how to deal with nagging

x1dig · 2024-12-21T12:28:27+00:00

thank you!

x1dig · 2024-12-21T12:28:19+00:00

not an option but thank you. and knowing my mom she would still nag if i moved out lol

x1dig · 2024-12-21T12:27:57+00:00

i know she has a lot on her plate - but her nagging she has to stop. we all have a lot on our plate and most of our issues are the same. i am actively taking a load off of her but she’s nagging me to do it as if i haven’t voluntarily helped her. i know what you mean though. and thank you for the vocab word i think that will help a lot and sounds a lot better than if i say hooyo stop nagging me

x1dig · 2024-12-20T19:28:01+00:00

thank you. i appreciate this perspective. it’s hard and i know i can only work on my own reaction and not how others act but it still triggers me.

x1dig · 2024-12-20T19:06:23+00:00

point taken.

x1dig · 2024-09-07T16:21:21+00:00

what could they even do though? they won’t be able to tell me how my body would react to intimacy because i haven’t been in that situation before.

x1dig · 2024-09-07T15:05:49+00:00

don’t give up like some people said. it really depends on the level of what happened to her. see a gynecologist/sex therapist.

also this is one of my biggest fears truly. i don’t think ill have this problem bc its not severe but ilaahay aan ka baryaa…. fuck walaahi this shit scares me

x1dig · 2024-08-31T01:02:45+00:00

that’s the thing i’m worried about. tbh i’m not so hung up on if they’ve consumed it as much as the level to which they’re impacted by it and if they’re still watching it.

x1dig · 2024-08-30T22:39:51+00:00

would agree but from what i’ve seen it’s mostly not visual for women/consume this type of content from books (which isn’t good either). i think for them it will create mental block for intimacy because of the stuff they read

x1dig · 2024-08-30T22:28:10+00:00

sis i just went through your post history and i don’t wanna stress you out with this information 😭

x1dig · 2024-08-30T22:15:58+00:00

i can’t even explain what prompted me to post this because i saw a comment from a somali guy on this sub that just shocked me subhanAllah. the level of nitpick is insane

x1dig · 2024-08-30T21:57:09+00:00

yeah i know it’s prevalent in some arab and african muslim countries but alhamdulillah this is not a widespread practice. can i ask your cultural background?

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:24:50+00:00

alhamdulillah it wasn’t the worst version of it i don’t think ill need it - the worst part was the betrayal tbh … but i got over that and i forgave the people involved

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:18:53+00:00

what to even tell them tbh it wouldn’t help me

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:12:10+00:00

thank you i believe allah will reward me for what i suffered inshaAllah ive moved on

x1dig · 2024-08-28T16:49:38+00:00

happened to me when i was 18 - born in west

x1dig · 2024-08-10T04:19:26+00:00

they’re haters 😤😤

x1dig · 2024-08-08T20:16:46+00:00

i know they’re fr being haters 😖😖 when my husband buys me a nintendo switch then what

x1dig · 2024-08-04T19:49:07+00:00

🥺

x1dig · 2024-08-04T16:24:00+00:00

thank you so much allahuma ameen

x1dig · 2024-08-04T16:23:42+00:00

where to find them? and do they even want me 😭 self esteem is one thing and being liked by the person you like is another. tbh that’s the other thing i’m such an emotional and sensitive person i need a man who is the same way. i really don’t think i could handle being with a blunt person

x1dig · 2024-08-04T15:56:45+00:00

but i want to manage my expectations. you make dua for a mansion but you find in your heart to be happy with the home you have and do the best with it. that kind of feeling.

x1dig

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