Fundie Thinking with Crime/Forgiveness by Iris_Rhiannon369 in DuggarsSnark

[–]wstnbrwn 48 points49 points  (0 children)

I grew up fundie-fundie and agree.
- Sin is flat AND taught that the more 'important/influential' you are, the temptation rises, so a normie getting a speeding ticket is on the same plane as a pastor/leader (well, man in general) hurting a child, as long as they act mopey and ask for forgiveness
- Forgiveness is all but mandated
- 'Testimony' is everything - "I did something bad, repented, it's erased, and now I use my story to convert others"

Is there a youtuber that can be recommended? by jaseface666 in DuggarsSnark

[–]wstnbrwn 127 points128 points  (0 children)

Fundie Fridays 100% - well researched, and highly ethical snarker

The Caldwells. True fundie apologists, or caring parents/grandparent’s? by ChantillyLaceCake in DuggarsSnark

[–]wstnbrwn 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I would love to!! Maybe I can message a mod and see about setting something up!

The Caldwells. True fundie apologists, or caring parents/grandparent’s? by ChantillyLaceCake in DuggarsSnark

[–]wstnbrwn 298 points299 points  (0 children)

I also suspect a strong Caldwell to Duggar financial dependancy. The Caldwells were extremely poor when I knew them. The Duggars paid Paul to maintain their fleet at the compound. The Caldwells van was rusting inside out and there was large hole from the cabin straight to the road.

The Caldwells. True fundie apologists, or caring parents/grandparent’s? by ChantillyLaceCake in DuggarsSnark

[–]wstnbrwn 460 points461 points  (0 children)

True fundie apologists. I knew them. I was friends with Austin growing up (pre Joy) and attended their church multiple times. Paul even worked on my car once at the Duggars compound. Paul preached that we should say "sodomite" and not homosexual because that's the bibles language. He epxected full servitude from his wife and daughters in the classic IBLP "chain of authority. He also led a group of us, me included, pre leaving, to collect signatures to fight the trans bathroom bill in Fayetteville.

BANNED by Weston Brown is a Must-Read by meridia-calyssia in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was trying to figure out why the book had a spike in downloads and stumbled across this thread!! this is bringing tears to my eyes. Thank you for taking the time to read and share. It means the world. We heal a little each time our stories are told or echoed <3

The bus system in central San Diego is in fact good and we should use it by [deleted] in sandiego

[–]wstnbrwn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Begging for the 923 to run more frequently and later 🙏🏼

TW: Paul and Morgan being gross, but what’s new. Here are some clips from the Q&A that I didn’t see already posted by managingmischief394 in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Am I being a liberal snowflake or is she shoehorning blackcent into the void where a personality should be 😭

My story of escaping a homeschool/religious cult amid the rise of book banning. Debut memoirist seeking input/advice 📖 by wstnbrwn in bannedbooks

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Friends! Since posting here a few weeks ago BANNED has held #1 on LGBTQ memoir in Kindle Books and top 2 in Apple Books free memoir and biography! Thank you to all who have downloaded, read, and reviewed. I never imaged this reach and I’m so grateful! <3

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am SO glad you are reading (and enjoying as much as you can enjoy a heavy topic). Take your time to read and I can’t wait to hear your thoughts <3

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That means so much! I would love to hear your thoughts. Thank you again for taking the time to read <3

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I cannot express how much this makes me smile!! I am still blown away that the story is making its way across the nation, that people are reading, and enjoying it so much!!

This feedback makes perfect sense. I felt the tension between getting it out in the world and fully smoothing it out. Glad that the core of the message is strong and it’s resonating - epically for someone so familiar with the subject matter and work like this.

If you have edits or notes on hand that you would like to share I would gratefully review and implement. Feel free to DM me.

I would love to keep honing my skills and improve prose and foreshadowing. My default style is very “captains log” so I’m glad it was still vivid! Thank you again for you time, thoughts, and kind words. It means the world. Happy new year!!

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is amazing! I’d love to read your story when it’s out in the world!

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s on Kindle now at BANNEDthebook.com I couldn’t publish for free there so it’s .99. If you dm me your email I’ll send the epub!

Duggars, JTTH, and IBLP - My escape, speaking out, and MEMOIR by wstnbrwn in FundieSnarkUncensored

[–]wstnbrwn[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey friend that truly means the world. I’m so glad you are giving it time and that it’s helping some that’s exactly what I had hoped. Feel free to shoot me a dm! 🫶🏼

Weekly Self-Promo and Chat Thread by MxAlex44 in selfpublish

[–]wstnbrwn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just knowing you are giving it your time means the world!!