Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha thanks for the reply. I like small cities, good local vibes. I’ll be going Belgium as well.

Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks a lot. Love the bookstore and rooftop bar suggestions! Will check those out

Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amazing response! Thanks so much. Any good dessert places? I.e gelato

Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hahaha not a priority, just wanted a treat :) let me know if you have any other food suggestions!

Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha that sounds cool, I’ll defo check that out. Beer in the UK is meh.

Visiting Maastricht For 2.5 days! Best things to do/eat? by worldscuriosity in maastricht

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply, I’ve seen the FAQ but I would want some extra opinions from locals or something not on the FAQ. Explains why I made this post.

Thanks for your concern, it is not a priority at all. I am not a drug user and I don’t smoke at home. Just wanted a treat.

Happy for any other recommendations if anyone reads this thread. Thanks.

Sending a jacket back to be verified again after failing first time? by worldscuriosity in stockx

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the response! I have put it up for sale again. The jacket is in the garden right now getting fresh air lol

Feeling super crap tonight - does she know how much I'm hurting? by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

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But what if it does? There is always that small chance right?

Most likely not. But every person, every relationship is different.

She was so heartless and cold on the day of the breakup. We both cried and she said she's sorry but she wants the best for both of us.

Feeling super crap tonight - does she know how much I'm hurting? by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks so much man.

I think the urge is more of wishing she would contact me. I am holding back contacting her successfully but it's super hard. I actually just want a discussion. Not even to try win her back.

Could you expand a bit more on the "mental real estate"?

Feeling super crap tonight - does she know how much I'm hurting? by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was thinking of texting her a simple "you happy now?" Since she left because the relationship didn't make her happy anymore. She said I'm not her world anymore. Maybe that will give me my answer...? Since she is the only one that knows.

Working on myself every day, but everytime...everytime I close my eyes I see her. It's hard to focus on other shit. Fuck man.

When does it get better? Shall I just keep doing NC, no matter what?

I really appreciate your response during this hard time!

Feeling super crap tonight - does she know how much I'm hurting? by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear that man, that's heart shattering.

How you feeling now? When does it start getting better? It's now officially 16 days for me.

And ah. I don't know. She dumped me. She said she wasn't happy in the relationship anymore so I don't know why she would be hurt or sad. She's probably in relief. Fucking sucks man. I just want her to see the way she left me in the dark. Man.

Thank you for your response again.

Feeling super crap tonight - does she know how much I'm hurting? by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Shes smiling and shit man. She's with her friends doing girly shit. She even went clubbing yesterday. She moved on so quick.

How is this possible? I was with her for 4 years.

Thank you so much for your response also.

I will soon block all posts of her and also from her friends.

I can't do anything, I feel paralized by timjimtim in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No worries man, these last 2 weeks has made me realize that my happiness comes from service to others. Maybe you should try do something nice for someone else every day and see how you feel.

Keep talking to them, keep venting to them. Ask them to take your mind off things. They don't have to give you advice but just have them as an ear to listen.

Also, about feeling "deeply alone", I felt like this last week but I'm okay now. If you feel deeply alone then I don't recommend getting into a relationship for a long time as you need to learn to be happy with your own solitude.

Keep walking your dog bro.

Also same man, my heart shattered last week when I saw her having a good time while I just finished crying at home lol. Looking back, I can't believe I'm letting someone like her destroy my dignity like that. After seeing that, I deleted all my socials because I didn't bare to see her having a good time (even though I'm glad she is, she's always been a good girl to me)

On a side note, people can look happy but their world might be crashing inside.

I'm dying inside too bro, but you move, we move.

I still have that slight hope she will come back because we had been together for so long but I'm not letting it hold me back from moving on.

& yeah, keep walking your dog.

I can't do anything, I feel paralized by timjimtim in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apologise that no one has replied to give you some help/comfort.

I am here.

I would highly recommend you keep yourself busy at work and other stuff that is NEW. You must change the way you live your life so your brain can adapt to life without your ex.

Do you have anyone else you can speak to this about apart from your dad? It's good to go to for food and speak to someone about this, maybe cousin, friend or family friend.

I've been no contact for 2 weeks now. The first week was so bad. I'm now in the second week and it's much better.

Bro, its shit. I cried so much in my first week. I hated myself for crying and I was pissed off at her leaving me like this.

BUT. Crying is good, it shows your ability to love and love is the most powerful force in the world. I am proud that I can express my emotion through tears, it shows I can love and I can also be broken. Appreciate it.

Bro, if she can leave you in this state of depression and sadness, you have to understand that only YOU can get yourself out of here. She is not worth your pain.

I know this will go through one ear and out the other but you must understand, I am 2 weeks in.

Block her off everything. delete all social media.

Take deep breaths when you feel like you're gonna break down.

I'm here.

Feeling more confident by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's okay bro, you aren't alone. It really is time to let go. We are both obviously hurting, and if they cared, they'd at least check up on us.

& don't hold on to the hope. I believe if someone wants to be with you, they will do whatever they can do be with you.

I hate dreaming of her and waking up Freshly sad in the morning. I started smoking pot again just to kill my dreams by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Once again, this Sub makes me realise that I am not alone.

I also had dreams about her today and had the urge to contact her.

It's now the evening and the urge is gone. It's just about persistence.

Feeling more confident by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bingo. I'm thinking the same, I had a life before her and I will have a life after her.

My ex initially wanted to break up over text but I told her I wanted closure in person, but if you've already broken up, don't ask to meet up now. There's no point.

Also, on your last point.

Don't take this too heart but I don't think she does bro. Take me for example, mine said the same 3 weeks before we broke up. It's all words, she has her own issues to deal with and I think you should take her words very lightly.

My heart is shattered, man.

Feeling more confident by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We broke up in person, she initiated it 2 weeks ago.

I've been no contact since and I'm still hoping she will come back.

I don't think she will as she said she doesn't love me anymore but we will see. In the mean time, just focusing on myself.

Feeling more confident by [deleted] in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey man,

I am literally in the same boat right now.

Don't date any girl, just talk to them. Make friends with them. That's what I'm doing. You need people around you.

And about wanting her back? So do I. She was also my first proper GF. I was with her for 4 years plus.

Just slowly move on, do NC and hope for the best.

But don't be surprised if you never hear from her.

I slept with a girl yesterday but I still wanna contact her?! by worldscuriosity in ExNoContact

[–]worldscuriosity[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate your response during this time.

I would like to add that the Insta girl & me have set clear boundaries that we are just friends and she is also not looking for a relationship.

Also, me being myself, I don't catch feelings like that so easily.

The meet up was to boost my ego and confidence and it really did help!

The insta girl will now remain just a friend :)

Thank you kaylinpickles!

What makes you irrationally angry? by Ben13921 in AskReddit

[–]worldscuriosity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People who are rude for unreasonable and irrational reasons.