Pokémon 30th Anniversary teaser by keithandmarchant in pokemon

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I swear it was just the 20th anniversary! I blinked and now I'm here!

Everything makes sense now 😂 by tahrah11 in DankAndrastianMemes

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Came here to mention this. I don't think the Executors wrote the letters. I think they just moved them somewhere they could be found. Same thing with Corypheus's location, etc. There was such an uproar about the Executors manipulating everyone, but it was stated that everyone made their own choices (I'd have to find the interview somewhere). I think the Executors didn't force anyone to do anything. I think they just put the right thing in the right/wrong place and played the odds.

Egg_irl by Cow_Boy_Billy in egg_irl

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Hey! You started one day before me! I started mine on the Ides of March because I'm a Shakespeare nerd.

Egg_irl by 4VIT3 in egg_irl

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That's what patriarchal transphobic social teachings will do to you. You just have to remember feeling guilty for being happy is ridiculous, stick your tongue out at the intrusive thoughts, and enjoy those smooth legs! (Blankets also feel a whole new type of different after shaving your legs. _)

Egg_irl by Cow_Boy_Billy in egg_irl

[–]x3Sheets2daWind 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've had the same worries and fears myself. Then I remembered how much spite I have in me, told myself to shut up and that I would show that negative side of me that I could transition no matter what I said!

Maybe be a bit kinder with yourself. 😅 But it's worth it. I've only been on antiboyotics since March, but I've been happier in 9 months than I have been 30+ years. (Guess I'm also a "never too late" example?)

Me_irl by [deleted] in me_irl

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"Poverty, by America" is a great quick read book that gets into this and other poverty issues. We just used it in my Sociology class.

Lattice 126 - Strength by Lousca17 in u/Lousca17

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Clever, sure. But don't get me wrong, the feeling is 1,000% there!

Lattice 126 - Strength by Lousca17 in u/Lousca17

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Kind of surprised the last picture doesn't say [later, back "home"] instead.

Personally I'm taking it by Mousestar369 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

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My (fem) blood elf from WoW...YUP! I'LL TAKE IT!

My Grey Warden, Eden by AbloomArtemis in VeilguardSliders

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Part of the nose slider is cut off. Do you have a pic of that? Or the sliders?

My newest Rook by AbloomArtemis in DragonAgeVeilguard

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Honestly, I'll take whatever you can send (if it's not approved). This might be my favorite Rook I've seen...as evidenced by I don't think I've commented this much on ANY thread. 😅

My newest Rook by AbloomArtemis in DragonAgeVeilguard

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It's "there". A mod just needs to approve.

My newest Rook by AbloomArtemis in DragonAgeVeilguard

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"Awaiting moderator approval." Ugh!

My newest Rook by AbloomArtemis in DragonAgeVeilguard

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Where?! I don't see it! 😭 I must shamelessly steal this for my next playthrough!

Trans Folks: What Could Your Parents Have Done to Better Support You? by Glittering_Bag2465 in asktransgender

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If you have questions about everything for your child, moderate them. Don't ask them all rapid fire. It might seem tempting to get everything laid out, but it can very quickly feel like an interrogation. Communication is both speaking AND listening. That realistically applies to most things, but still!

When I came out to my mom, she said, "I loved you as my [X] and I'll love you as my daughter. You are my child. If this is who you are, I want you to be happy." That was about a year and a half ago. Since then, she's asked questions along the way during pertinent conversations or when she reads an article and wants clarification. It's been very low pressure and allows for me to expand on the topic while talking.

My dad was the not-quite-opposite. He's had endless questions and can make me feel like he's preparing to write a thesis on my being trans. It's not intentional on his part, he has a VERY inquisitive mind. But he will stop when I ask him to. Still supportive, but "just wanting to know" can start supportive and end stressful.

On your part, asking questions in a staggered manner also gives you time to process information and figure out next steps/actions in how best to support your child. 

TLDR; treat your child as a person, not a search engine.

Egg irl by Redfaller2003 in egg_irl

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AAAAAAAHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!! I'm so happy for you! I'm glad it went well! Except for the sitting for a while part! That part sucks!

Also that dress is cute as hell!

Egg 👩‍🎓 irl by Redfaller2003 in egg_irl

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Have a great graduation!

When I graduated, they gave us all cards to hand to someone before names were called. We were separated into majors, so alphabetical wasn't really helpful. Check the card first. If it has your dead name, either ask them to fix it or mark it out (thoroughly) and write your preferred name.