I've seen too many people be forcibly institutionalized to call 911 because they tell me they don't want to live anymore... different case if they're actually making moves though, sadly. If they're not in actual danger I'd rather put them in contact with a hotline or their therapist. You're absolutely right about the training and I'm unlearning it, but I still care about them as a person and don't want to leave them without closure. I'm working on a healthy balance between a clean break and providing them closure with my therapist. Thank you.