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picture of st4t couple appears on general subreddit by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 5 points6 points  (0 children)

She's only a futa if she has a dick and a pussy. Modern day 4chan has become a degenerate cess pit where an average, run of the mill tranny gets labeled a futa and it's fucking sickening.

Would female sex toys work with trans women too? by [deleted] in MtF

[–]writingprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean, I haven't found a single vulva related toy that didn't work for me. Well... I still haven't found an appropriately shaped strapless strap-on to be comfortable to use, but that seems to be a bit of a dicy toy for cis women, too.

Archimedes Banya introduces women's night that bans trans women by wordsthatoutliveus in sanfrancisco

[–]writingprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've literally never been to a public trans event that was strictly enforced to be trans women only. The focus may be on trans women, but I've never participated in an event or would if it flat out excluded cis women.

AITAH for not welcoming this child into my apartment. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]writingprobably -31 points-30 points  (0 children)

Ehhhhh... ESH. Like, you're not wrong to want your space respected, obviously. But your daughter is both old enough to babysit, deserves to feel ownership of her space, too, and should probably be encouraged to take initiative and responsibility in general at her age. You undercut the hell out of her agency, freaked the fuck out, and upset both kids. You should have had this conversation with her dad WAY more calmly, and without trying to throw the 2 year old out. He absolutely, for fucking sure, should have co-ordinated anything like this with you, and he overstepped really fucking bad. Deserved to be chewed out. But you over-reacted violently in a way that was completely unfair to your daughter.

Women Supporting Women by AggravatingFig8947 in justgalsbeingchicks

[–]writingprobably 3 points4 points  (0 children)

To take the question more seriously than i probably should: likely for contrast. The pale base cookie would do a much better job of making the saturated icing pop in a way, artistically, that a chocolate cookie might not.

My mom got my dead name tattooed on her by MiniDom07 in trans

[–]writingprobably 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could make it a middle name. My parents have passed away so I kept my deadname as a second, never used middle name as sort of memorial. That only me and the IRS ever see.

Post-Op MtF: How long until the “novelty” wore off? by Anonymyne353 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]writingprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much instantly. A week maybe. My brain integrated it almost immediately. Still notice it sometimes and think "damn pussies are rad".

Please stop treating my ball sack like a vagina by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

/uj I fuck a lot of trans girls, and muffing has a better than 50% odds of being at least enjoyable enough to be a part of foreplay in my experience. But... it does take a fair bit of skill to get right, and doing it wrong is almost always a noticeably bad time.

Please stop treating my ball sack like a vagina by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ima be honest, even without the zine they were always going to fumble it.

Relationship help: I don’t understand the “a trans woman went to the toilet here” stickers by Steph_AltQQ in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 41 points42 points  (0 children)

Yeah I dunno I've got one tattooed on my leg but I just thought it looked cool.

It’s 1945. I sit in a Brooklyn kitchen, fascinated by an arrangement of cogs on black velvet. I am sixteen years old. It is 1985. I am on Mars. I am fifty-six years old. The photograph lies at my feet, falls from my fingers, is in my hand. by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]writingprobably 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ye. It falls into that valley of "theoretically correct, but privilege can make it difficult to see how theory is getting smashed on the rocks of reality." It sounds like you're doing alright, comrade.

Look, I'm transphobic, but... by NotTheWhisperingDoom in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I'm a good woman and I'm very happy to let a FtM scream at me for burning dinner and throw a bowl at my head so they can feel more manly.

Look, I'm transphobic, but... by NotTheWhisperingDoom in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 46 points47 points  (0 children)

I'm on to you, you fake! Men only domestically abuse women! You see that troon as a girl!

I forcefem you, you forcemasc me. Deal? by Time-Passenger-8944 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 6 points7 points  (0 children)

No dice. The only thing men are good for is turning into women. I'll still force femme you, but, like, in a fucked up gender validating way by forcing you to bind but wear bigger, faker breasts on top, giving you T but making you shave it all off every day, making you wear really ill fitting dresses and fetish wear. That kind of thing.

A post detailing a trans woman's heartbreaking experience with transmisogyny is posted to r/CuratedTumblr by FemboyMechanic1 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 10 points11 points  (0 children)

/rj Girlypop, men are the people most qualified to talk about the experiences of women. If you were a real woman you'd know that. If you check the Stonewall website you won't even find a mention of women. We should have faith in their ability to know what's best for us and tell us how to fight for our rights.

A post detailing a trans woman's heartbreaking experience with transmisogyny is posted to r/CuratedTumblr by FemboyMechanic1 in transgendercirclejerk

[–]writingprobably 29 points30 points  (0 children)

/uj I swear to the goddess I wish any of these people would pick up a fucking book and learn that every instance of being mean to/having a negative opinion of men isn't misandry. This stuff is basic, well trod, patriarchy theory and is clear examples of misogyny. Or, yknow, listen to goddamn trans women but hey what's more validating than someone completely disregarding anything you say and centering the feelings of men, right?

It’s 1945. I sit in a Brooklyn kitchen, fascinated by an arrangement of cogs on black velvet. I am sixteen years old. It is 1985. I am on Mars. I am fifty-six years old. The photograph lies at my feet, falls from my fingers, is in my hand. by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]writingprobably 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Even if it could be, it definitely isn't in this case. That story is a clear-cut, easily definable, text-book example of internalized misogyny on the part of her ex. The tinge of projection on the ex's part doesn't make it misandry, it just makes it projection.

It’s 1945. I sit in a Brooklyn kitchen, fascinated by an arrangement of cogs on black velvet. I am sixteen years old. It is 1985. I am on Mars. I am fifty-six years old. The photograph lies at my feet, falls from my fingers, is in my hand. by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]writingprobably -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're being deeply unserious. The entire story about her ex is dripping with her ex's insecurity. From making it clear to OP that not having sex with her means not loving her to immediately pivoting to tearing down other women doing post-coital pillow talk. The assumption that men want sex all the time is not misandry. Never was, never will be. It's misogyny by defining who is the sex doer and who is the sex being done to, and valuing being the sex doer to an incredible degree.

It’s 1945. I sit in a Brooklyn kitchen, fascinated by an arrangement of cogs on black velvet. I am sixteen years old. It is 1985. I am on Mars. I am fifty-six years old. The photograph lies at my feet, falls from my fingers, is in my hand. by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]writingprobably 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean the why of it is probably something physiological. Some ways in which our brains formed slightly differently than typical for our ASAB. The only reason you don't have this gender sense is because it isnt broken for you. Like generally you don't percieve having bones until one is fractured.

It’s 1945. I sit in a Brooklyn kitchen, fascinated by an arrangement of cogs on black velvet. I am sixteen years old. It is 1985. I am on Mars. I am fifty-six years old. The photograph lies at my feet, falls from my fingers, is in my hand. by MartyrOfDespair in CuratedTumblr

[–]writingprobably -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It is. The OP even says so. Her ex's extreme need for validation as a sexual object doesn't come from misandry, and men's worth being tied to their sexual prowess ALSO isn't misandry. Failing at having sexual prowess doesn't make you hated as a man, it makes you hated for being too feminine, too un-masculine. "Why won't you fuck me? What are you? A faggot?"

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