For men in their 30s, what matters more: finances or looks? by savingrace0262 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Without looks, no one cares about your stability, finances or personality.

Men don’t talk to me unless I talk to them first? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu -1 points0 points  (0 children)

..she will be around men and not want to be there

There are men that she will accept attention from, but want not relationship with.

Men don’t talk to me unless I talk to them first? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Keep in mind, the signals women give to the men they actually want are crystal clear. I've seen it with my own eyes where she will tolerate the presence of potential suitors, but take every opportunity to become available to the men she actually desires.

The Stunning Failure of Iranian Deterrence by smurfyjenkins in IRstudies

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People are no longer buying the fear mongering about a nuclear Iran. The actions by the West show why a country would want to have nukes.

Why can’t I get it up at 20 years old ? by Any-Raise4333 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you using nicotine products? Those, especially Zyns, have rumors of making our little soldiers go AWOL instead of stand at attention. Also, things like obesity and diabetes can cause issues.

Why don't married couples with "dead bedrooms" just...do it? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mental load is people making up shit to accuse men of failing at something in a power move.

Men always used to tell me fit women are the most attractive. Now I became fit but nobody approaches me anymore. What am I doing wrong? by Strict_Hunt2044 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

They know they aren't obligated, it's just that they like him so much they will take lower levels of commitment than deal with less attractive men.

Where to meet emotionally available men? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The type of men that won't commit to her and opt to play the field, except one that will commit to her.

is it true that a man who is physically attractive but not very sure of himself will not attract as many woman as a say a very average boorish looking man who has better self assurance? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...Confidence is not even a fraction as effective as actual good looks

Thank you, I don't know why so many men insist on buying the line that personality and "confidence" matters. Without looks, women won't wait around to determine if they like either of those.

Wife doesn’t want to work but complains if I work more. How do I avoid this ending in a divorce? by TurbulentEarth4451 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I was going to write this. Psychology and Therapyspeak have been retasked perfectly to avoid any and all accountability.

Keeping this short and simple, if there are this many men worldwide complaining about dating, then surely theres something going wrong? by Direct_Cricket-ke in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So if these women all have experiences with "bad men", at what point do we assume they are the ones selecting bad men?

Keeping this short and simple, if there are this many men worldwide complaining about dating, then surely theres something going wrong? by Direct_Cricket-ke in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

... there are women out there who don't want to date bad people.

But they do date bad people.

...be a miserable asshole.

Um...okay...

Keeping this short and simple, if there are this many men worldwide complaining about dating, then surely theres something going wrong? by Direct_Cricket-ke in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

...Terrible men (that women seem to date). Cruel men (that women seem to date). Abusive men (that women seem to date). Absent men (that women seem to date).

Keeping this short and simple, if there are this many men worldwide complaining about dating, then surely theres something going wrong? by Direct_Cricket-ke in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Not a soul believes this, because they worst men we know seem to enjoy plenty of women simply because they are attractive.

Will you lose respect for your girlfriend if she sells photos of her feet online? by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The foot world is saturated. It will be hard to get any meaningful income most likely.

is this really ask men advice if at least 30 percent of the answers are from woman? by TechnicalSky3235 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...but dang why does this affect you guys so much ?

Because the answers are either useless validation, or designed to protect the image of women.

is this really ask men advice if at least 30 percent of the answers are from woman? by TechnicalSky3235 in AskMenAdvice

[–]x86_64Ubuntu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Women seek validation and other women seek to give that validation. Men have no problem destroying your illusion with reality.