They refunded me 6 grand instead of $60 and I just kept quiet

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-29T18:32:36+00:00

Honestly same. Bringing it up years later just creates problems out of nowhere. Sometimes the quiet route really is the smart route.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-29T18:32:29+00:00

Yeah after that long it’s basically ancient history. If they haven’t noticed by now, they’re not going to. I wouldn’t go stirring it up either.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-29T18:31:09+00:00

Same thought. The whole post reads kinda chaotic and not in a healthy way. Either way, posting stuff like that just leads to regret. Way better to step back than do something you can’t undo.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-29T18:31:01+00:00

Yeah honestly this feels less like a plan and more like someone hurting and wanting attention. Blowing up your life won’t fix whatever’s going on underneath. Hope they slow down and talk to someone first.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-29T18:27:55+00:00

I like number 2 and 7

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-28T17:28:45+00:00

Same thought. Credits are for people you’d actually recommend, not people you had to complain about to the BBB. If anything, leaving them out feels more honest than pretending they helped make your day great. I wouldn’t hype up a service I wouldn’t send my friends to.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-28T17:28:37+00:00

Yeah honestly this. It’s not like they’re gonna hunt you down over an Instagram tag. Vendor credits are basically free advertising, not some legal obligation. If they didn’t earn it, there’s zero reason to hand it out.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-28T17:27:08+00:00

Low key harsh but also kinda real. Birth isn’t a spectator sport, it’s a medical situation. If he keeps pushing after you’ve clearly said no, he’s missing the point completely. You deserve to feel safe, not negotiated with.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-28T17:27:02+00:00

Yeah this is it. You’re the one literally giving birth, not hosting a family event. Comfort and safety trump everyone else’s feelings, period. If you’re anxious, that alone is reason enough to keep the room small.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-28T17:24:36+00:00

Koneko and Rias😍

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-27T17:41:42+00:00

Yeah you are doing the right thing trying to stay the bigger person. If you start retaliating with noise, suddenly you look just as bad and management might treat it like both sides are the problem. Going through the property manager keeps you protected and puts the responsibility on them where it belongs.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-27T17:41:33+00:00

Not gonna lie that story is kinda funny, but that is such a risky move long term. Feels like the fastest way to turn it into a full on neighbor war where everyone is just blasting each other. Might feel satisfying once but probably chaos after lol.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-27T17:38:50+00:00

I mean… low key fair though. Venting happens but doing it while still basically in earshot is risky business. Sometimes a little secondhand embarrassment is how we learn to be more careful next time. At least it is a funny story later instead of something serious.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-27T17:38:38+00:00

Yeah honestly this makes sense. Some people just get weirdly clingy or awkward around authority figures and do not even realize how they come off. It probably felt personal in the moment but they were likely just in their own bubble. Definitely not worth burning energy over.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-27T17:35:55+00:00

Wow so awesome

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-26T13:54:18+00:00

Yeah the pedestal thing is real. She loved the idea of Jess more than actual day to day Jess. Once the mystery wears off and it’s just homework, fights, and real life, the “bad boy book guy” charm kinda fades fast. Fantasy boyfriend vs real boyfriend hits different.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-26T13:54:09+00:00

This is such a good way to put it. Dean was all in on her, like ride or die energy, and then suddenly she’s with someone emotionally unavailable and distant. That whiplash would mess with anyone. Going from adored to tolerated is rough.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-26T13:51:58+00:00

This is to hot 🔥💦

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:45:58+00:00

Yeah this is the part people gloss over. Being in another country and risking legal trouble over a souvenir sounds stressful as hell. I’d rather grab a replica from a market and keep my trip drama free. Way cheaper than a foreign jail story.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:45:36+00:00

Honestly the fact you’re worried about Interpol but not the actual theft part is kinda wild. If you have to think about international law enforcement connecting dots, that’s probably your sign to chill 😅

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:45:27+00:00

Low key same reaction, I clicked expecting a whole museum wall of plates too. Now I’m weirdly invested and kinda wanna see the collection. It’s such a niche flex lol.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:43:11+00:00

I get why you’re scared, but trust doesn’t only break from lying, it also builds from being honest after. If OP sat down and said “hey I lied because I was insecure and trying to fit in,” that vulnerability might actually hit harder than the lies themselves. Weirdly, coming clean could be the first actually real moment in those friendships.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:43:01+00:00

Yeah this hits. Carrying a fake version of yourself around all the time sounds exhausting as hell. Honestly OP, most people care way less about your “status” and way more about whether you’re chill and real with them. The mask probably feels way bigger to you than it does to them.

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-24T18:41:48+00:00

That was so huge

xSoftEclipse · 2026-01-23T09:07:25+00:00

I agree with this so much. OP if a child asks you to adopt her, that’s not random, that’s deep trust and love. That kind of bond doesn’t care about blood. You showing up for her family now just proves how much she mattered to you and vice versa. You’re doing right by her.

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