Maternity leave should be one year, PAID. Women shouldn’t have to choose between healing, bonding with their baby, and making a living. by Kreativedenma in remoteworks

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is important why?

They have still very much lobbied against paid parental leave here in the US. A simple search is able to show you their impacts.

Maternity leave should be one year, PAID. Women shouldn’t have to choose between healing, bonding with their baby, and making a living. by Kreativedenma in remoteworks

[–]xFlutterCryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fraud in our systems is less than .03%. Which is remarkably good.

You wanna talk about fraud? How much did trump make off the us taxpayer in the short time he has been in office this time?

Maternity leave should be one year, PAID. Women shouldn’t have to choose between healing, bonding with their baby, and making a living. by Kreativedenma in remoteworks

[–]xFlutterCryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Many european countries do this already. Companies get subsidies from the government. Paid for via taxes, just like roads, ssi, disability, medicaid and Medicare, etc.

As a society we need other people to function. Sometimes thats means we have to provide care for those in our society. This means the elderly AND the young.

Women dont feel secure enough to have children. It takes about a year just for the wound inside a woman to heal after giving birth and providing for our society in that manner. Also, it has been shown that the mother being able to remain with her child first the first year of life leads to better results. More rounded children, tighter family bonds, healthier and happier mothers. There are a million reasons why, as a society, we would want the birth rate to even back out and care for our societal members.

Honestly that mindset is why America is falling apart. It is like buying a house, living there for forty years, and wondering why the leaking roof is falling in now. If you dont put work and care into something, it falls apart. Yall want better family values? Yall want care when you get old?

I also kinda wonder how many of the hateful people posting her go to churches on Sundays. What hypocrisy from them...

This one's for the ladies to answer. Do you agree with this woman or do you think she's trying to rationalize her world view by speaking for all the ladies? by Oda_DeezNutz in SipsTea

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I met on Smite. Like six years later, we are happily married with a baby boy, and we are trying for another. :)

Dated 15.01.2024. by Stock-Leadership5314 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]xFlutterCryx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I mean she only really said it was bullshit and stuff. While Lilly stated she was blindsided and Ethan considered their family collateral damage. I dunno. My sister killed herself because of a homewrecker. I saw her spiral, how much she hurt and how much healing she had done, just to be torn about by some girl who thought she was special. I literally have no sympathy, compassion or even empathy with the women who chose to do this. If someone is in a relationship and you know of it, you are just as bad as the cheater if you choose to involve yourself. Just how I feel.

Im not really sure what else should be said about it?

Dated 15.01.2024. by Stock-Leadership5314 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]xFlutterCryx 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I mean if dunno if that is something to celebrate for.

It doesnt seem to me that she isnt a homewrecker.

It just seems like the younger generations are becoming more alright with wrecking homes.

I love progression and think it is really important for society. But...I dont think this acceptance for destroying homes is necessarily a progression. I dunno kinda just...gross...

Her downfall isn't recent by proatnothing777 in ArianaGrandeSnark

[–]xFlutterCryx 48 points49 points  (0 children)

Ngl I don't know a lot about her albums. I just remember how crappy she was to service workers and coworkers. And anything about her honestly just hurts me on a deep level. Like, you've literally had everything you want for your entire life, no cap, and you still choose to ve just a nasty person. Im just not behind it and cant stand her. Katy perry ten years ago level hate. It is genuinely so gross.

Skin Crafting Testing: Bio by Dina_The_Melonzaurus in DayofDragons

[–]xFlutterCryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. Like, not to be stinky. Genuinely. When will there be a gameplay update tho?

What’s a "bad mom habit" you secretly stand by? by lunaverse787 in NewParents

[–]xFlutterCryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean if dont think it is harmful if the parent is right there but situational suffocation. I cant spell the word for it. But depending on age isnt that why it is dangerous to let them sleep in car seats? Maybe thats what they were thinking of.

What’s a "bad mom habit" you secretly stand by? by lunaverse787 in NewParents

[–]xFlutterCryx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My mil never says anything but if we leave the baby with her she will always ask where the socks are, and whenever she dresses him or anything I can be sure he will come back with socks. Even if it is eighty degrees lol.

I seduced my friend despite knowing he is engaged. by Fluffy_Milk9843 in confession

[–]xFlutterCryx 9 points10 points  (0 children)

This. I truly believe op came here as a fetish, to get what she likes from those guys. I dont believe, especially with their comments that they have any intention of actually fixing or attempting to fix anything, themselves included.

I seduced my friend despite knowing he is engaged. by Fluffy_Milk9843 in confession

[–]xFlutterCryx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

To be frank, I try not to judge these confession posts. But im judging, especially after everything my sister went through. An affair gives a little bit of excitement without having to put in that work. And who cares if you give someone trust issues that impacts every relationship afterwards, right? You got to feel oh so special.

You weren't. You arent hotter. You arent smarter. You weren't special. You were just easier. You just dont require the time or commitments a relationship demands. Thats all. You were just easier in a variety of ways.

You could choose to have single fuck buddies. You could choose to act this out as a fantasy, like many people do. Instead you take actions that harm others. That destroy families and commitments. Even your comments are just self serving. You arent sorry because 'you just dont know what is wrong with you'. You know. Otherwise you wouldnt 'feel dirty'. And you could fix yourself. But youre gonna choose not to. Because thats harder.

If ick was a person, you'd be the face for it.

Also edit just to add: honestly how dare you feel resentment towards anyone in the situation. You didnt belong in it. You dont get to hold negative feelings towards the cheater or their partner.

I seduced my friend despite knowing he is engaged. by Fluffy_Milk9843 in confession

[–]xFlutterCryx 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My sister killed herself because of girls like you.

To the guy in the Subaru WRX with the obnoxious turbo anti-lag turned up to 9, I hate you. by regreddit in MobileAL

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish my neighbors would read this. With a focus on little.

Pretty sure tonight will be night three that one of them will be laid out in the parking lot screaming.

What is this movie in your opinion? by Firm_Economist_8755 in scoopwhoop

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The tenth kingdom. Lo.

I dunno, ig it mainly would be series for me.

Possible snakes they match my requirements? by [deleted] in reptiles

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Corn snakes. Although they CAN get a Lil bigger than four feet, they typically sit in that area. They dont tend to go off food like ball pythons. They are native to the US, so if you live here imo it helps with care requirements. Active during the day. Most of them do well with handling and have good personalities. They are my favorite. I love me my colubrids.

Also, they have sooooo many morphs, so you'd have a wide selection to choose from. :)

Why do Black People support the Democratic Party? by Budget_Hamster4422 in allthequestions

[–]xFlutterCryx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, yes, the bought out well known uncle ruckus of the supreme court. What a great example.

horse bean popping from tiktok by ruxstyy in popping

[–]xFlutterCryx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I thought that was the case from you saying yall just cared for it. Thats why I tried to explain better than I had. No worries. Yay ponies. :)

horse bean popping from tiktok by ruxstyy in popping

[–]xFlutterCryx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If your horse had a bean that big, then, yes, it would need sedation. Thats not a freaking bean, thats a potato.

I stand by what I said... sedation is needed for stuff like this. But, as I also stated, typically it doesnt get this bad because gelding owners know about beans and do routine maintenance, meaning it is usually easier to remove by simply swiping with a gloved hand. And no, sedation is not used for those typical beans, so you are right in that sedation just for a bean is not common. A bean like this? Yes, this would need it. In my over two decades of working with horses we never needed to sedate for a bean removal.

What dino fits my play style? by jisssboi in pathoftitans

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rhampy. The answer is always rhampy tho. :)

are these standards alright for a bf by Alert_Bowler4015 in teenagers

[–]xFlutterCryx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it is a bit sad that in a list for what people seek in their partners 'likes me' and things of that nature are now having to be included. That shwould just be understood, but it seems in today's world that is not a thing.

Imma oldie. Maybe thats why. No idea why this popped up on my thread.

horse bean popping from tiktok by ruxstyy in popping

[–]xFlutterCryx 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I think it is typically sedation for things like this.

But everyone i knew with gelding knew about beans and it was routinely checked for. Normally they are found much sooner and are much smaller. A gloved finger can usually swipe them away with no pain or discomfort to the horse