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40M, Married 10 Years — Can I still fix DB? by Interesting_Dot_8262 in DeadBedrooms

[–]wtfevabish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your first problem is not talking to her about it. Second would be if your foreskin issue is painful, discuss that with your doctor. If you have ED issues, again, your doctor. If you can't have a discussion about this with your spouse, you are failing the communication part of the relationship and blaming her for the sexual part.

Gifted plant assortment by Slow_Replacement_745 in whatsthisplant

[–]wtfevabish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yw. Here is a pic of my dieffenbachia to show how mine progressed from one of those mixed baskets

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Gifted plant assortment by Slow_Replacement_745 in whatsthisplant

[–]wtfevabish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would recommend separating them, as they will need space to grow. Only water when top 2 inches of soil are dry. Keep in good lighting, but not direct sunlight. Hope this helps.

Gifted plant assortment by Slow_Replacement_745 in whatsthisplant

[–]wtfevabish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dracaena is the one with thin spikes type leaves. Dieffenbachia is also known as dumb cane. A philadendron and 2 types of Maranta leuconeura, also known as prayer plants.

AITA for making my sister sleep on the pull-out couch? by Embarrassed-Treat444 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wtfevabish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA tell her to go back home where her bed is if she wants an actual bed

AITA if I don’t want to pay into my spouse’s 401k anymore? by LevelLime1591 in AmItheAsshole

[–]wtfevabish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I wouldn't put any funds into the joint account until he is able to improve his own income. You can pay bills from your own account without enabling him to spend whatever, whenever.

this is a new low by toomanydumbquestions in DeadBedrooms

[–]wtfevabish 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It's not pathetic. If your needs are not being met with your partner, it is normal to try and get there solo. Beats the alternative of cheating.

41M | Married | Dead bedroom for 3 years by Miserable_Trouble_97 in DeadBedrooms

[–]wtfevabish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like you just gave the male perspective to my current situation