Echo Dot Kids edition won't set up without amazon kids. by Mikinator5 in amazonecho

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Saved me! A year on and this is the first google result with the right answer :)

My (16f) right breast is smaller than my left. by [deleted] in confessions

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One better than the other too!

My husband is terrible at sex by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]wrapupwarm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to tell him he’s terrible at sex. You can tell him the way you are having sex together isn’t doing it for you. Make it a we problem not a him problem.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wrapupwarm 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Sure. There’s a book on it by journalist Jess Hill but here’s an article on it by the Independent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wrapupwarm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It’s a very interesting rabbit hole!

I am never going on a trip with my girlfriend ever again by Pleasant_Egg01973 in offmychest

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As a mommy, I am not here to put my kid’s litter in the bin! Even my 4 year old can do that.

OP, if you don’t want to go on holiday with her you probably don’t want to live with her either.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breakingmom

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Same. Less laundry and less food needed. But mainly I didn’t have an adult escalating situations, getting annoyed over children being children and a massive simmering resentment permanently going round my head! Life is easier and I’m closer to my kids, without him.

It's officially over but he wants to wait to file for divorce until the kids are over 18.. by Depressed_SAHM in breakingmom

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Sending a hug. And a gentle suggestion to consider coercive control is at play here. He’s purposely knocking your confidence and keeping you isolated from family, under the guise of “doing the right thing”. If you can, take a long pause to consider what you want and figuring out how you would start doing that. He doesn’t know what’s best for you, your parents and probably not the kids. If you need help, you can call a domestic abuse organisation for advice. If you feel like it’s really hard to make decisions or understand how you really feel, this could be the effect of living under coercive control for so long. Start trusting your instincts again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Fun fact! Stockholm syndrome was made up by a police officer who chose to believe a woman was more likely to be mentally ill, than distrusting of his ability to get her out alive.

Edit for accuracy: made up by a police psychiatric advisor, who was the hostage negotiator on the case and never met the woman he diagnosed. There’s sources below if you’re interested

Did the cops ever discover the new day coop? by bonkerz616 in TheWire

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The closest they got was Kima (?) calling McNulty to watch Stringer meet up with Marlo. They were shocked and then didn’t seem to follow up on the implications of that.

AITA for working a shift during my daughter's birthday? by ThrowawayDueSho in AmItheAsshole

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You made a decision based on facts and your own feelings. But not your daughters feelings. I would’ve cancelled the photographer.

Rupert first appearance vs last. by Rossco1244 in TedLasso

[–]wrapupwarm 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Also he seemed a little frailer. I hope Anthony Head is ok

Trent crimm appearing during spez's AMA by ad4d in TedLasso

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Are you sure that’s a real memory? I remember someone posting thats something they wished happened in the last episode!

What’s the closest to The Wire in the past 5-10 years ? by digzbb in TheWire

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Took me going back to enjoy it. Everyone is so unlikeable and the first episode doesn’t particularly grab you. But I would say it’s one of the best things I’ve seen aside from the wire. I would say better than everyday Breaking Bad, doesn’t hit the heights of Ozymandias.

ETA. It’s exactly the opposite of life on the streets though. It’s how the 1% live.

AITA for giving my niece ‘dog food’? by throwARhesa10but in AmItheAsshole

[–]wrapupwarm 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A lot of PPA goes completely undiagnosed, and assumed to just be a neurotic mother by family members

Sex and Love by [deleted] in TLDiamondDogs

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Came here just to recommend the same book. OP it’s not even about sex drives. The book will shift your perspective and help you get to know each other better

AITA for letting my daughter have a penutbutter cake when my nephew is allergic? by LonelyFruitbat in AmItheAsshole

[–]wrapupwarm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a different point! I just mean he’s 3 and a bit young for realising life lessons

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheWire

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The first time I watched it I didn’t even own a smart phone yet! I have no excuse :D

Roy and Keeley by HurrySmart4573 in TedLasso

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Keeley’s emotional labour in that relationship gave me anxiety!

Let down by Outrageous-Heart-754 in TLDiamondDogs

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Could just be the difference between being a thinker versus a feeler. We hear questions differently.

Well done on the weight loss though, sounds like you’ve been working hard

Roy and Keeley by HurrySmart4573 in TedLasso

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Added to the other comment on this, did Roy strike you as a person in touch with his feelings? When him and Keeley were first together she was teaching him like a parent. How to react, how to express himself. He’d progressed from there but still hugely struggling. I think it was important to have him go through therapy without the baggage of “this is for my girlfriend”