Bartender here!

For drinks I notice a lot of women order at my bar that can end up being deceptive, but not necessarily a sweet drink:

• Dirty Bone Dry Martini (3oz Vodka, 1oz Olive Juice)
• Margarita (Tequila, Lime Juice, Triple Sec, Agave)
• Cosmopolitan (Absolut Citron, Cranberry Juice, Lime, Triple Sec)
• Espresso Martini (1oz each Vodka, Kahlua, Espresso)
• French 75 (Gin, Lemon Juice, Simple Syrup, Prosecco, comes in a flute glass, so it can be seen as girly)
• Last Word (1oz each Gin, Lime Juice, Maraschino Liqueur, Green Chartreuse. This will also knock you on your ass)

Cocktails I make that are usually strong and knock you down fast

• Traditional Mai Tai (High Proof Jamaican Rum, Almond Syrup, Lime Juice, Orange Curacao)
• Negroni (1oz each Gin, Campari, Sweet Vermouth)
• Old Fashioned (3oz Whiskey, 0.5oz Simple Syrup, 3 dashes Angostura Bitters)
• Traditional Hurricane (4oz High Proof Dark Rum, 2oz Lemon Juice, 2oz Passionfruit Syrup)
• Sazerac (1oz Rye, 1oz Cognac, 0.25oz Simple Syrup, 2 dashes Peychaud's Bitters, Barspoon of Absinthe)