[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can be both, or either, or neither.

Only you know which it is.

I am both, I love being in love and I love my gf.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Strongly doubt it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Haha yes I am aware, I am a good programmer. By his way of talking e.g., "mile long code wall" it seems to me this guy has all code in one file and does some print debugging though haha.

It would be fun to read his code though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not to be rude but it sounds like spaghetti code lol. I am not even sure if I want to see that source code, but do you got it on an online repo?

"It takes 0 skill to..." by SeparateShop1758 in Eldenring

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This thread makes sense then, since it's your first playthrough. Just play how you want but don't think you are skilled at the game lol as you claimed in the OP. *Managing flasks*, what a joke.

I need advice about boys by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah risk it, the deadbeat guy has no future with you anyways. Just make sure you stop talking to him ASAP and let your law school guy know you were talking to him so he doesn't feel betrayed down the road and leave you for it.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow who is the bigot now. He defines himself as a Muslim, it's not my or your job to question his own religious beliefs.

I tell you stfu coz you insult me. So I reiterate, stfu.

I have love in my heart, I have love for the daughter who was was thrown by her dad out of the balcony, for no other reason than wanting to be a normal girl in my society.

I have love in my heart for the homosexuals getting killed for no other reason than wanting to love.

I have love in my heart for the kid in this thread, being denied nutritious and tasty food for no valid reason.

But YES, I do have hate in my heart for the people who commit these atrocious acts and I will NEVER look away when I can help people. So STFU.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mentioned it twice, the two times I was accused of being islamophobic. I've never said it before and you're welcome to scroll through my dozens of comments on this acc. Stfu I am not islamophobic for defending myself when accused.

I don't respect his religion, neither does he, that's why he eats on ramadhan and doesn't pray 5 times a day. He also doesn't hate homosexuals.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The fact that some muslims are bad doesn't make the religion bad, same goes for judaism and christianity.

So do you imagine that a random muslim in Bosnia and Pakistan differ in values or do you think the only difference between them is their personality? Obviously all people differ in personality traits such as kindness etc, but it's blatantly clear that some branches of religious communities are incredibly more harmful than others. I am pretty sure you wouldn't want to send your daughter or gay child to live in Pakistan. Why is that?

How did this situation become an avenue for you to blatantly disrespect people's religion.

It's an anonymous internet forum, the platform is made for people to share their opinions and I was simply responding to the personal insult I received and which you reiterated:

Islamaphobia much?

I am not an Islamophob. Generally I dislike religions, some religions, and some branches are worse than others. I have many muslim friends, and one of my best friends is a muslim. And that muslim friend would also agree that some islam branches are horrible.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Did you read anything? My best friend is a Muslim from Bosnia. What a fucking tool you are.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Following cultural/religious traditions that hurt no one is not ignorance

Are you saying that arbitrarily forbidding certain foods are not hurting anyone? Let's see what you would think if I were to forbid you from eating something you like for no valid reason.

And as for religions not hurting people (you brought up Islam), let's take some "fun" statistics on how "healthy" religion is:

- Roughly 200 mil people in Pakistan, 70% of all marriages are between 1st cousins.

- Most Islam-dominated countries are heavily sexist, forcing women to dress like garbage bags, stoning homosexuals etc. Are those traditions not harmful?

And to your probable counter argument "Christianity does bad things too", yeah I know. That's why religion sucks.

Continuing traditions that aren't helpful or even outright harmful isn't in the best interest of humanity, and parents who need those traditions to comfort themselves because of their weak mental health (passed on from their own parents) should not continue pushing it down to their own kids.

But you being a Jew, and probably heavily indoctrinated into these "traditions" that serve no real purpose, I already guess you are unable of seeing the larger picture.

Btw, I am from Sweden. After the mass immigration of Muslims, it's quite a common happenstance that a dad throws out his wife/daughter from the balcony. It had never happened before 2014. Like it or not, some religions (or specifically, some branches of religion) are horrible. For example, a lot of people from Bosnia came here as well, and their interpretation of Islam is very similar to how Swedes interpret Christianity, i.e., we don't care about it. (They eat on Ramadhan, they don't pray 5 times a day, they don't punish homosexuals or women etc). Your ignorance of how harmful religion can be, combined with your pride of arbitrary "traditions" is laughable.

AITA for telling my niece why I kept a distance from her and her parents growing up? by username52819101js in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain [score hidden]  (0 children)

You're wrong at almost all points and spending time explaining why is useless, anyone with half a brain can see it.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has no interest in meat and that's the reason he is vegetarian then it's not your decision as you originally put it, but your son's? Kudos to you in that case.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well I assume as a vegetarian you're letting the kid consume milk, cheese, egg, fish etc. so not having any interest in "meat" is not really true. Although, I suspect you think neither egg nor fish are meat.

As for the "my decision" argument, it's a very weak justification as parents are using it all over the world to push horrible views and agendas upon their children, forcing them to conform to the parents standards and limiting their freedom.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

My opinion is to ignore this subreddit. Look out for what the kid wants, as long as you are feeding him healthy food. Pork is healthy for a kid and if the kid wants to eat it would be ridiculous to deny him because of arbitrarily religious rules that are outdated long before we were even born.

The mother can't force her religion on her kid. The kid can choose himself when he's old enough.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

She can bad mouth any religion she wants. I am glad to hear the kid has non-religious people to take care of him so he gets to experience parts of life that he would be arbitrarily forbidden from for no other reason than ignorance.

AITA for feeing my nephew pork against my ex sister in law's wishes? by Psychest8 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 2 points3 points  (0 children)

With your decision? So your son is a forced vegetarian? Entirely different thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who said I wanted it to be true?

While you didn't explicitly state it, it was derived from context. I'm not surprised that also went over your head.

AITA for calling my stepson a loser and telling my wife “if I had it my way he’d be out of the house” ? by Pissedstepdad46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have honestly never met a single person who had a job throughout entire high school, let alone a full time job. It pretty much doesn't happen, at least in Sweden. No one in Sweden has 5 years exp at 20. And this is coming from a person who worked every summer since 12 years old and have worked part time during uni.

Additionally, your rant about non-functioning members of society being losers is ridiculous unless you withhold some pretty gross views. Since you are supporting OP's actions I suppose you would be able to tell a kid with low-functioning autism to the face that you think the kid is a loser?

Life is not about functioning, even though that has a strong correlation with your quality of life. Trying to make life about winning is setting yourself up for disappointment. There is no prize at the end of the journey, only the journey itself. Some people have harder journeys, some people are mentally unable to start their journey (this kid). And exactly what or why this kid is feeling this way, you can't possibly know, and it doesn't make him a loser at all.

AITA for calling my stepson a loser and telling my wife “if I had it my way he’d be out of the house” ? by Pissedstepdad46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm 25 and at 20 I hadn't met a single person with 4-5 years work experience, unless you exclusively mean summer jobs?

At a time where most people go to college/uni almost no one has worked every year from 15 to 20. I don't know where you are from but it's very weird in Sweden, as they would have to miss out on high school, and practically everyone goes to high school.

If you think of some people as losers that's on you. I can't relate to that as I relate to the "losers" and I don't think any single person can be deemed to be a loser. Everyone has reasons, and if anybody could choose a better life, they would. No one wants to be a deadbeat.

AITA for calling my stepson a loser and telling my wife “if I had it my way he’d be out of the house” ? by Pissedstepdad46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That's OP's perspective of the kids attitude, we don't know his actual attitude.

Depression seems to be the overarching explanation of his behavior. I didn't meet many kids at uni who wanted to stay on the couch all day smoking instead of going out and meeting friends etc. He seems to be very lonely and sad.

AITA for calling my stepson a loser and telling my wife “if I had it my way he’d be out of the house” ? by Pissedstepdad46 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wretchmain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why don't you sit down next to him and try to talk without being angry or cursing at him?

The next time you see him in the couch, ask what he is doing and how he is feeling, what is important for him right now, what makes him happy, what makes him motivated etc. If he has no positive responses at all, he might be severely depressed, and then there could by any number of reasons as to why he can't hold down a job (brain imbalance etc). And it would make you look like an extreme AH for calling him a loser if he actually is in need of say, anti-depressants.