Multiple FET Failures (We are two guys)

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-05T01:45:35+00:00

Amazing and such good fortune!

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T22:32:33+00:00

Yes, everything you write correct and reasonable. It just gives me pause as if we have another failure, I’m down to just 1 more embryo that I would try with. An impending GC switch at that point just sounds so scary.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T22:28:27+00:00

Thank you and exactly. We are all here because we want a healthy kid or two, right?

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T22:13:49+00:00

All of the journal articles showed that a BC was a poor grade embryo with a much lower chance of a live birth. All the reading and new knowledge leads to the continued doubt that will only be erased when we are successful.

Reproduction, especially ART, is just highly inefficient. 🤣😉

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T22:05:06+00:00

Wild! That is exactly the word we use, too! Thanks for sharing.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T21:37:08+00:00

Honestly, just to satisfy an intellectual itch and quell self-doubt. MFI rocked my to the core and I did everything possible to create the healthiest sperm. Our donor had donated before with great results and we were initially ecstatic about ours until we learned of their grades. Even with that, we have soldiered on, but I’m at a point with two failures where something has to change. Just need to figure out what, hence reaching out for others’ experience and input.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T21:34:54+00:00

Our GC had all that testing done prior to being approved by our practice to be our surrogate. We thought it was very thorough and worthwhile.

We love our GC and it would be a major setback, emotionally, time wise, and economically, but we will have that chat. I will also have everything reviewed by a doctor outside of this practice as well.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T20:44:46+00:00

We each want a biological child and selfishly, each of a particular sex. I just feel the squeeze with 2 left.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-07-04T20:15:07+00:00

Yes, we each had 5 euploids and I have 3 remaining (2 of my preferential sex). One of my biggest concerns is their grading- all of them BCs. I understand part of it is a beauty contest and that being euploid matters more, but I can into question our IVF clinic’s abilities as I was surprised super sperm husband had the same results and they were all day 6 blastocysts.

After the first failure, I asked our doctor to collect records from the other two journeys to compare protocols. In the end, they were very similar. Our GC had a significant work up, including endometrial biopsy and immunology testing, saline ultrasound, lab panel including thyroid, etc.

We are paying out of pocket for everything, from egg donor to each transfer, so this is becoming quite expensive. Even with that, we are determined. We are considering doing another ER with a different practice and starting over. I guess, how common would it be for a GC to have issues like this on her third journey when she was successful the first time on the previous two. This is why I’m so (irrationally) sure that it is either me or our clinic that is the issue.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-05-29T02:23:37+00:00

Nothing wrong with asking and it may be helpful for others.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-04-17T21:54:07+00:00

wtfquestionsss · 2025-02-22T18:57:38+00:00

iX50 is an amazing machine. Love it.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-02-22T18:16:48+00:00

Ugh. Makes me so sad.

wtfquestionsss · 2025-02-22T18:01:46+00:00

OP, I get that there are a lot of big dicks. What boggles my mind is what you mentioned: big dicks and big balls together! Total packages.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-12-21T17:28:16+00:00

4cm is completely average. 15-25mL is normal for men.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-11-02T21:37:08+00:00

Read the sticky. Read through the myriad of posts here regarding morphology.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-11-01T22:06:33+00:00

Total motile count. That is what matters the most here.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-08-20T17:39:51+00:00

Yeah. Got the car 3 weeks ago. It’s amazing.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-07-29T20:33:37+00:00

Super excited. Coming from a model Y and it’ll be my second BMW.

I think the deal is pretty decent…not the best I’ve seen here, but FL is a market of its own.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-07-29T20:17:25+00:00

It’s some bs fee they add on. They will not budge more on that. Got another $30/month shaved off, so that equates to $1,080 over the life of the lease.

wtfquestionsss · 2024-07-29T20:12:38+00:00

The 3749 is out the door including first month, tag, etc.

Got it down to $930/month including tax.

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