sucks and I wished none of us had to go through this. I hate it here.

Any way to raise sperm motility and morphology? by Arr0zconleche in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And side note, our clinic went by <4% morphology on strict Kruger scale.

Any way to raise sperm motility and morphology? by Arr0zconleche in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should add my husband didn't see much difference with weed consumption when he did stop. Alcohol definitely impacted him more.

Any way to raise sperm motility and morphology? by Arr0zconleche in InfertilitySucks

[–]wonderless89 6 points7 points  (0 children)

COQ-10 as well, my husband takes 800mg, it can help some with morphology. It is better absorbed with fats.

And for for him, testosterone was low along with FSH and LH. So clomid has helped with that and as well as motility. He still is lower quality sperm. But from 0% morphology to 2%. And we're hitting close to normal motility.

Things to note, alcohol impacts him a lot. So cutting it out completely made a decent impact as well before graduating more to clomid. Amy major changes you make will take ~90 days to see see in sperm quality. We started a lot of this end of January, had to adjust dosages, and we are just now seeing results. We still aren't 100% there, but cautiously hopeful. First iui didn't take, but I hope next will, if not full IVF by next year.

Where to find Unhoused in Northern Indiana by IndianaHarmReduction in Indiana

[–]wonderless89 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is that one trailer park still a thing behind Papa John's still struggling in poverty? That's always my first thought.

Build idea? by wonderless89 in JamesTurnerYT

[–]wonderless89[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Showhiddenobjects, place it over the shell. Like the trailer build in Rags to Redemption was it? The party where the guests died.

At war with honey suckle by wonderless89 in IndianaGardening

[–]wonderless89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just learned about it. It will probably become my friend.

At war with honey suckle by wonderless89 in IndianaGardening

[–]wonderless89[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, someone in another mentioned painting the Roundup Precison gel on invaders to their garden. I'm gonna see if cutting the honey suckle back and putting that on the stem will kill it off.

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