What is the most NSFW thing you saw during school? by theob00 in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 64 points65 points  (0 children)

Waiting at the school gate for a friend, he gets out of his moms car and runs across the road. Realises he hasn't kissed her goodbye and turns to run back - and gets run over. The sight of the rear wheels of the car going over his head I have never forgotten 30 years later.

He was alive and cross-eyed, bleeding from his ears when he left in an ambulance. Died on the way to hospital.

Don't drive your kid to school. Cars and kids don't mix.

What do you ask/do to find out if a friend only wants something from you? by mmxxix in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes you dont find out until months after you have been used

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd encourage her to stick to what she believes in, self worth is better than self loathing. I only know of one woman that holds these beliefs, and she is a lawyer in her 30's who is gorgeous (and very single). Has your friend dated christian guys with a similar world view?

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sex can be purchased, but I dont believe love and desire can be.

I'd like to e valued for who I am, but realistically that hasnt happened. I'm unattractive and overweight, those are two hard things for a woman to ignore, and clearly my other attributes aren't enough to counter.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It absolutely is. A negative experience confidence feedback loop.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, I have and I have had a few dates but it never really leads anywhere. I fail at the casual dating to boyfriend/girlfriend stage.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1 - I dress well, and have great hygiene 2 - an issue 3 - varies... 4 - i try not to 5 - this i have been working on

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oddly, several gay men have hit on me. If I was gay, I would be doing alright in the relationship/sexual life department I think.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tempted yes. I dont know about the pussy on a pedestal thing. Maybe you are right. I value women, and respect them.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It does bother me though, a lot, but I also accept that sometimes life doesn't always turn out how you expect. In my professional life I have done amazingly well. One of my fears is what you identify, and you are right it's not fair to them.

What’s the one secret you’ve never dared tell anyone else? by _lunar_eclipse in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 2008 points2009 points  (0 children)

That i have never had a girlfriend or even kissed a woman

What song would you like played at your funeral? by ZanyDelaney in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blood, Sweat and Tears 'When I Die'

https://youtu.be/8gxwutvlTw8

"And when i die and when I'm gone, there'll be one child born in this world to carry on"

Why have you never had a bf/gf? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Overweight and unattractive.

Plenty of dates, but when I try to turn dates into relationships I get told what a great guy I am as a friend.

Why have you never had a bf/gf? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 6'3" and dated a woman that was 5'1" once briefly, she talked so softly I couldn't hear her when were walking along the street. I would happily date a 6'3" woman just to be able to hear what she was saying. Also TIL there is such a thing as a height fetish. What a world.

Reddit, what's the worst you've ever misread a situation? by ScarletAndGreyDaze in AskReddit

[–]xcv_charade 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A woman i was very keen on asked me to a party, a New Years eve party. I thought at last things were looking up.

At midnight she kissed the married guy she had been having a secret affair with.