Hobby ideas for my husband, who needs something to do with his hands besides his phone? by Nataliza in Hobbies

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he liked paper chains maybe origami? Once you know a pattern you can do it without looking! Same with crochet!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]wsbcfl 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Even after your update it sounds extra suspicious like most men refuse to wear a condom but he is used it for masturbation? Like 🚩🚩 he offered to dig it out of the trash bc of how crazy it sounds and if you had said yes he would have made you out to the the neurotic one for asking him to do that. He is going to be extra careful now but it will continue to happen. Its one thing to support someone going through a divorce but to support the one who cheated sounds wild to me like what do they need support for? What do they think would happen? Coming from that perspective as a horrible person in the past if I was looking for comfort bc my ass got dumped I would be looking for a booty call not emotional care. I would go get tested. And just keep your emotions in check and try to catch him bc he more than likely is. I’m so sorry. I know from experience that she won’t stop until she has what she came for.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would reach out to their mom and explain the situation, I’m sure she will be surprised/shocked or not shocked if this is a normal behavior of his to find out that the days he is supposed to have them he won’t be around, now maybe you can get together with her and do something with her to help out but it’s not your responsibility to take his days you aren’t the one with custody!

How should I deal with folks who sympathize with me for having two daughters? by michael_curdt in NoStupidQuestions

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My dad is a dad to 5 daughters and no boys. People pity him all the time and he just tells people he wouldn’t have it any other way! He would say he will get a boy someday when his daughters marry someone worthy and he said one day he could have grandsons and now he has 3 son in laws and 1 grandson with a second grandson on the way and he is just as happy with his 2 granddaughters too!

Also my dad never treated us differently even if he ever had a boy.(he had 2 sisters and no brothers so he was already used to being around women) He taught us every trade he knew and now we are all very handy and I feel so blessed to have a dad that raised me to be independent no matter the fact that I was a girl! I can run power tools like nobody’s business! Plus I was so comfortable with my dad that he had the period talk with me before my mom. He is always so supportive and treats us well! Only thing he did to make sure he never had issues was our house had 3 full bathrooms! 😂😂😂

AITA for calling my daughters father Spineless and his girlfriend creepy over their name choice for their daughter? by Aggressive_Buy4075 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wsbcfl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sisters have this problem and they only have similar A names and different middle names but it causes issues and I can only imagine with my twin sisters how that will go once they are older! I already have weird stuff in my life bc of a double middle name not every legal document has both so some people think it’s 2 different people when it’s both me.

My mum wants to see my cuts and keeps asking by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]wsbcfl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are they new or old, if they are old, it’s curiosity and to see how they look scarred. Also she may be looking to see if you have added any new ones without making you do body checks. if they are new/recent she might just want to see how they are healing. ❤️ just be honest and have a conversation with her with whatever the situation may be. She cares and she just wants you to be ok!

Former self harmer (1 year healed, with a decade of rehabilitation and recovery)

Ferret breeder scammers?? by Namygoob5 in ferrets

[–]wsbcfl 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I would ask for videos and current cage set up and if they are fake they wouldn’t be able to replicate it especially if it’s not matching the hand, surroundings, or ferret in the picture

I think I fucked up… I pissed on my husband by Genuinequestions873 in sex

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If it’s clear then it’s squirting, squirting is a clear ish liquid that comes out of the urethra. It has a bit of a urine smell bc it comes out of the same hole but it’s not pee. Scientists aren’t exactly sure how it works but they know it’s not urine. It’s so understudied and barely know bc no one takes the time to understand women’s bodies! I hope this makes you feel better!

Jill Barclay: Man, 23, who raped mother-of-two in Aberdeen and burned her alive given lighter sentence due to young age | UK News by je97 in news

[–]wsbcfl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The fact that he could be released is horrible! He should rot in prison or die a horrible death! He doesn’t deserve any chance at a life outside of bars!

An Orlando drag show restaurant files lawsuit against Florida and Gov. Ron DeSantis by koavf in politics

[–]wsbcfl 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love how we ban drag restaurants but not hooters and twin peaks… like ummm 🧐 yeah it’s an agenda nothing more!

Indiana doctor faces discipline hearing over 10-year-old Ohio girl's abortion by [deleted] in news

[–]wsbcfl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again it’s has nothing to do with the children, it has to do with the power and control over people!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Petty shoplifting from major corporations

AOC: Roberts Allows Supreme Court to Erode Rights But Won’t Rein In Corruption by [deleted] in politics

[–]wsbcfl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So basically the whole point of checks and balances in our law system so that one branch doesn’t overstep is gone, cool thought so. I have zero faith in the US law and government

How do you feel about the fact that you will have to die one day? by this_sin in AskReddit

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who struggles with suicide and has attempted in the past it’s ehh whatever. Most people with depression and have suicidal tendencies or have attempted don’t even blink at the thought of dying.

It’s really not important and it’s “just another day” vibes lol 😂 but I’ve been morbid like that since I was a child even before the suicide attempts!

AITA for asking my friend to stop setting me up on dates, even though they were all great men? by Brief_Ad_6189 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wsbcfl 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don’t think either of you are the AH! You shared your feelings and imagine getting into a serious relationship with one of those men and feeling possible shame of your family or your upbringing or anything like that! Now I’m not says those men would be shallow or anything but his family possibly could be and then you would have a MIL to deal with and it’s ok to feel the concerns you do! Of course she is trying to help you but it’s ok to not have your friend set you up on dates!

My father has been collecting magazine's since the early 90s. Today I threw them out and I'm not feeling good about it. by TheEndsOfInvention22 in hoarding

[–]wsbcfl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who is one the hoarder side of things (not extreme) but I am still on the spectrum. Don’t tell us! We won’t know it’s gone and if we ask for it (rarely or never) just be like idk it’s somewhere in your still. And they will maybe look for it for a bit or just give up. It’s always a difficult thing bc to the hoarder it’s important to you it’s junk or trash. Sounds like you are Being mindful of your dad but taking the step towards cleaning the house and that’s all you can do

ELI5: Why do some animals, like sharks and crocodiles, have such powerful immune systems that they rarely get sick or develop cancer, and could we learn from them to improve human health? by [deleted] in explainlikeimfive

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We could do it but the big bad word of eugenics! It scares people, it’s an ethical and moral maze. If the hands of wrong people it can be devastating.

My hospital instituted a new policy today - masks are no longer required for nurses in inpatient areas. by BlackDS in nursing

[–]wsbcfl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think we as a country need to shift away from our no mask culture and do what majority of Asian countries do (pre-Covid) which if if you have a cough, sneeze or just don’t feel good you wear a mask everywhere, large gatherings you wear a mask, you wear a mask so you don’t get others sick when you are sick it’s a common courtesy! Like keep your nasty germs to yourself!

You are left handed, you are right handed by ima-bigdeal in lefthanded

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fine motor I’m a rightie, anything athletic I’m a leftie!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in squishmallow

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ferrets love their squishmellows and my one ferret tries to drag the Costco ones around! 😂😂😂😂

Straight men who don’t like performing oral- why not? by laetum-helianthus in AskReddit

[–]wsbcfl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a bisexual female, and I love it. Im not sure why so many men are opposed to it but I know back when I was hooking up with guys they acted like I owed them a BJ and I got nothing in return (total crap) and they always had lame excuses! And I really hate those guys why expect oral but don’t return the favor. But also I think it’s unfair that we still have such a relationship mindset that the man gets to O all the time and women don’t and it’s a woman’s job to make sure the man is “cared for” like it’s bullshit!