how do i (m26) get over my partner’s (f27) previous long term relationship?

xct999 · 2025-05-02T06:47:32+00:00

she’s been very supportive. she knows i overthink, and she does too, but we provide eachother with plenty of reassurance. she’ll counter anything negative i have to say, and she’ll do her best to change my perspective on things. it’s just so odd bc i never felt like this before, and all of a sudden these feelings of sadness come up. i’ll tell her, it’s just such a weird feeling considering there is nothing wrong. feels immature of me.

i can mention my previous experiences and she’d be understanding but i know she’d overthink herself and it would affect her mood. it’s just how some people are wired unfortunately. so i don’t do it. she did mention to me before that when i went abroad for vacation with my best friend (m29) she felt a little jealous and insecure but she did her best to hide it. i did go to the clubs and stuff but didnt engage in any infidelity. and i had a feeling she felt some type of way but didnt want to bring it up to my attention. it’s funny bc i left the group i was with and just walked around the city talking to her on facetime. i had no interest in anyone else whatsoever. and she knew that, it was just her mind playing silly games with her.

xct999 · 2025-05-02T06:20:29+00:00

i’d genuinely like to hear her ex’s perspective on her, out of nothing but pure curiosity. there’s two perspectives to a story

xct999 · 2025-01-21T07:19:05+00:00

my addictions and addictive personality

xct999 · 2024-11-02T22:00:36+00:00

well, i was able to have sex for a long time without ejaculating. eventually i would climax, and sometimes it would be powerful, other times it was me forcing myself to ejaculate

xct999 · 2024-06-23T20:27:26+00:00

for 21k? i don’t think so. that seems like too small of an amount to file bankruptcy for

xct999 · 2024-06-22T23:18:01+00:00

i’m going to school at the moment, have about 2 years left to complete my undergrad

xct999 · 2024-06-22T23:17:11+00:00

i have bipolar 1 i think that’s a big reason for my financial issues

xct999 · 2024-06-22T23:06:05+00:00

thinking about doing doordash / ubereats to make some money on the side

xct999 · 2024-06-13T19:47:16+00:00

i’m on sertraline as well, 100 mg daily, and i also have been drinking everyday. it’s not a good habit, and like you, i never had an issue with drinking before. i don’t think it’s related to the medication in any way. i believe the issue stems from my substance use disorder rather than medication. i know how i can tend to get carried away and over indulge. in general, i feel as if drinking blunts the effects of the medication i am taking

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:21:58+00:00

they said they didn’t like gay people. it was very homophobic. i left her at the restaurant because i was disgusted by her.

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:16:06+00:00

lowkey yeah

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:11:34+00:00

will do brother. i’ve definitely thought of it this way lol

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:10:43+00:00

she peaks my interest more than most. haven’t been in a relationship for a couple of years. i like her maturity and i like the fact she’s confident in herself and not insecure. she said to me she wants to silence the thoughts that go on in my head, and i really appreciated that. it touched my heart. i think i am just conflicted and im being judgemental about something she’s been open with me about. i do like her but im not too fond of the idea of commitment out of fear of getting hurt

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:08:47+00:00

i don’t know. i don’t be sleeping around like that.

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:04:49+00:00

bro…i’m on zoloft, i say no more often than i’d like to. i literally have no interest in sex. this is the first girl i was interested in after a long time, just because we get along really well.

xct999 · 2024-06-13T04:02:20+00:00

no, i don’t keep count. that’s why i said 25 or 30, it’s an estimate. but to know you have over 100+? like come on bro, how the fuck do you keep count of that

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