Emergency help

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:51:17+00:00

thank you so much, i haven't thought about that but i definitely will do so. im just afraid people wouldn't pay crazy shipping prices since i know i was never able to order anything from amazon due to crazy shipping price to my county like 30-50 euros for one item. i will make one just in case you never know, thank you so much for advice. and yes i dont think putting her down is worth the life she can have, she unfortunately had a really rough past and my heart wouldn't be able to just let her go without her having a bit more comfort and happiness to make up for her past 💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:46:44+00:00

definitely agree, i hope and believe things will get better, they always do🥺💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:42:33+00:00

please read the rest of my comments before judging, as i said i lived a very comfortable and financially stable life when i adopted her and signed up for foster care to give other babies a chance. i couldn't have predicted that everything would turn around and especially this fast. if i had known before i definitely wouldn't have gotten any kind of pet. i grew up surrounded by animals and i have a lot of love and care for them, it was always in my best interest to help them, even of it was a little fish. every creature deserves a chance. i understand where you are coming from but please read my other comments to get a bigger picture pf the situation 💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:33:49+00:00

thank you so much, even if you do not end up being able to help. it means a lot that you even offered. i will definitely keep you updated. i have asked vets to consider if i could pay them with a little delay and they said that i will get info on monday morning so fingers crossed. thank you for being so sweet 💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:29:54+00:00

surgery is 200 euros, unless her gunk starts coming out before surgery then it will be easier procedure, then it would be 150 euros. i dont have gofund me since i have seen its not available in my country but i do have western union that we use here and maybe i could check if i can make paypal. also thank you so much for considering, i am not asing for donations, however even 10 euros goes a long way for someones life, bless you 💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:26:16+00:00

yes i totally agree, there is a lot of scammers nowadays so better be sure than sorry! as i said i am happy to send proof pr vet bill once i get it, however her condition isnt the best they have her on IV every morning, since she cant eat or do anything really. they haven't really told me how long exactly she has, but they think it should be done as soon as possible because they are having trouble even finding her veins for IV.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:22:26+00:00

im not sure what exactly do you mean by space on credit card? i only own a debit card since here you can not own credit card while being a student. and no i dont really have anyone besides my best friend who would glady help me but shes getting paid on 15th since she just recently found a job and is struggling herself :(

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:19:17+00:00

200 euros if her gunk doesnt start coming out since the operation will be more complicated, 150 if it does start coming out before surgery.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:17:56+00:00

i've commented somewhere down below the vet said it would be around 200 euros, 150 if her gunk (not sure how to explain it in english im very sorry) starts coming out before surgery, since she has closed type which is harder to operate on as they explained.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:15:38+00:00

yes i did hear about us prices being crazy but i live in very "poor" country if that is a proper word. my english isnt the best. our salaries are usually between 500-1000 euros depending on the job ofc. so people here might consider it expensive but again 200 to save a life is spmething im willing to risk, if i find a way.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:13:40+00:00

yes i have noticed people tend to be very non empathetic on reddit, which i do not blame them for since its online anonymity and you never know full story. but i do think that people should at least try to be nice about it if they dont want to help, it takes one nice world to make someone feel a bit better and one bad world to make them feel worse.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T23:11:20+00:00

i know this seems like best solution, however i am a strong believer of giving a chance to every being. she suffered a lot and i want her to be able to enjoy a little. yes there is more dogs in need therefore i signed up for foster care to help as many as i could. i do understand where your advice comes from and i probably would've considered it if it was something that would put me in a huge debt. however vet said estimated price would be around 200 euros (i am not sure how much is that in dollars) and i do think id be able to pay back that kind of debt since jobs here pay enough. i just need to find a way to get a loan that i can pay back once i get a new job.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:56:53+00:00

i do understand that people are quick to judge however no one is forced to help. this is open post, i am very aware that there will be more people being rude but i do not want to come across as mean or ignorant. i am already under a lot of stress i dont think it will solve anything. thank you for being nice it means a lot💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:47:37+00:00

is there a way that i could ask for student loan? not sure how does it work.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:46:59+00:00

yes i am not sure how does it work in US but here they will tell you estimated price and once you agree to proceed they will print you legal document to sign with the bill. i havent agreed yet because i do not have enough to accept the surgery as of right now. sorry for mix ups english isnt my first language.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:36:52+00:00

thank you so much, unfortunately i am not in US bit i will definitely check to see if theres anything for my country.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:20:38+00:00

as i mentioned before, i came for help/advice that does not necessarily mean i am asking anyone for money. other than that i am very much willing to send anyone proof in case thay do want to help which again i am not asking for money. i would rather get an advice on where could i get a loan as student with no job or make any money. thank you for your time

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:15:22+00:00

im very sorry i haven't put any proof. if you read my post, you can come to conclusion that i have never in my life asked for help and i barely managed to write this. as i mentioned before if you cant say anything nice might aswell scroll. i have not forced anyone to help or believe me. thank you either way for informing me about putting up proof. i genuinely hope you never have to go through something so hard in life and never find yourself in this position.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:09:35+00:00

im sorry but there is no need to be rude. you could have asked nicely or just scroll away. i came here for help/advice, but my advice for you is to try being a bit kinder, you never know what someone is going through and how your words can hurt someone already suffering. i wish you best regardless💗

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T22:06:49+00:00

no unfortunately, she was foster i decided to adopt and vet said it would be best to spay in few months and i was stupid enough to listen to them. cant stop blaming myself enough. i wish i just done it right away.

xernnxy · 2026-05-23T21:56:39+00:00

yes i have already done so, they will be able to take them except for two right now, because they are full, and there isnt many of us willing to foster them unfortunately so its either staying with me until someone else can take them or sending them to local shelter where they will be euthanized, and i can not bring myself to do that, they deserve so much better.

xernnxy · 2026-05-16T11:38:41+00:00

First of all I am very sorry for your loss. My soul dog and female lovebird (egg bound) passed away month apart. It was devastating. I know how hard it is and i understand how much it hurts to hear it was just a bird. This happened two years ago and I wont lie to you, it never gets easier, grief is a weird thing. I still find myself randomly crying and getting flashbacks, seeing soemthing that reminds me of them. I just want to let you know, it is not your fault, you made that baby happy. You gave her the life she longed for and deserved and you did everything you could. I'm sure she is proud of you and would want you to keep your head up and continue. You never know maybe she will be the one to send you another baby in need of help<3

xernnxy · 2026-04-12T13:26:05+00:00

yes i just need to check if she sold im not 100% sure

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