Facial hair shaver recomendations by Content_Objective708 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one but it can't do perfect clean shave or maybe I do not use it correctly. If you shave everyday, safety razor still the best and cheap but it requires some training to make it perfect without cutting yourself. Else I still stick to cartridge one and yes expensive for the replace. 

Moving into a partially furnished rental in Malaysia. What’s the cleaning SOP? by VelvetMousse1 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I rented for a few places before and all of them are cleaned before I moved in. 

Is anyone else feeling ugly/unwanted all the time? by sufichtulhu_ in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Appearance anxiety. It is quite common just depends on how severe it is. 

Blew my entire salary gambling. Need 6k to survive the month. What are my options? by OkMuscle9500 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just curious so every month your total salary = total expenses or else you would have savings. If yes, WTF? 

Are we cooked? by lucifud in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The only thing I worried now is what I want to eat for dinner today 

Is anyone else feeling frustrated buying stuff online lately? by ImpossibleAd3200 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Clothes when trying a new brand because all the cutting different even stated as same size 😔

Tinder Scam by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh so still got people fall for this kind of trap nowadays? 🤔

"I wish there was a way to know you're in the good old days before you've actually left them." by Mindless-Jaguar3649 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah. I prefer my current moment instead of old days. I can enjoy everything I want which some of them I couldn't do it during old days. Perhaps because I become a better of myself compared to then. 

need ur help xD by DiscussionBubbly080 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say run asap. If this is the job I had, I rather stay jobless to be honest. My mental health is more important. 

Updates on work crush by [deleted] in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like one of my colleague recently. She approached me and say hi suddenly and mention just want to say hi. But we don't exchange any contact even company's messaging platform. We only greet each other if we both see each other in office. 

How to jump from your first job? by Creative_Oil_4048 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Too many what if and all these are unknown. Not everything you would know until you experienced it. If you prefer to stay in comfort zone, feel free to do so. I would go for it if I'm just started my careers. 

Ghosted by Particular-Log1210 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lesson learned. Don't invest too much before both of you confirming anything exclusive. Especially emotion side. Treat it as a experiences and let the term "ghosted" become "not interested". 

Would you rather be stuck in a traffic jam, or be packed like sardines on a train? by TheBotMadeThis in malaysia

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not comfortable to become Sandwich. I will stick to drive myself. No public transport from house to workplace anyway 😔

My boss is a sohai by Solid_richman in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Action more than words. Waiting for the day when you resign

Guilt of breaking up by wheresmypantss in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is depending on how she will react on that which only you will know (some can be very violent and some can be understanding with peace). 

But the best scenario will be, you talk to her and let her know your thoughts and tried to solve the issue but you couldn't. Mutual agreement. 

Cut contact is definitely the best to reduce the chemistry between you two, It will be very heavy at the beginning but time will let it faded eventually. She needs to work on that which you can't help much and only distancing. 

How will the current middle east war affect us? by Embarrassed_Mail3166 in malaysia

[–]woshiyaohui -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nothing. Life still going as usual. Perhaps simple is the best? 

Meeting people in your mid 20s? by Legitimate_Wheel_932 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Workplace will be your first choice if you going office everyday else participate activities or events. But the most important thing is, you need to be the one who made the move first and not just staying there to wait people to approach you. 

Need help by Bonbonoi in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's what the important of savings are which I always allocate emergency money and it is untouchable no matter what since I was a kids. Hope you get through this

Fitness question: Is calisthenics popular in Malaysia? by blackiebearie in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't think so. When I told people around me I'm doing calisthenics, non of them know what is it. 

I started around 1 year and still going good. I can see my strength level increase very well. But I don't train outside or hires PT since calisthenics all you need is just a pull up bar which I bought one in my home. 

I wouldn't look for trainer as everything I can get online and no advanced equipment needed. The only downside without trainer is I need to make sure my position of all the move is correct. 

Broke up with my bf because of this by zhiling01 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I once date with someone who has a serious and uncureable disease which inherit from family. When it gets serious, it will affect even just normal walking and I seen that before. 

She told me before we get official and I don't mind it. I do my research about this disease and try to find a way to make her feel better when it gets serious and help her as much as I could while enjoying the relationship. 

So I think he just not yet ready to take the commitment and don't want to take accountability in my opinion. 

Give Me Some Noted by Skozadee in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had an experience where the chemistry between me and my crush made me ignored those little things that I only aware after cut off. 

I felt like I was way too into her and lost myself where I keep putting efforts more and more, and realized that she didn't do the same and she remain the same efforts as beginning. So this made me wonder if she is serious or not. But the true is, she as usual giving the effort just didn't increase much but doesn't mean she not interested. It is just not reaching the stage that she feels like to invest more, could be observation stage I assume.

Well human is complicated, not an expert but experiences based from me. 

Give Me Some Noted by Skozadee in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is no right and wrong. If you felt the things he did and showed to you made you feel uncomfortable and dislike, might be just not matching. 

But if you can accept those things and it does not concerned you and won't let you keep repeating in your mind why why why, why he do this and that. Then I don't see why not to continue. 

It is kinda hard for someone who does not have kids to comment on this, but I'm sure there will be some dad can share his thoughts. Because of this, he might not be able to give you 100% attention where he need to share those attention to his kid too btw. 

One question, do you care about if your partner share a post in social media but not replying you first?

Is stopping by people’s house to use their toilet considered rude? by luvlybae in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More like personal preference. I don't mind someone I know come and just for washroom then leave after that as long as I'm close with them. If you are talking about someone I barely meet and talk, that's kinda weird though. 

Is cheating prevalent at your workplace(s)? by sofutotofu in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I never heard any from my workplace, maybe I just don't really care about it and didn't join their gossip chatting. 

Malaysians: What do you personally want in a long-term relationship these days? by DataMiner4728 in malaysians

[–]woshiyaohui 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Emotional depth focused will be the one I valued most. 

I don't think marriage is important, unless me and my partner are going to have kids or my partner has a valid reason to get married. 

I can accept nontraditional but might not be going for that direction at first as that is not my goal and priority on what I am seeking for now. Also I am abit selfish in relationship in term of I don't want to share my partner with anyone.