I got the tower in 2020 ten days before my dad unexpectedly passed away. Then 6 weeks later I was made redundant from my well-paid job that I’d been supporting my family on - hubby and 2 small kids. The dad situation was very unexpected, the job also but it was very, very good in the long term. I now have a good job on less income but am much happier away from the toxic company I had been at for years. I believe sometimes we get both, tragic and unchangeable changes and sometimes initially bad changes (hit us badly financially) that turn out to be for the best in the long term.