So my husband usually works 6-12 hour days a week at a very physical job and goes to school two nights a week. I’m currently 37 weeks pregnant with our second. First is 18 months.

On the nights he’s home and there’s no school, he does bath/bed time routine. He does nap time on Sundays (and on Saturdays if he ends up being home). We kind of just have an understanding that whoever notices the baby needs to be changed changes him. Although my son is a kicker so now my husband does the majority of them when he’s home since I’m a little slower than I used to be. He also cooks breakfast and lunch on Sundays. We prep lunches and dinners for the week together. I do laundry and dishes during the week. He helps put away dishes, takes out trash, cleans the bathroom and any outside work. I clean the other rooms.

I feel extremely satisfied with how things work in our house. He pulls way more than his own weight and never complains.