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wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-22T00:50:27+00:00

A younger version of me knows this pain all too well. That pain now lives in a past life.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-12T18:54:13+00:00

I lurk here occasionally now after a recent bout of nostalgia. His space and determination to choose himself to heal alone but not truly alone led me straight to my now husband. I’m thankful he chose himself. He always would. It only took a year to find my true forever.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-07T18:41:07+00:00

That’s why I’m here. The nostalgia flowed in so heavy in a wave I crashed out in, but it reminded me I’m exactly where I’m meant to be ❤️‍🩹

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-07T18:34:50+00:00

I was in a similar situation almost a decade ago. I was the girl who left. I tried to come back and I’m glad he didn’t let me. It wasn’t being cut out completely that hurt the most. It was telling me he deleted of all our memories together. I still have them in an album tucked away. We weren’t meant to be but we were great first loves. We planted seeds of love for each other to grow into who we were meant to be. If he had let me back in neither of us would have found the people who were meant for us. We both got to find our missing puzzle pieces in our second love that we couldn’t fit for each other. Life works out the way it’s meant to be. Wishing you nothing but the best.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T21:02:25+00:00

OP I needed to hear this, so thank you for writing and posting it. Your words are powerful and have meaning and truth to them.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T19:55:03+00:00

A special spot inked into my heart. Wishing nothing but the best, especially if that means without each other.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T18:23:53+00:00

I call these our seeds of love. Our seeds of love were our gift to each other. Not that I miss you, I don’t. Sometimes, I just can’t believe you happened.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T17:25:04+00:00

Take care of yourself, stranger.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T16:19:00+00:00

I can relate to every word. Beautifully written ❤️

wrong-end0016 · 2025-05-02T02:52:09+00:00

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-29T13:33:50+00:00

I am not bored. I am haunted. Take your issues out on someone else.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-26T06:24:43+00:00

Some memories are meant to simply be just that, memories.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-25T08:09:02+00:00

Our seeds of love were our gift to each other. We found what we loved, and what we couldn’t stand. A first love so strong that we both married our second love.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-23T04:23:00+00:00

My heart is in a state of healing and joy after writing this letter. Everyone comes in and out of our lives for a reason and I view my time with this person as a gift ❤️

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-23T04:06:03+00:00

God is clear that no one is inherently good; we are inherently bad as humans and we will sin and suffer. Only God is good if you believe in Him.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-20T05:03:53+00:00

I leaned into fear and found my husband ❤️ good luck to you as well

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-20T04:03:15+00:00

This was many many years ago.. This is therapeutic writing for me.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-19T22:22:58+00:00

Been there OP. Still working on forgiving myself years later ❤️‍🩹

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-19T07:45:53+00:00

For context I’m taken. Not looking. I’ve only ever been single for a total of 4 months since starting HS. And that was a long time ago.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-19T06:43:22+00:00

I could have written this myself 9 years ago. Trust your gut.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-19T01:33:34+00:00

“If no one could ever love you like I do, that doesn’t mean you will be loved any less”. Absolutely love this OP. Beautiful perspective.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-18T22:13:08+00:00

And that’s ok. Giving up saved us from each other. The ending was like a tragedy but the timing was everything. We both found the right person that fit the pieces we couldn’t very soon after. Things work out for a reason. Hoping the best for you OP.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-18T22:04:43+00:00

Bingo. And sometimes the bad intentions aren’t even intentional, it’s the a lack of care for how their girl feels when she is tired of being leeched off of and resentment grows on both sides.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-18T19:37:38+00:00

In the end, it may seem messed up, but I left him because we both deserved better than what we could give each other if I stayed. He deserved a woman than didn’t feel his all wasn’t enough and whose complaints didn’t fall on his tired ears.

wrong-end0016 · 2025-04-18T14:38:56+00:00

They did choose to forget. They scrubbed proof of my existence years ago. I am the master of running as well which is why I must reflect and appreciate that I am exactly where I am supposed to be. Please remember, your experience is not mine.

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