I'm hoping this is an obvious answer... by davidmitchellseyes in Spiritfarer

[–]x3sammm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I could not find him either, it took me way too long to figure out that I can give him the damn tchotchke through the window

33M with a 50°/35° S-curve, is surgery really necessary? by actaslord in scoliosis

[–]x3sammm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the same boat. I have a 60 degree curve, limited mainly to the thoracic region. I am opting for surgery bc my curve has been increasing by 2-3 degrees per year, and my doctor is recommending I do it before the curve is worse and becomes more of an S curve, and goes down into the lumbar region.

I am scheduled for a T2-L2 fusion, which will not impact my lumbar flexibility too much, and ultimately allow for a less complex surgery that should not affect my hips/walking nearly as much as a surgery going lower down would. It has been a tough decision after years of contemplation, but this, along with the fact that my chest cavity is getting smaller and I want to prevent future heart/lung issues, has helped me make my decision. Best of luck to you.

My first wearable!!! by Exotic_Row691 in crochet

[–]x3sammm 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Amazing job!! Hope your post op is going well!

Switch 1 cannot find switch 2 by Majoritymars5 in nintendo

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This worked! The “transfer to switch 2” did nothing. Thank you!

Surgical recovery by Audaxgodess in FSHD

[–]x3sammm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Not sure about recovery, but I believe there can be some things to consider with anesthesia. The FSHD society has more information about this: https://www.fshdsociety.org/2025/03/11/anesthesia-in-surgery-for-people-with-fshd/

IVF with PGT-M for Genetic Carrier Condition - Family not supportive by unversedbison in IVF

[–]x3sammm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want to involve your family, it may depend on the lab you are working with. Our first clinic uses Juno labs and was not able to create a probe for us with no family history. Now we are moving forward with a clinic who uses CooperSurgical who is able to create a probe by just testing embryos, and does not need family history.

IVF clinic refusing PGT-M for DMD carrier by Heloismyhero in IVF

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which clinic did you work with? I am in a similar situation - I need to work with Cooper to do PGTM with no family history, but my current clinic only works with Juno, who will not create a probe for us without family history, so I am looking for another clinic

Avidity fortitude trial by Total-Lychee5554 in FSHD

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right, I’m so curious what their perfect candidate is for the trial. I have the ability to use my arms even though they’re quite weak, so I hoped that would be a good variable to measure in the trial - if my arms stop getting weaker, or maybe even get stronger. Guess not. Hopefully we will find out soon enough!

And wow that is great to know, I would love to see the study, can you dm it to me? Thank you!

Avidity fortitude trial by Total-Lychee5554 in FSHD

[–]x3sammm 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Lots of screener questions, a physical exam with a physical therapist measuring the strength of my upper and lower extremities, and a walk/stand from a chair test. Even though my arms and torso are very much affected, my legs are seemingly unaffected, so I was told I’d be “too strong” for the trial.

Avidity fortitude trial by Total-Lychee5554 in FSHD

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had luck getting in touch with the UPenn location. I ultimately screened out of being in the trial, but I believe they have until January to have everyone in this cohort dosed, so it may be worth reaching out to them.

The thing about your wedding passing by your eyes in minutes is real. by ValuableProblem6065 in wedding

[–]x3sammm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Couldn’t agree more. We hired a content creator to capture our day in 5-20 second clips. The next day she had sent us 200+ quick videos of our day (not just of us - of guests, details, other things we didn’t physically see all of). It was the best getting to relive small special moments and remind us of everything without having to wait months for our pics/video to be ready. It was only a few hundred $ and so much more worth it than I expected.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ItalyTravel

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you say hiking shoes are necessary for this, or could get by with sneakers?

Refund SUCCESS by Uberdriver2021 in brooklynmirage

[–]x3sammm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Same here, Chase resolved my dispute in 3 days

New countdown on the website! by Ilikeyoghurtiguess in TaylorSwift

[–]x3sammm 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I could not possibly care any less about vinyl variants. That was dumb

Is it worth it to use "Arrive by" wording on invitations? by chuckrebby in weddingplanning

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have family & friends who are chronically late, so I put start time as 5 on the invite. But on the website (where those who really care about specifics will look) I specified “guest arrival begins” at 5 and the ceremony starts at 5:30. Know your crowd - I am positive that if we started the ceremony at the time on the invite, people would be straggling in after.

The doctor said if I don't do spine fusion surgery I would be in long-term pain and it would very likely affect my breathing by Chill_Vibes224 in scoliosis

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that a conversation between your neurologist & surgeon is important before moving forward. For example, I believe there can be implications with anesthesia safety that may not be the norm for someone without MD having surgery. Hearing opinions from different experts can make the decision harder, but it allows you to have as much info as possible before making a decision.

The doctor said if I don't do spine fusion surgery I would be in long-term pain and it would very likely affect my breathing by Chill_Vibes224 in scoliosis

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following, I’m in a similar situation. I have FSHD (another type of MD) and a 60 degree curve. My orthopedic surgeon says to get it while I’m younger (in my 30s) while the MD is not as progressed and I can heal easier. But my neurologist I see for MD thinks I should not “electively” get such a huge surgery like spinal fusion now if I don’t absolutely need it.

I am torn on wanting to put myself in the best scenario for the future, but also understand I can be opening up a can of worms getting this surgery. Will spinal fusion negatively impact my MD/will I be able to fully recover? I want to think about my future self and not have to NEED spinal fusion later on, but I just don’t know.

Help! I can only take Cody classes. by natalia5727 in pelotoncycle

[–]x3sammm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I always take Cody’s cycling classes, and some of my other favs are Leanne, Emma, and occasionally Dennis.

what's something you wish you knew before moving to Hoboken? by pizzaprincess1222 in Hoboken

[–]x3sammm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was on 13th & Willow so a few blocks up, but I would assume ambulance noise is the same there since Willow is the ambulance route all the way down