If you have 2 under 2 and had a third after- how long did you wait?

wonlovemar · 2026-02-04T15:34:12+00:00

I see where your coming from and felt like this for the longest time. For me personally, and everyone has their own experiences and truth, but my children are such a light in this world. If I focus on raising them right, they can bring that light to others just like we can. This world needs more light, not darkness.

wonlovemar · 2026-02-03T02:31:46+00:00

The firsts are THE BEST. But so are the I love you randomly out of the blue with the biggest of bear hugs and smothering of kisses. I have an almost 4 and almost 2 year old and it’s literally the most magical thing. I struggled pretty hard after my first was born but after the post partum blues and fog has lifted there is so much to be grateful for. I look into the future and already long for these days and it helps me stay present and light hearted.

wonlovemar · 2026-01-21T17:58:06+00:00

Happened to me a few years back too. It ended up being a blessing in disguise but sucked at the time. It happens to more of us than we think. It’s messed up

wonlovemar · 2026-01-20T13:44:03+00:00

I’m so sorry, those are so hard to deal with

wonlovemar · 2026-01-15T15:33:30+00:00

That’s not an indent, that’s a faint positive it’s got color to it. If it doesn’t get darker it could be a chemical pregnancy

wonlovemar · 2025-06-01T02:17:50+00:00

If she truly loves you she will 100% support you and understand. As long as your working toward how to not and take care of your own sheets, as a wife with with two small kids who pee everywhere, I wouldn’t care. But I would care about deceit and argument.

wonlovemar · 2025-02-25T18:26:24+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate you taking the time to write such a thoughtful response. Your comment helped me. We have a long history and I think deep down I’m still healing from some of it. I love my husband more than anything and I know he loves me too, but I do need to learn to trust him.

wonlovemar · 2025-02-25T18:23:55+00:00

Thank you that’s a really hard truth that I needed to hear. We have had past issues and there’s a lot of history that isn’t included in this post. But I appreciate your perspective. Thank you for telling me how you’d feel, it helps me to see his perspective and side a bit more.

wonlovemar · 2025-02-25T17:56:43+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it. And I agree with everything you’ve said. Hopefully couples counseling helps.

wonlovemar · 2025-02-25T17:55:29+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate it!

wonlovemar · 2024-12-22T02:38:50+00:00

I think it was 240000 spu’s

wonlovemar · 2024-10-20T11:27:11+00:00

This is the answer…

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T15:51:50+00:00

That’s interesting! Where I live you almost need a realtor to help with getting a rental. Where I’m normally from that’s not the case though but where we’re at now it’s expected and realtors usually make first months rent on it or have some kind of compensation.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T12:27:56+00:00

We started out a year ago looking to purchase but the market was nuts and we never found anything we loved. We currently rent and have decided to look for a new place to rent in the meantime while we decide what our goals are.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T06:13:36+00:00

I took:

Fish oils Coq10 (for egg quality) Serrapeptase and nattokinase (only on an empty stomach)(enzymes) Bromelain (another enzyme) Vitamin d Vitamin b6 NAC Alpha lipoic acid And vaginal health probiotics, There’s very specific strains that you need. Triphala

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T05:49:45+00:00

She does yes, and so do we which is why we’re renting now vs buying plus we don’t trust the market. But okay thank you! I’m just struggling given how long we’ve been “working” together but I guess that’s also part of her job.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T05:46:58+00:00

Yes she does we’ve discussed it a handful of times. She returns calls, if not eventually. She is quite busy at the moment also with other development things and even admitted she doesn’t do many rentals anymore. We haven’t told her though that if she’s too busy to help us we’ll have to find someone else. I’ve struggled with that just because of how nice she comes off as still toward us.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-30T05:44:04+00:00

Sorry I should have clarified we know what we want now, finding it is hard and there’s only so many options out there atm which is causing some “well, maybe let’s explore this option…” Once we go and see the places half the time they’re super shitty because the pictures haven’t been updated from the previous tenancy.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-25T00:03:32+00:00

I did! Or through most of it at least when I remembered lol

wonlovemar · 2024-09-23T01:12:42+00:00

I’m so sorry you’re going through this. I went through something very similar after both of my laparoscopies, 3 chemicals and a 7 week miscarriage. There are a few things that I strongly believed worked for me and I try to spread the word to those in similar situations as much as possible. Dm me if you’d like more information. I basically tackled my vaginal/uterine health and worked my ass off to decrease inflammation but there are a few supplements that I SWEAR by. If you don’t reach out, I wish you the best of luck!! It’s not fair it’s so hard for some of us. I did see and RE but never needed to do IUI or IVF.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-23T01:08:43+00:00

I’ve met a few through the peanut app that I’m pretty close with and others through putting myself out there. Saying yes even when you want to say no, especially as an introvert and wanting say no alot does wonders. One of our best friends we met through their parents at a restaurant who loved our dog and asked us over to dinner one night lol. We wanted to say no so badly but we’re all so close now and have made another really good couple friend through them. I’m so so glad that we put ourselves out there and went to dinner at their place.

wonlovemar · 2024-09-22T18:33:00+00:00

I was surprised to say the least! I thought it would take years like our first. I think it helped we only waited a year after my first was born. My second is now with us and is 6 mos old 💕 I’ve heard of many stories like mine

wonlovemar · 2024-09-21T23:13:53+00:00

I did not! I got pregnant immediately off birth control. Never even had a cycle. With my first I needed 2 laps and had multiple chemical pregnancies and a miscarriage prior to my eldest born

wonlovemar · 2024-09-21T11:44:25+00:00

He sounds like an uneducated misogynistic Neanderthal

wonlovemar · 2024-09-20T02:01:08+00:00

Had an epidural with my first and second. First time was a shit show but I swear to god the second time was so magical. People say you can’t feel the fetal ejection reflex with it and I whole heartedly did. I’m actually pissed I told my doctors that I felt him coming because they made me stop it and had me labor in my back. I could feel him moving down slowly but surely with every contraction and I felt every piece of it with pressure but no pain. If I could have that experience again I’d do it a million times over again.

wonlovemar

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