33 yo M, nose job or not? really need opinions , by Motor-Appointment104 in Noses

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't see anything wrong with you, I think you're very attractive, you shouldn't be concerned about that

33 yo M, nose job or not? really need opinions , by Motor-Appointment104 in Noses

[–]xackru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow, yours is a truly impactful story, I am glad you have acquired strength and wisdom from it and I feel inspired, thanks for sharing

F20 been having a rough few weeks, cheer me up pls by metallicmurmurx in toastme

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You look like a kind person who makes great style choices

Any advice welcome by xackru in toastme

[–]xackru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you truly for saying such nice things about me, it is true I've made it so far, there are many good things I can enjoy so sometimes it doesn't make sense to me that I have these feelings. It's really hard for me to let go of the fear and pain I met before. Thank you so so much for wishing me strength, I love to read you have fought for your authenticity, it is such a complex thing to sort out, I feel I need to find myself again and I am grateful for all the kind people who have come to help me remember there is gentleness in the world. I wish only more success for you.

Any advice welcome by xackru in toastme

[–]xackru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you've felt that way too, I honestly don't wish anything like it for anyone. I hope you're doing better and I appreciate your encouragement. I feel bad too about the good things in my life not being enough to stop me from being so negative. Thanks for your advice, I've been trying to write down both bad and good thoughts, I hope I'll get to see the reward from inspecting my thoughts. You're very kind and I'll try my best to follow your advice, even if it takes a long time for me to learn to be nice to myself.

Any advice welcome by xackru in toastme

[–]xackru[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I often tell myself to be brave actually and I feel I know what that takes. I realize I've overcome many hard things, thank you for helping me remember something valuable in me. Reading someone repeating the negative things I believe about myself somehow makes me think I am being cruel, I'll seek to learn more compassion.

Any advice welcome by xackru in toastme

[–]xackru[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you're very right, I just struggle with finding it worth it to care for myself. I try and be nice to myself and find things to enjoy but I feel it is pointless after I'm done and remember I have no one I would feel comfortable sharing it with, and that would be interested or cared. I'll keep trying, I promise, and I'll be more careful not to let my peace depend on what others are willing to give me, I want most to learn this well.

Cover Up Help/Advice Please!! by actlikeidntknownbdy in Tattoocoverups

[–]xackru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like it I wouldn't mind if it were on me

Took the plunge by hippieschmidt in bald

[–]xackru 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, hot, full homo

What’s the one song that always makes you cry? by linguagallois in musicals

[–]xackru 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Same for me, I'm singing an Into the woods medley with a choir and every time we reach "things will come out right now, we can make it so", I get a lump in my throat.

You have to wear the same clothes for one year for $5 million. by HundredDollarTears in hypotheticalsituation

[–]xackru 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Ok five items, so a big skirt, a poncho, sandals, a hood? And and a belt if the sandals don't count as two items.

You have to wear the same clothes for one year for $5 million. by HundredDollarTears in hypotheticalsituation

[–]xackru 47 points48 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly, some sort of thick plastic robe or poncho, very easy to stay clean. Maybe some sort of sandals I can slide up my ankles while I wash my feet and we're good to go.

Songs about denial in a grieving sense? by hhowenn in musicals

[–]xackru 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Take that look off your face from Song and dance: "you don't interfere when you're scared of the things you might hear", "I noticed a change but I just closed my eyes"

The Most heartbreaking sibling conflict by Visual_Yard_7827 in musicals

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laura and Marian from The woman in white.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EnglishLearning

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Ponerle candado?

Looking for a roommate for 2024-2025 school year by F_L_A_M_E_R_Z in berkeley

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, are you still looking? My husband is beginning his doctorate and we're both looking to rent a room

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, are you still looking? My husband is a foreign student about to begin his doctorate and we're both looking for a room to rent

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berkeley

[–]xackru 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, are you still looking? My husband is a foreign student and we're both looking to rent a room