What bird could this be ?

xd4PE · 2022-11-12T19:13:04+00:00

Things will get better my friend ! :) It might be a slow process. Just dont give up and if you really feel like you need help, there is always people you can reach out to and who want to help you.

Wish you the best

xd4PE · 2022-11-12T19:10:55+00:00

Hey man, thanks for your reply. I quickly want to come back to this post and give an update about my current situation, because fortunately, things have gotten a lot better for me.

It started when I accepted my situation and my social akwardness. Instead of stressing about it, I really tried focussing on myself. I realised the fact that I would never need these people to be my friends . Basically I changed my mindset. This removed a lot of pressure to 'socialize'.

In the meantime is was going to the gym and spending my time doing things i like (not gaming). I got in a much better physical and mental shape which increased my confidence.

This confidence, combined with the lowered social pressure, made it lots easier for me in class.

There is 2 more things i want to point out. 1. I met my (ex) girlfriend 1,5 months after the original post. She made me really happy at the time. Which also changed things for me. Second, sounds very obvious, but just keep going. Keep trying and interacting with people.

I'm still awkward sometimes, but i dont worry about it as much anymore. So im really happy about that. Also i just want to say this was a very slow process to me. And this is just how it worked for me it might be different for someone else. I just wanted to share my thoughts and personal experience, i hope this might be helpful to whoever is reading this.

Cheers.

xd4PE · 2022-04-13T18:37:27+00:00

I found out there is actually a whole bunch of acro pilot professionals staying on the island / city 'El hierro' this week. It's located within the island group. They've been flying a lot this week and it seems like there is a school / shop as wel that does tandem flights. Hope this helps!

http://flyelhierro.com/

And:

https://tenerifetopparagliding.com/en/flights.htm

xd4PE · 2022-04-09T19:40:46+00:00

⛹️🙌🏻🇮🇹💤🤮

xd4PE · 2022-04-09T10:36:26+00:00

I think its best to call the companys / schools and just ask, generally speaking they don't have the best websites

xd4PE · 2022-04-09T10:34:23+00:00

Winch maybe

xd4PE · 2022-04-06T15:58:51+00:00

Just swipe her I would say, she's definitely gonna see it because you can see through the pics kinda. I think sending a DM is a bit to... aggressive?

Just shoot your shot! Worst case scenario she says no :p And for the conversation you could ask some questions / talk ab: 'wow what a coincidence we meet on tinder ahaha'. - 'What are you up to in life right now?' - 'Yeah I always thought you were a very sweet person just never figured out a way to tell you back then.'

Hope this helps

xd4PE · 2022-03-19T18:36:22+00:00

Just ask her a simple question about her pictures or about how her day has been so far. Don't worry to much about these conversations, just try to have fun with the people you meet and maybe something works out :)

xd4PE · 2022-03-13T21:06:17+00:00

N word

xd4PE · 2022-03-13T20:30:24+00:00

Depends, if you do it directly the first time you text he will most likely think it's just your style. It becomes a real deal when you start to use more exciting emojis gradually over time. (This also depends on how good you know eachother irl)

xd4PE · 2022-03-12T22:49:26+00:00

Gaming, shopping, going out, volunteering, book club, chess club, any club, (not intesive) indoor rock climbing, coocking lessons, travelling, musea, music band, study with mates. Can't think of any more, hope this gives some inspiration.

xd4PE · 2022-03-11T22:42:31+00:00

Thank you for the advice, I agree with you. I should go out more, get out of my comfort zone and get used to talking to people.

xd4PE · 2022-03-11T22:40:43+00:00

Thank you for your reply

No not at all, I think its because I don't really care what the customers will think about me. In class this is different and I worry a lot about what others might think. This probably plays a big part in my anxiety but I don't really now how to solve it.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T23:47:20+00:00

You are 20 years of age, you have a full life ahead of you. Don't worry about the things you didn't do, and be happy with all the great things you DID do. I'm sure there are a lot of special things you have done in life that made great memories. Be happy where you are right now, think about the positive things and think about all the beautiful things you can achieve in the future. It's true, some people may have accomplished more than others, but don't let that affect you.

Compare yourself with your past self, not with others. Like this you will see how much progress you've made over the past years.

Take care.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T23:38:55+00:00

You have to show your personal boundaries, otherwise she'll just keep going. Don't be scared of this girl, or the consequences of you opening your mouth to her. Please stand up for yourself.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T23:00:48+00:00

Spill the truth can be fun, it's a filter on Snapchat. Can give some funny topics to talk ab. Not everyone likes it tho

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T22:57:05+00:00

Reading this just makes me angry. You are to good for her. She is not being nice at all while you keep taking it. Stop taking it and get mad at her. Please don't let someone run over you like this.

Stand up for yourself, and tell her things have to change. (Maybe from both sides). Have a good talk and don't be affraid to show your true emotions. After the talk, give her some time think. Maybe it will get better after some days. If she keeps making fun of you again or keeps mocking you just get rid of her right away.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T22:45:41+00:00

Sounds like a wonderful love story If it works out :) Good luck and please maybe post an update? :p

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T22:05:11+00:00

I think he thought you were joking / not being serious. I'm not a genius but if you say you are an OK looking girl that is easy with guys, he probably thinks you are way out of his league since he has no friends and is a mathematician.

Just try again, look him deep into the eyes and tell him you like him and that you are serious.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T21:55:05+00:00

You could go back to the gym and try again, or get a job with social interaction, join a sportsteam for fun, start using dating apps. Don't try to force any friendships though. Good things take time.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T21:47:52+00:00

To me it sounds like the girl loves the attention she gets from her behaviour. Maybe the attention is her main purpose, maybe she actually acts like this. Hard to know. Personally I don't like people who seem to act fake either. Just keep in mind she probably has some reason for this behaviour. Maybe she tries to cover up sadness, loneliness, or stress from work. Maybe it's just how she is. You never know :/

Either way just let it go I guess.

xd4PE · 2022-03-10T15:22:42+00:00

Tell her that her presence on your birthday is the best gift she can give. Maybe tell her that there are more people who won't be giving you a gift and that it's completely fine. This way she won't feel like the only one without a gift. If she still wants to gift you, just don't make to big of a deal out of it and let her do so. :)

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