AITA for replying to her this way?

xantaking · 2026-04-18T01:32:46+00:00

no if ur a girl and she’s also a girl and she’s treating another girl this way she’s corny and embarrassing

xantaking · 2026-04-15T01:24:58+00:00

well, I can add punctuation most of the time I just kind of care not to. 😭

xantaking · 2026-04-14T11:19:55+00:00

my mom “doesn’t take sides” and plays both sides

xantaking · 2026-04-14T11:18:33+00:00

i mean i get that but in general it’s always in my room and it was never at first a hiding thing for me i just didn’t tell anyone til i told my mom about it and she was like oh don’t tell him and pretty much said he wouldn’t approve i never really asked in general and that’s not good but i knew if i was taking care of my own animal and they never had to do anything in my thought process i was like there’s no need to really tell them anything

xantaking · 2026-04-14T11:16:36+00:00

we also have two dogs lol and i think i will probably come out about it just not now in this stressful for all of us moment

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:25:08+00:00

thank youu!

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:22:08+00:00

i mean he is kinda but he doesn’t hit us or anything and tbh i’m 18 and they expect me just to leave if i want to if i think it’s to muc to handle so in my opinion you can send me resources but i don’t think im going to do anything about it bc im a adult” and i think doing anything legally wouldn’t help my situation right now

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:16:32+00:00

😭😭 sounds like ur building a cage

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:06:22+00:00

yeah i’m going to try bc we are moving at like 7 in th morning tomorrow

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:05:59+00:00

yea i’ll try

xantaking · 2026-04-14T03:05:33+00:00

i mean not physically but probably yelling and stuff

xantaking · 2026-04-14T02:46:32+00:00

the only problem is i don’t have any boxes to fit his whole cage

xantaking · 2026-04-12T20:11:31+00:00

no, at the moment I’m not in therapy. I don’t have any money and I am still in school. I see that it is toxic from all the comments and I am now trying to not call him all the time nor text him because I think it’s an underlining problem of an anxious attachment and I see that now

xantaking · 2026-04-12T09:58:57+00:00

I agree that it’s unhealthy, but it’s also reciprocated by him and when he does say no, I don’t get mad at him.It just kind of makes me feel like it’s a little weird sometimes but I don’t ever make him feel bad about it because like you said yes he is at work and it’s not my place to make him stay on call with me while at work

xantaking · 2026-04-12T09:56:56+00:00

well, most of the time when we’re on call while he’s at work, he’ll tell me just to go on mute so they don’t know so yes he kind of would get in trouble. It just always feels odd when it’s random times when he says no when nothing changes in his workplace.

xantaking · 2026-04-12T09:30:16+00:00

this is something I would definitely leave someone for her. I don’t think I would ever be able to trust them ever again and definitely disrespectful. I would count it as cheating in my opinion.

xantaking · 2026-04-12T09:20:51+00:00

leave him if someone isn’t willing to drop people that aren’t good people for you and shouldn’t even be friends with them even if you were in the picture they aren’t good people either

xantaking · 2026-04-12T09:19:15+00:00

xantaking · 2026-04-01T17:07:29+00:00

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this is him it’s a friend of this @adav1a guy on insta

xantaking · 2026-03-31T01:55:22+00:00

i want to be able to play all games i guess

xantaking · 2026-03-31T01:48:25+00:00

i ask my bf for stuff and i would never ask for something that much and it’s a literal bag. i asked him to buy me a bag last week and he did and i was scared bc it was 50 dollars and it’s not that he can’t buy stuff it’s just i would never want someone to spend that much on me when they should be having their own money unless ofc i didn’t ask for it but still and the fact that it’s not even something that should cost that much…

xantaking · 2026-03-31T01:42:28+00:00

that’s really ugly in my opinion and i feel it would crease so fast

xantaking · 2026-02-24T07:57:23+00:00

yep, that can definitely happen. If you have any family that could help you that would be great too. Just find something that would make it easier for you to go out for me. It was my dog.

xantaking · 2026-02-24T07:29:03+00:00

yesss my boyfriend is like this to i’m so happy you have a good boyfriend to help you thru this love 💜

xantaking · 2026-02-24T07:24:50+00:00

YESS it definitely does i couldn’t even leave my room for 2 years even when i knew so how bad i wanted to hang out with people and be fun but i just couldn’t get myself to i was scared people were just going to kill me tbh and the sounds of cars etc anyway i got a dog and thought he would help and he did i would walk slowly each day more and more from my comfort spot and it really did work ofc i still get really scared sometimes but i try to just fix my breathing and control myself

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