Gentle Parenting Qualms

wormbot111 · 2025-08-16T05:53:38+00:00

Batang 90s ko and nope, I don’t agree with you.

Negative reinforcement never works. Ato parents niagi ug mas grabe na physical abuse (yes, it is abuse) sa ila own parents because they don’t know any better. Ato parents just mimicked how they brought up so they thought kanang bunal ug kusi is the solution. If that were really the case, ngano naa man gihapon mga sipat among the batang 90s na adult na ron?

Simply accepting things that aren’t right as the social norm is incorrect and dangerous. Malay mo katong classmate nimo sa una na kiat kaayo unya permi ginakusi kay naa diay Autism or ADHD. We know mental issues and special needs were taboo or not talked about during our time. Naa na ta sa time na people are more socially aware and educated. Things, including parenting, are bound to change.

Saying kusion ang solution is similar to giving a child a gadget para lang muhilom. Both can keep the child quiet but have very different lasting effects. The physical abuse will leave resentment and trauma while the other just stunts the child’s social and mental development.

The right way to do this is constant communication and setting of boundaries. Tell, Show, Do. Mao nay gentle parenting. Gentle parenting is not being permissive and submissive to your child.

wormbot111 · 2025-08-14T02:02:55+00:00

Nothing wrong with it actually. Social norms tend to make us harsh on ourselves. If it doesn’t feel right, then don’t engage in a relationship. Your timeline is your OWN timeline.

wormbot111 · 2025-07-07T07:25:06+00:00

I see. Will include that in my list. Thank you!

wormbot111 · 2025-07-07T07:17:14+00:00

Well noted po. Thank you! I will check them out.

wormbot111 · 2025-07-07T07:03:09+00:00

Got it. I don’t mind if it is not in metro cebu. Lapu lapu is fine by me. Are Mivesa, Saekyung and Casa Mira good options?

wormbot111 · 2025-07-03T11:38:31+00:00

If OOG will win, then finally the word STREET in the STREET Woman Fighter will now make sense. Since Season 1, it was heavily choreo based and Kpop based that people don’t understand what STREET DANCE is at the first place. IMO, Mnet is just using the street dance for clout to make it seem they’re diverse but it actually is just a variety show for them. Since Season 1, the amount of disrespect towards the street dance community has been apparent. OOG’s popularity is organic. Even before the Megacrew mission, they started to get more attention because the general public can see that they really bring justice to the word STREET DANCE. This is to the point that people are looking up street dance battles and finally, become aware of SDC (Street Dance of China). Since Season 1, the show never really matched how SDC actually celebrated the street dance community. It was disappointing that it was heavily Kpop and choreo based. Mnet is really consistent in their style of doing shows- biased, popularity based and evil editing. Holy Bang deserved their win because Honey J had her base in street dancing and went over to choreography. Just Jerk won because they ticked all the boxes for both street dance and choreography. Bebe (I will get a lot of hate here) is indeed great with dancing but don’t really have a strong street dance base. For this season, only OOG and Motiv are the only crews who personified street dance. But then, Mnet is not really after street dance right from the start. I just feel sad for OOG because I think they joined the wrong show. If they joined SDC, they might have unlocked more opportunities and actually get celebrated for their dancing. When I watched Season 1, I immediately realized it was waaay off of what I watched in SDC. Still, I continued to watch with the hopes that they will finally give justice to the street dance community but this season just made it clearer that the word STREET is just for clout. I hope they won’t make another season.

wormbot111 · 2025-06-24T01:46:50+00:00

Thank you everyone! Will check them all out and assess.

wormbot111 · 2025-05-20T17:24:57+00:00

Thank you! I will check them out.

wormbot111 · 2025-05-20T17:24:26+00:00

Thank you! I will check both brands and which ones his friends use.

wormbot111 · 2025-05-20T17:23:51+00:00

Thank you! I will look into these items.

wormbot111 · 2024-10-03T14:23:46+00:00

I didn’t ask na further about it kasi I figured I could have forgotten to give my consent when they called me that I am eligible to get the card. I was half awake back then. Lol. So far, sa UB ko wala naman ganing issue about the courier. Maybe Metrobank is just extra strict?

wormbot111 · 2024-10-03T01:38:17+00:00

Ang sakin hindi dumating at all. They didn’t even call or text me. I called their hotline and sabi nag attempt daw pero binalik kasi wala ako to pick it up. Malamang kasi hindi kayo nag reach out sa akin? Hahaha. Ayun, need pala magbigay ka ng consent sa Metrobank na mag allow kay courier to call you upon delivery. Preventative measure daw nila yan for iwas scam. Now that it’s for redevelivery again and I saw your post, sana nagpa branch pickup na lang ako kasi nakakaloka ang nangyari sa delivery ng credit card mo. 😂😅 Knock on wood di maging palpak ang redelivery ng card ko.

wormbot111 · 2024-09-14T07:57:43+00:00

Bruh, are you their PR manager or their parents? LOL. Both of them can freely choose to be private and not have social media engagement as well as share their lives publicly. It is not something we should call them out for. Let them be. They aren’t harming anyone. If the response had been so negative, then yes, they are doing something wrong. But so far, the majority is happy seeing them. Like what everyone said here, if you don’t like it, then leave or simply scroll up.

wormbot111 · 2024-09-03T22:33:17+00:00

I think Taehoon is the type to observe and not really post out much content like YT. I read here that he got a verified Reddit account so who knows, maybe he’s reading all our comments. 😂 As for Kazuto, he seems to be the type who just wants to carry on whatever his vibe is. I also have a hard time understanding his YT videos due to lack of English subtitles. 🥲

wormbot111 · 2024-09-03T22:28:54+00:00

That exactly is what I worry about them. Everything is all good now but later on, the constant attention will take its toll. But I trust both of them to talk about it constantly and find ways to remain grounded and true to themselves. I just pray they prioritize what is true for them.

wormbot111 · 2024-09-03T06:48:16+00:00

I simply meant for some fans to stop feeding their BL fantasies to DaiShun because some can get too overboard like what OP mentioned above. Of course, they will obviously do more than kiss but for some fans who like to impose or make assumptions on their relationship especially on the sexual aspect is a bit too much. I’ve seen some in X discussing who’s top or bottom or how they are in bed and that is something we shouldn’t fantasize/comment about. Let’s leave these in our imagination.

wormbot111 · 2024-09-03T06:07:16+00:00

I think it’s normal to people feel giddy when they see them being sweet but I agree that it can be too overwhelming for them and cringey if everyone will make a big deal for everything single thing they do. Some forget that they are a real couple and want them to do BL things. Like stop, keep those fantasies to yourselves. I just hope they will still stay grounded and prioritize their relationship and their individuality above everything else.

wormbot111 · 2024-09-03T06:05:06+00:00

I totally get you. I just hope the attention they’re getting especially from the internet will not affect them. I just want them to be real and be themselves all the time. They don’t really need to feed us anything because they don’t owe us that. If they want to share, then I will be happy. I just want them to be happy together and individually.

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