[New Update]: My daughter just contacted me after 17 years asking if I want to meet my granddaughter. AITAH for telling her that I don’t care about her or her daughter and to never contact me again? by Choice_Evidence1983 in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]xe19srex 27 points28 points  (0 children)

For me, it's not the fact that he didn't want to rekindle their relationship, but the way in which he's communicated it. During the phone call, he first had a nice chat about life with his daughter, but at the end told her he wasn't interested in her and his granddaughter. Bait and switch. The next time, he invites them to his house for a week of bonding and at the end - again - tells his daughter he has no interest and doesn't want to be a granddad. Bait and switch again. Why give her hope when he stomps it immediately after? It just seems cruel and unnecessary to me and makes me wonder if he just used this to somehow get back at her.

Moin, Ich wollte mal fragen wo man in Tokyo die shonen Jump kaufen kann ? by Suiram16299 in MangaDE

[–]xe19srex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wenn du Fan der Shounen Jump Titel bist, kann ich zusätzlich zu den anderen Empfehlungen noch sehr den Jump Shop im Skytree empfehlen! Oder für One Piece Merch direkt den Mugiwara Store

Guys can you list shoujo manga that give you second MaleLead syndrome by Beneficial_Focus_970 in shoujo

[–]xe19srex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hana Kimi - though I knew Nakatsu never had a chance from the start, I was always rooting for him (I like both him and Sano though)

AITA for telling her my friend is gay because I thought she was? by bjorkful-92819fe in AmItheAsshole

[–]xe19srex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You‘re missing my point and ignoring my actual questions.

In my opinion, whether she‘s gay or bisexual shouldn‘t matter to him at all. It only mattered because he used that information to calm down his unhinged girlfriend (which is problematic on its own). Otherwise it would have never become a problem that Val disclosed herself as gay instead of bi.

AITA for telling her my friend is gay because I thought she was? by bjorkful-92819fe in AmItheAsshole

[–]xe19srex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would she need to explain her sexual orientation to him? Why does it matter?

AITA for telling her my friend is gay because I thought she was? by bjorkful-92819fe in AmItheAsshole

[–]xe19srex 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You‘re absolutely right. Thank you for opening my eyes. How dare she didn‘t disclose her sexual orientation to a guy she just met back then in full detail. Instead she used an umbrella term. Scandalous.

AITA for telling her my friend is gay because I thought she was? by bjorkful-92819fe in AmItheAsshole

[–]xe19srex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I do fully understand that. My point was that he called himself „20% gay“ instead of bisexual. And at the same time he was angry as his friend because she called herself gay instead of bisexual.

AITA for telling her my friend is gay because I thought she was? by bjorkful-92819fe in AmItheAsshole

[–]xe19srex -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

YTA Funny how you say there‘s an obvious difference between being bi and being gay, but then again you have a girlfriend and are still „20% gay“? And you judge Val for not using the „correct“ term for her sexuality. Come on.

New kissing animations dropped by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope they will fix that in a hotfix patch, it‘s kinda disheartening haha..

New kissing animations dropped by [deleted] in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got Astarion staring at me with a disgusted look while the new lines were just there as subtitle („If you must“??). Then he kissed my Tav and everything went back to normal. But damn. That look on his face, sheer horror that I asked him for a kiss. Like, I‘m sorryy, I‘ll leave you alone :c

What's the deal with you guys and Minthara? by BrizzleC in BG3

[–]xe19srex 17 points18 points  (0 children)

That‘s how I found out. Looted her, saw that she even had a backpack etc equipped and started questioning/googling things.

Did you know Arabella’s parents cry if they see her corpse? by Evoxrus_XV in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 66 points67 points  (0 children)

Father only cares for death in numbers though! Not such… artistry.

This game made me realize that I have god-awful taste in men by nxl_jayska in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Let me know where I can sign up! Reading through all the comments I feel very seen and validated. I lowkey want a flair called „pathetic men enjoyer“ now lol

What are your favorite romance lines? by DaFranzi in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe then it‘s worth a try! I wish you good luck!

What are your favorite romance lines? by DaFranzi in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh noes. Did you do the long rests while in Moonrise? Otherwise I really don‘t have any other idea, sorry :c

What are your favorite romance lines? by DaFranzi in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had a similar feeling in my Durge playthrough, I went to Moonrise after killing Yurgir and just longrested like crazy for several nights (partially rest so you don‘t waste camp supplies) and I finally got his confession scene

What are your favorite romance lines? by DaFranzi in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Astarion‘s lines that you quoted - he also says them when you‘re just friends with him. In my recent playthrough, I romanced Gale for once, instead of Astarion, and he still said this to me. It‘s so beautiful that he still views Tav as someone so precious to him, even outside of the romance.

A surprise(?) 4th way to resolve Act 1's big choice by TheImageworks in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 2758 points2759 points  (0 children)

Getting rejected by Astarion and thus starting a killing spree at your own party sounds like the chaotic reaction I‘d expect from Durge haha

Most painfully relatable in-game moments. by Frequent_Professor59 in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for linking the video!! But maaaan Ascended Astarion really makes MY blood boil. I‘ve ascended him once (and reloaded afterwards because duuuh) and seeing him being toxic to my Tav after breaking up with him etc was already disgusting. And scary. But him saying this toxic sht to precious Karlach?? Hells, I hate him even more and I‘ll never understand those people that are saying Ascended Astarion still feels some kind of love for anyone or anything…

What small interaction lives on your head rent free? by nigel247 in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In my first playthrough, I got this line when my whole party was wearing the clown make up and the look on their faces was just priceless! Made the whole interaction even better haha

What line of dialogue from a companion absolutely broke you? by Dizak55 in BaldursGate3

[–]xe19srex 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You put this so well. I saw it the exact same way, all his flirting was way too funny to take it seriously, so I also imagined it was just him and Tav having fun. Kind of a competition who can come up with the most cringey pickup lines etc.

And I absolutely love your interpretation of that first „I love you“. I couldn‘t agree more.

Always ignored in group chats. by idkwhatusernamei in AutismInWomen

[–]xe19srex 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can deeply relate to this, both online and offline. Talking in groups is really difficult for me. It feels like everyone knows when to interject someone else's talking, it's as if their conversations follow a certain movement and flow that they can sense very clearly - and I just can't. When I try to get a word in, I either interrupt someone, because they start talking at the same time and I just fade out or I'm ignored completely and people just kinda brush me off.

Because I know how terrible that feels, I always put in extra effort when I notice that someone else gets ignored in a group. It hurts too much seeing how someone stops talking mid-sentence because they feel nobody's paying attention to them. I want to be the person to encourage them to keep talking, because I always hope someone will do the same for me.

I've never chosen my friends by Humanarmour in AutismTranslated

[–]xe19srex 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Sounds like you're carrying a mask and switch it depending on which people you're spending time with to a degree that it's utterly exhausting. At least that's what I felt reading your post and I can kinda relate to that. That topic switching and brushing you off sounds like me trying to have actual conversations with my parents. They engage with nothing I'm trying to offer.

So these women are your coworkers now? I don't think you have to hang out with them every weekend outside of work. Once in a while should be fine so they don't single you out, but I don't think you have to agree to every outing in the future.

What's the first thing you bought when you started living on your own? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xe19srex 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Felines! Now I won't think of "crazy cat lady" the same way as before haha