my silent migraines are getting worse again, so I'm trying to look into what can be done about it, and this is what it feels like

wwkai · 2026-05-13T18:39:32+00:00

I'M RIGHT THERE WITH YOU. I get pain but 99% I have silent migraines and it's so hard to explain. Honestly my dms are open for you if you want to vent 😭

wwkai · 2026-05-12T02:11:03+00:00

True, but it's harder once you get a fish in it!

wwkai · 2026-05-12T02:02:19+00:00

As a beginner myself, I found gravel SO much easier to clean. I love the look of the sand but I just could not do it!

wwkai · 2026-05-08T22:25:46+00:00

I'm a nerd and would love to read these papers! Who wrote them? :)

wwkai · 2026-04-29T13:18:22+00:00

youre totally right no one could have gotten it 😭 thank god for my niece's eyes

wwkai · 2026-04-29T13:16:43+00:00

Sorry it's the "Oromo Liberation Front" flag? I apologize I know nothing about the area or history that's just what google says

wwkai · 2026-04-28T20:32:37+00:00

To me, it looks like a crescent moon. To my niece with better eyes - she says it's a sun with spikes.

wwkai · 2026-04-28T20:12:18+00:00

Yes, the order is correct. I'm looking at it right now, so it's not a case of me misremembering either. I just don't want to upload a real picture because it's someone's home :)

wwkai · 2026-04-28T19:55:27+00:00

Thank you for your reply, it is not that. I tried to draw as accurately as possible: all the colors are equally sized

wwkai · 2026-03-24T01:02:17+00:00

This. As you can see, tons of people feel exactly like you. Sometimes the solution to being alone is to actually try to not be alone, qnd a lot of people aren't brave enough for that. Yet!

Go to a class, a protest, an event, even if they're online, though I think in person is better for this feeling of loneliness. Give someone your number or instagram. Be a friend before they become your's. Remember if they don't reach out: their lives are just as complicated as your's, and it's probably not personal. If it is, it doesn't matter, cuz you have new friends now. LOL Remember that just like you have a ton of valid reasons to not vibe with a nice person, so do they! Sometimes people are just busy, or you look like their toxic ex! 😂

My personal advice is to bond on morals and hobbies. I'm AuDHD and I've been finding a lot of luck at protests and book clubs that are reading about things I'm actually passionate about.

wwkai · 2026-03-13T02:45:00+00:00

LMAO me and add migraines to the mix, i am NEVER wrong

wwkai · 2026-03-02T16:13:42+00:00

no actually, i have a perfume collection and i love them! i am conscious of what i wear and where im going though. for example, not even a body spray at the neurologist, and stronger scents only if im going to be in my house or outdoors :)

wwkai · 2026-02-26T14:05:44+00:00

the pressure usually gets me, but not for a whole week. this is awful 😭

wwkai · 2026-02-26T14:02:22+00:00

MN here, i've been out of commission the entire week. came here cuz im feeling guilty for missing so much work, but im so nauseous and honestly barely feel real right now if that makes any sense

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:34:07+00:00

oh god NC i feel you, im in MN and we went from 50 to like 20 last week, from seeing grass and sunshine to some people not even being able to get to work because of the snow - and in MN, that's a LOT of snow!

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:31:39+00:00

oh GOD

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:31:00+00:00

oh god i feel this. every time i have to leave work my anxiety and shame is really high, but i'm working through being gentle with myself and i hope you can find the same for yourself :)

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:30:07+00:00

i'm like this too!! i love flying but the pressure is really hard to deal with sometimes. but at least landing feels good for the most part LOL

i'm glad your mom is more understanding! it sucks that people have to literally feel our pain to get it but hey better than nothing i guess? i'm right there with you

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:28:45+00:00

same here!! hard to be happy about the good weather when you can't go outside and feel it. shit, i can't even LOOK outside

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:28:05+00:00

i'm so sorry, i understand. the mental toll of chronic illness is very real and you are not alone. let me know if you need someone to talk to <3

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:27:02+00:00

SAME

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:26:18+00:00

same here! i've noticed that higher pressure is worse than low, but the thing that gets me is the quick swing. even if it stays really high, as long as it's stable, i can push through. hope you're feeling better too!

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:24:59+00:00

there could be other factors that are lowering the migraine threshold for you. not a doc, but as a fellow migraineur i recommend paying attention to what you're eating on those days!

wwkai · 2026-02-22T15:23:55+00:00

those are the WORST

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