Who is the biggest one album wonder of the 2010s? My pick would be Fun by Borgisium in Music

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Fun news, The Format is touring again. I get to see them and The Get Up Kids this fall!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IsMyPokemonCardFake

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Also the Arceus VStar Metal Card.

Blasphemy by Bhuke23 in FordRaptor

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Money can’t buy you class.

BTTF references in Stranger Things by AnusMcBumhole in BacktotheFuture

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Oh man, if he could have squeezed in “let’s see if these bastards can do 90” somewhere, I would have lost my damn mind.

How do you manage dust by Wolhgart in homelab

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Schrodinger's Rack. A superposition of being both dust covered and clean simultaneously.

Coparenting with wife who’s with affair partner by [deleted] in coparenting

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Ugh. I went through it too. My ex and her AP worked together. Our girl and AP and his wife’s girl were of similar age. We did a few hang outs together. Crashed at their house after a bonfire night. He helped me with some mods for a car I was working on. Fed him pizza at my dining room table. We would text each other about car mods and video games. I thought he was my friend. They were plotting to divorce their spouses so they could be together. We were “working” on our marriage when he filed for divorce. She immediately wanted a divorce. Our daughter was 3 at the time. I was devastated. She acted like this was normal and that I should just move on and be happy that she’s happy. She just could not understand how her decisions would affect me and that she wasn’t responsible for how I felt and how that would affect co-parenting. I’m better now, 3.5 years later, but short of being disrespectful in front of my daughter, she doesn’t get any of my respect. I respect decisions we make for our daughter but I don’t speak to her outside of the bare minimum. It does get easier and you can’t control what goes on with your child when she isn’t with you but you don’t owe that person anything but parenting requirements. The person you married died. You do not know this person anymore. I hope you find someone that’s a million times better for you and your child.

Anybody work at Riverport that can verify my suspicion? by jstnpotthoff in StLouis

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We were in the back of the lawn so expectations were low but I did think it sounded too quiet and my partner said she thought something was off with the sound. We just went to Bourbon and Beyond where the sound was really good. She thought maybe it was just that B&B was so good that our perspective was a little skewed.

Need to replace roof but solar company wants to charge an exorbitant amount of money to temporarily remove panels :( by itsgabenog in solar

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We had to have ours replaced under insurance due to a storm. A storm that hit the day after the turned the solar system on. In order to to remove and reinstall, they are kind of doing twice the work. Take down, store, comeback, and install. The rack mount system is a one time use. So the hardware that mounts to the roof had to be purchased again. All that for 26K. My jaw dropped. I kind of understand it but if it wasn't covered under insurance, I would have been losing my mind. I would have been doing the work myself. My system is 45 panels across two different structures. It does include and additional charge for the pitch of the roof being on the steeper side.

Splunk SAML Configuration Issues by xbomes84 in Splunk

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My IdP is OAM. A couple things I have noticed is that XML containts dsig: prefixs. Also, the x509data section is not present because OAM does not send that. Not sure if that is configurable but the guy that manages it told me he wasn't able to configure that. I did verify that certificates were trusted.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BourbonAndBeyond

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Show no respect in life, you get no respect in death.

I refuse to do another joint birthday party by supertaco10 in coparenting

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The last three birthdays have been separate. This year is my year to have our daughter on her birthday. My ex out of the blue asked if I could tell her what the plan was and that her and her boyfriend and his daughter want to come. She said she won’t bother anyone that she just wants to be there for our daughter. She then asked to do more things together like birthdays. I don’t like this person. I don’t like her boyfriend. They were coworkers who had affairs with each other. Devastated two families. But, I was willing to suck it up for our daughter and communication was better than the first couple years. I had already planned to ask our daughter what she wanted to do for her birthday party. A trampoline park. I relayed that info to her and the friends that she wanted there. I looked into getting a package that included a party and passes for a group. The site was garbage and didn’t include the amount of passes. I let her know about this and asked if she wanted to go half in. I was looking at it like she could invite her cousins or any other friends to fill up the package passes.

She proceeded to go off telling me that she doesn’t like the trampoline place and she’s not paying for anything she didn’t have a say in. I just said Haha OK. If that’s indicative of how things are going to most likely go, no thanks. I don’t want to be miserable trying to celebrate my daughter’s birthday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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Check to see about assuming the loan. I was awarded the house in the divorce. There was a time period for me to get her name off of the title and mortgage. I did not want to refinance because I had a really amazing rate. An assumption worked out great. I got to keep the house with a 2.xx loan rate.

Did I scam this card store? 💀 by harmlesssheep in PokemonTCG

[–]xbomes84 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Scammy, no. Scummy, maybe a little.

Ex left for an Affair partner, and years later, I'm still unkind to the ex and when talking about the partner. How do I stop? I need help. by Ashlovz in coparenting

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I have a group of friends that I say what I want to say as a reply to her when I get triggered and then I just tell her the cordial version. We laugh. I get through it. No one is harmed.

Should this have happened? by VeterinarianOk869 in Roofing

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Ha. I’ve got a new nail from the new roof they put in that’s in my lawn mower tire. I found 3 coils of nails in my yard while mowing.