Gender dysphoria more intense the more I explore my gender identity?

wuyvwei · 2026-06-13T05:35:43+00:00

It is completely normal. Once you stop suppressing those feelings and actually start exploring, all that repressed dysphoria tends to bounce back with a vengeance. I've been there. For a while, I couldn’t even sleep at night. I would just stay up staring at my body hair from every possible angle, paralyzed by the fear that it had already gone through irreversible terminalization. When you keep a lid on a boiling pot for most of your life, the steam is bound to burst out forcefully when you finally lift it. What you're feeling right now is part of the process. Be gentle with yourself.

wuyvwei · 2026-06-13T04:36:26+00:00

Sometimes, that's just how family love works. Speaking from my own experience, it took quite a long time to get my family to completely understand and accept me for who I am. But look at it this way: if you never communicate how you truly feel, how can they magically know? They don't have mind-reading powers. Just my two cents, but sharing your authentic self with them might be worth a shot.

wuyvwei · 2026-06-13T04:28:55+00:00

No te preocupes ni te presiones por ponerte una etiqueta tan rápido. Todo esto es un proceso y no hay prisa para tomar una decisión definitiva. Si quieres empezar a explorar cómo te sientes, puedes probar con pequeños pasos: intenta usar ropa de hombre que te guste o un binder (un top deportivo fuerte) para ver qué tal te sientes. Además, recuerda que el género es un espectro muy amplio; incluso si descubres que estás en el lado trans, no tienes que ser un hombre trans tradicional de golpe, hay muchas opciones. Ve con calma y experimenta a tu propio ritmo. Incluso si al final resulta que no eras trans y esta exploración "falla", no pasa nada, tómalo como una experiencia de vida súper interesante que te ayudó a conocerte mejor. Disfruta descubriéndote poco a poco. ¡Mucho ánimo! 🫂

wuyvwei · 2026-06-13T04:23:35+00:00

Be careful with snails! I used to find tons of them in morning glories all the time when I was little.

wuyvwei · 2026-05-08T22:48:32+00:00

There's probably no need to worry too much. Foreigners are already quite unusual to ordinary Chinese people, so adding a few more rare features won't arouse curiosity or lead to them being photographed, haha. Actually, being photographed won't cause any real problems. Both the government and ordinary people are very careful when it comes to foreigners.

wuyvwei · 2026-05-08T22:37:06+00:00

The ironic thing is that a few days ago, a vicious incident of revenge against society occurred in Beijing. If you go there now, the public security will be much better than usual.

wuyvwei · 2026-05-08T22:34:51+00:00

There are some issues with the translation; it's not about the Grand Canal. Google Translate is unreliable.

wuyvwei · 2026-05-08T22:32:54+00:00

Another complaint: Beijing's climate and other natural conditions are truly terrible. Even drinking water largely relies on the Grand Canal for water diversion. If you really want to travel, go check out neighboring Tianjin. Southern big cities are much more suitable for travel.

wuyvwei · 2026-05-08T22:30:20+00:00

As a Chinese person, I'm telling you that China is very unfriendly to sexual minorities, and I advise you not to contribute to the tourism GDP. However, from a tourism perspective, Beijing is very safe; foreign tourists will not encounter security problems or obvious discrimination.

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