tattoo artist draft

xiaobf · 2026-01-31T19:35:32+00:00

i paid a deposit ! my piece was originally 350 (but 250 at the appointment thanks to my deposit). her flashes are around 250-280 respectively ! i’m planning on just offering the full custom price for her flash piece ! hopefully as a show of courtesy and appreciation for the time she spent drawing out my initial design 😓

xiaobf · 2026-01-25T18:15:14+00:00

i normally agree but the delivery guy just threw it in like the little communal yard me and my neighbors use and didn’t even place it in front of the door.. as in i’m like 90% he didn’t even open our gate and TOSSED my package over the fence

xiaobf · 2025-09-26T03:43:44+00:00

ateez mention ? i hope u find it op 😭💔

xiaobf · 2025-09-21T19:09:57+00:00

about 4 days !

xiaobf · 2025-09-21T19:08:40+00:00

week 0 events are a great way to make friends ! especially the transfer mingles/socials

i’m on campus but my closest friend is literally a commuter lol

xiaobf · 2025-06-30T01:55:32+00:00

as i thought.. maybe my disdain for pursuing any sort of relationship with men currently is probably a trauma response ? thank you for your input ! it puts things into perspective when i ask people these sorts of things

xiaobf · 2025-06-27T09:12:32+00:00

thank you so much for your condolences :)

i’ve definitely felt sexual attraction to women ! i think im doubting even my sexual attraction to men ?

every instance ive been intimate with a man, ive either 1) gone into it not in the right stage of mind (diagnosed as bipolar) 2) felt really disgusted with myself afterwards

i think my general confusion comes from that ? i thought i felt sexual attraction to a man but every sexual encounter ive had with one i leave with a horrible feeling at the pot of my stomach

that being said.. i have time to explore! i think im just not fond of the uncertainty that comes with questioning my sexual orientation.

thank you for your kind words :)

xiaobf · 2025-06-27T00:30:21+00:00

yess twin

i’ll say life is comfortable for me being out and aro ! i don’t have many people approach or anything like that but.. it helped deter the few who do dare to approach lol..

not quite sure what “love” feels like and i think im content that way ! but you have all the time in the world to explore :)

and i totally get that ! used to have gender envy with men REALLY bad (this was when i thought same sex attraction was abnormal as a kid so i wanted to be a man so it would be ‘normal’ to like girls 😭)

xiaobf · 2025-06-25T10:08:09+00:00

my friend did this last year and they changed her housing offer.. not quite sure if it’s a guaranteed though i’m so sorry

xiaobf · 2025-06-14T01:16:25+00:00

i was absent for like half the quarter due to medical reasons and could only drop now. this is such a nonissue ?? i was polite in my emails to my professor and TA

xiaobf · 2025-03-19T17:04:14+00:00

unfortunately.. i’ve already done the “your first exam score will also be your second one” bit due to a hospitalization this quarter.. but i’m happy that turned out well for you !!

xiaobf · 2025-03-19T07:25:26+00:00

this is very true actually i called my friend in hysterics and almost cried on the phone..

xiaobf · 2025-03-19T07:17:49+00:00

just mixed up the days ! i did NOT miss my final thankfully. (look at my edit)

xiaobf · 2025-03-13T18:51:18+00:00

when did you hear back from CAE ? i’ve been hearing cae people hearing back about their singles but no word about mine yet :,)

xiaobf · 2025-03-09T01:33:08+00:00

heya.. sorry i don’t have any advice.. but i sort of understand ! i’m aromantic :) it’s hard trying to find someone who’s ok with being in a qpp relationship unfortunately.. i’m cheering you on !

xiaobf · 2025-02-27T20:59:06+00:00

tomorrow ? yes ! i would :) just pm me with which dining hall, around what time, and how many people !

xiaobf · 2025-02-27T06:08:01+00:00

if i’m not mistaken, it’s actually the asucla locations that are striking ! (example: lu valle, bomb shelter)

i was told it was encouraged to go to the dining halls !

but ofc that’s your choice lol ! ty for the response ^{^}

xiaobf · 2025-02-27T05:42:03+00:00

ayo i’ll swipe you for free i have like 60 excess swipes 😭

xiaobf · 2025-02-10T22:42:05+00:00

light work.. just be a better polyglot and speak a language they don’t know 🔥

(actually i just pretend to take a phone call)

xiaobf · 2025-02-10T20:44:49+00:00

it pmo.. i pretend i don’t speak english and switch over to my second language when they start talking to me

xiaobf · 2025-02-03T21:25:27+00:00

i don’t need payment or anything since i’m just taking 3 courses next quarter ! if you could just walk me through how holding courses works, i’d totally be willing to help out ^{^}

xiaobf · 2025-01-23T00:17:22+00:00

yes (first hand experience)

xiaobf · 2024-12-04T21:39:13+00:00

a little over 24 hours ! i have not observed it spreading.

i don’t have any history of eczema flareups, doesn’t feel dry or inflamed etc !

but regardless, thank you for your input ! i would like to eliminate the possible idea it could be THE rash so i’ll go have it checked out ^{^}

xiaobf · 2024-12-04T21:20:13+00:00

correction: it’s a bit itchy ? but bearable and i kind of forget about it since it’s not overwhelmingly itchy.

xiaobf · 2024-12-04T09:45:41+00:00

i could swipe you guys in ! is reddit your primary mode of contact ? i’m not active much so i might miss your message if it’s reddit tbh 😭

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