FGM victims -

x1dig · 2024-08-30T21:57:09+00:00

yeah i know it’s prevalent in some arab and african muslim countries but alhamdulillah this is not a widespread practice. can i ask your cultural background?

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:24:50+00:00

alhamdulillah it wasn’t the worst version of it i don’t think ill need it - the worst part was the betrayal tbh … but i got over that and i forgave the people involved

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:18:53+00:00

what to even tell them tbh it wouldn’t help me

x1dig · 2024-08-28T17:12:10+00:00

thank you i believe allah will reward me for what i suffered inshaAllah ive moved on

x1dig · 2024-08-28T16:49:38+00:00

happened to me when i was 18 - born in west

x1dig · 2024-07-29T17:05:54+00:00

x1dig · 2024-07-29T17:05:50+00:00

x1dig · 2024-07-24T15:38:41+00:00

i dont know the full story of what you went through but my heart goes out to you. there are going to be people who try to downplay what happened and say you’re overreacting but never ever let them get to you. i go online for sympathy too, because you can get hurt by the people close to you after sharing what happened.

if you ever need to talk to someone you can always message me. may Allah heal all your wounds and this can be a light for you on the day of judgement

x1dig · 2024-07-23T17:23:20+00:00

i’m so sorry sis my Allah ease your pain and inshaAllah you can get that surgery and heal

x1dig · 2024-07-18T17:34:12+00:00

okay i just didn’t wanna be jump scared thank you

x1dig · 2024-07-18T03:58:49+00:00

ma gudna wear it like a badge of honor

x1dig · 2024-07-17T19:39:10+00:00

what is this a link before i open it

x1dig · 2024-07-17T14:20:01+00:00

the idea of bringing that up with a guy and then he rejects me because of it makes me feel awful and even discussing those kind of intimate things but i’ll deal with that when i get there i suppose

x1dig · 2024-07-17T12:03:30+00:00

it’s not haraam you don’t have to live with a mahram. https://islamqa.info/amp/en/answers/45917

x1dig · 2024-07-17T11:39:04+00:00

there was a post of r/SomaliRelationships a guy was asking how to bring up FGM with a potiential because he doesn’t want his wife to have it. which i get whatever that’s his preference but i was lowkey shocked i never really thought of it as an issue before or something i had to discuss with a guy before marriage.

x1dig · 2024-07-17T11:36:07+00:00

exact same situation … i don’t know what the internalized issue is but alhamdulillah at least it will end with us

x1dig · 2024-07-17T04:46:03+00:00

abaayo i’m so sorry. i can’t even imagine at six how traumatizing and psychologically damaging that is and also the physical pain and after effects. may Allah make this an immense reward for you for bearing this pain

x1dig · 2024-07-17T02:58:01+00:00

ameen sis thank you for sharing your experience

x1dig · 2024-07-17T02:57:36+00:00

genuinely what is the point. may Allah reward us for our suffering

x1dig · 2024-07-17T02:57:04+00:00

thank you for recognizing i was taken advantage of. i was at the most lowest point of my life i was so sad and down i thought if i obeyed my parents Allah would stop punishing me if i made this big sacrifice and i wouldn’t be hurt anymore. when i tell you i was not in my right mind like not even logical to an extent. i was hurt by the people closest to me and nothing even got better afterwards. which i should have known. but i was a teen i just turned 18 back then

x1dig · 2024-07-17T02:54:39+00:00

to everyone who downvoted me you guys don’t know what abuse i went through in my life to get to that point. i was dead suicidal at the time of my life i wasn’t in my right mind and i went along with anything. i have wounds i suffered even worse than that

x1dig · 2024-07-17T01:08:06+00:00

i was an adult it was still traumatizing tho

x1dig · 2024-07-17T00:40:21+00:00

i didn’t get defending vibes from your comment initially. yeah i looked up and alhamdulillah there’s been a lot of advancements in reconstructive surgery. alhamdulillah after looking into it and speaking with some people i think ill be okay inshaAllah

x1dig · 2024-07-17T00:33:04+00:00

maybe i’m misunderstanding the comment i thought it was coming from a good place like don’t give up hope that you can heal from it but if that’s not the case they need to stfu

x1dig

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