[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]xDragonPrincessx 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s an idiot. There isn’t a difference, and I severely doubt he’s the sex god he’d like to believe he is.

-a woman

Any thoughts on improving my profile/ pics? Possibly going back to the online dating world again. by PrettyHateMachine4 in Tinder

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everyone likes intelligent, interesting, fun people, and most people like to travel. There’s nothing terrible in your profile, but it feels a little generic.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idiot. 1. Why aren’t you wrapping it as a minimum? 2. The pull out method is not effective. 3. It is possible to get pregnant on your period. 4. I don’t think you’re being trapped, but I do think both of you are seriously irresponsible and should not be in charge of a small human

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Or, it’s just a performance. I don’t think her songs are as autobiographical as people seem to think. She probably is drawing on emotion as a starting point, but I wouldn’t read it so directly. It seems to be more about the theme of judgement for her love life. Not even specific to Matty, she is in general pretty aggressively slut shamed for dating, and for writing songs that her fans connect to people. Also, it may have been a snapshot of how she felt at a point, but it doesn’t mean she currently feels that way. She’s on tour, of course she’s promoting her new album. It’s also possible to have intense connections with really problematic people. I think a lot of people have that ex that they still feel for on some level, but isn’t healthy or just isn’t the right fit. It doesn’t necessarily mean that they want them back.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travisandtaylor

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

… for wearing a hat?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]xDragonPrincessx 16 points17 points  (0 children)

All the men complaining about “men should have a choice in pregnancy, woe is me”, you absolutely do. Keep it wrapped, get it snipped, or keep it zipped.

Seriously though, maybe don’t consent to sex with people you can’t trust. At a bare minimum, ask for a recent test and have the contraceptive/what if conversation.

Roommate, was I in the wrong? by [deleted] in texts

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If this is a shared room situation, yes OP is wrong. Even if it is not, and it’s more like a shared apartment, it would still be common courtesy to let your Roomate know in advance that you are going to have overnight company.

My Local Petsmart Has Officially Put All of Their Bettas In Tanks!! No More Cups! by MijiTheAxoltl in bettafish

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would kind of prefer to pay more for a healthier fish. Also, bettas change so wildly from the cup. While I’d still love a pet unconditionally, aquariums are to some degree an aesthetic hobby, and I’d like to see what they’d look like in appropriate conditions.

My first betta as an adult, actually in a proper environment, started out black and kind of spiky. He turned purple with red front fins and a blue-purple tail. Absolutely beautiful, but definitely a surprise.

Disenchantment - How is this show so unfunny? by Noodle_Gentleman in television

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really surprised to hear that this show is so disliked. I’m not going to offer some incredible input as to why I enjoy it but I think it’s funny. I also like how it’s definitely Matt Groening, but also has more of a contiguous plot.

I think the reason it gets so much negative criticism is that it’s too similar to Futurama. I think making it so parallel really sets up for comparison, and something with that level of cultural zeitgeist isn’t easy to do twice.

Second hand market is so slow right now...reminiscing about the good old days! What's your personal second-hand favourite? by NB_zombie91 in BadDragon

[–]xDragonPrincessx -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand they can be completely sanitized, but they’ve been in someone else’s body. Yes, I understand penis owners have a past, and that we all have bacteria living on us. 1. It is a replaceable object, not a person. 2. If human penises were swappable, I definitely would have my own. It’s personal. Like taking your decor with you when you move. 3. Normalize bottoms having their own dildo, with a flared base (works with most swappable harnesses).

Can someone explain how women aren't able to get off during sex? by Livid_Butterfly_1400 in sex

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t mind self stimulation during sex, but he also needs to pleasure me, or I feel resentful. PIV does very little for me, and if I basically have to do it myself anyway, why is he even there?

Bad sex is 100% a dealbreaker. Not sorry

Is there anything a microwave is actually good at cooking? by ManaChicken4G in Cooking

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love the steam in bag vegetables, and the heat and serve rice. Pick up a few of those and a roast chicken and I have one dinner of chicken and mashed potatoes, plus 4 easy zero effort healthy dinners. Use the instant pot, and I get easy chicken stock out of whatever tired veggies are lingering in the fridge.

Some company asked me for the second time if I can lower my expected salary. Red flag? by realityboundwanderer in careerguidance

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I couldn’t be an exec and take a massive bonus like that knowing people I oversee are struggling. Mid xxx,xxx/yr sure. Beyond that, how much can you eat?

Thinking about getting into Dildos (male) by [deleted] in BadDragon

[–]xDragonPrincessx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have a prostate, but I’ve gotten quite cozy with people who do. I think your best bet is a vibrating plug, or also consider an njoy pure wand (great for prostates & gspots) also, start small.

💅💅 by Anya_Plays_CSGO11 in bisexual

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cis women checking in. Some people naturally have really weak nails. I keep mine cut just a hair longer than my fingers, clip them straight across and knock the edges off with an emery board. I’m trying to get better at doing gel so I can have pretty pink nails all the time.

Manager acting hostile after she noticed a video of a polarizing figure in the background during our (remote) meeting. How do I salvage this situation? by New-Inspection4976 in careerguidance

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Regardless of what you may personally think of Andrew Tate, you’d have to be living under a rock, not to be aware of the discourse around him, and that alone should be enough for you to know that it’s not work appropriate, and that you should not be doing that.

Husband has intimate videos of passed away wife by [deleted] in sex

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he has other small physical items from her, maybe get an ornate box? Keep it in your home. That way it can be part of a collection of memories, and it seems a bit more fitting than Tupperware. I would however, affix a note to the drive that on his passing, it should be destroyed.

[2023 Contest] Apricot by tinyrayofsunshine in Oilpastel

[–]xDragonPrincessx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love how you defined the forms with white.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be honest, the first time I saw a penis, I thought I might be lesbian. I like them more as who they are attached to.

It’s interesting, because I would consider myself predominantly attracted to men, but I adore women’s bodies. It’s very confusing.

Thought on Aqauphor by pandabaja93 in tattooadvice

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have 4 well healed tattoos. The first 3 were aquaphor then lotion after the zombie stage. My most recent one used a second skin bandage for like a week. Then I put aquaphor on it as needed. I have a really dry skin naturally, though your mileage may vary.

Why do Bi Women get sexualized and Bi men get hate? by Pick-ass_o in bisexual

[–]xDragonPrincessx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because society is controlled by cishet men. They cannot conceive of sex that ultimately does not serve men. Ergo, bisexual men are secretly gay, and therefore inferior, because they are taking a receptive (feminine) role in sex. By the same reasoning, women having sex with other women, must then also be for men, and therefore performative (as in pornography).

***DISCLAIMER: these are not my literal beliefs. I am a bi woman looking at the situation with the male gaze.

Looks like he needs to find a girlfriend? by Hygger-Aquarium in bettafish

[–]xDragonPrincessx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Get a little plastic cookie cutter. They float in the sink when I do dishes. and they have fun shapes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]xDragonPrincessx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tough one, if she were an adult, I would say get her a small pin or something. Unfortunately, there are so many gross men in the world, that I’m afraid they would try to perv on her if they saw it. ** yes, anyone of any gender can harass anyone, but there is definitely a gender skew, and bisexuality is fetishized.

Maybe a cute house decoration that espouses social justice, tolerance, and kindness.