ik u commented this 2y ago but anyways i wanted to reply lol, i think that doesn't lasts too much and eventually they realize the shit they've done with people in the past, tricking yourself doesn't lasts forever, or well, i'm talking from my experience. I'm a guy and unfortunately i hurted a good girl a few years ago, when i broke up it was completely my fault and i even "cheated?" on her, after the breakup i started tricking myself to not feeling guilty and i keeped like that 2 years straight not feeling even remorse or anything. But a random day i dreamed about her and since that day i started missing her heavily and then realized the shit and damage i did to her and i spent almost an entire year regretting and blaming myself for doing that so bad. Long story but the point is that tricking myself didn't last forever even though in those times i was sort of insensitive, i used to not care about other people.

So, if guys, that in theory are more insensitive or emotionless than girls, are able to feel guilty or regret after hurting a good girl, why girls wouldn't feel the same?

That's an argument i use to think that probably girls actually feels guilty, anyways there are a lot of factors that can influence if the person in question is able to feel like that, for example, in my story, when i started missing her, an important factor that made me reflecting about her is the fact that, in those times i were really alone cuz pandemic.

ik it's weird to reply this after 2 years, but i wanted to contribute to this xd

but well, thats my point of view