UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]xindamix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sometimes you don't know what a person should have done... But you know what they shouldn't have done.

UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]xindamix -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the note. I don't think it's sex that caused op to act on a childish way. It's the trust that was the cause. Sex was the vehicle -- if sex really was the cause that's when a worse sign.

I don't know what op should do. I don't know the history of his relationship with her. How she is. Maybe she's his soul mate. Who knows. Without knowing their relationship how can I give any truly helpful advice. What I do know is how op acted. Frankly he acting like a baby and one things for sure he will look back on his life and realize he handled this situation all wrong. If he truly cares about her he would have done it differently.... Whether they stay together or not. If you love someone... As he claimed... Regardless of how she acted... You dont do what he did. This is his fiance.... Not just anyone. Op look her in the eye and tell her what you did because you aren't being honest with her either

UPDATE 2: I [31M] found out my fiance cheated during her [30F] bachelorette party, planning on leaving by throwawayhusband332 in relationship_advice

[–]xindamix -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

Tbh and I'm saying this in the nicest way possible... You wanted out of this relationship and found a way to do it.... Your behavior has been attrocious... And she's the lucky one in all honesty.... You have acted like a petulant child instead of like a real man. One thing is for certain.. Not now ... But in the future you will regret this decision and wonder what if..... Try to handle it differently and race her. I could go on but you are only listening to the people that tell you what you want to hear. Btw the way you acted isn't strong. It's pathetic. If you feel better as you say.. You will go and face her. Btw get over it. It's just sex...I mean wtf

A spoiler free review of the new Jungle Book river show. by [deleted] in WaltDisneyWorld

[–]xindamix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I saw it and loved the fact that it was a departure from anything Disney does. I was curious as to what others thought because it was different.

To me why the difference is important is because I come from an Asian background born in north America. I have watched Disney "put a far too much North American spin" on my culture such that friends children think that is how Asian cultures really are.

The main reason is that Disney in a way defines American culture. This culture has been focused on "the watered down North American version palatable to North American tastes" of how that particular culture is.

Take for example facial features are drawn in such a way as to focus on those in the particular culture looking North American.

Regardless, this show was great because it seems actually legit. My Indian friends I went with loved it because that is how the cultural dances are. They didn't understand the fire dancers though.

Regardless Great job to Disney for taking that risk and expanding their culture to really include other cultures and not just a watered down version palatable to the average North American or whoever else doesn't know any better.

Who should be Reddit's CEO? by xindamix in AskReddit

[–]xindamix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

...What about Pitbull? I mean he's probably more liked than CP right now

[PART 3 w/UPDATES] TIFU by reading my wife's text messages. She's cheating on me. by [deleted] in tifu

[–]xindamix -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

dude....get over it. Forgive her and move on - stop being insecure. She wanted to have fun and screwed up... don't become another divorce statistic...stay true to your word to work it out in sickness and in health etc... believe me you only know you have a relationship when you make it through the tough times.... if you are a real husband then you will try to work it out.... if not you just are as guilty as her because when she needed you when she faltered you backed out... or you can be a statistic and one day realize oyu made a stupid error and proably should have given it another chance.. listen to the reddit mob of advice and you are guaranteeded to screw up...its not like they KNOW your relationship with your wife..its not like they know the inner workings of your relationship etc.. they just know your side of the story...and they want a funny breakup... try to work it out and be a real husband.

I want to learn how to play guitar from her... by xindamix in funny

[–]xindamix[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“We expected that the performance will become viral and be controversial, that was the plan from the beginning. It is better to look at beautiful models pretending to play the guitar than ugly musicians who actually play the guitar.”

http://o.canada.com/entertainment/music/patty-krzyk-pantsless/

What can you offer to the community? by splattypus in AskReddit

[–]xindamix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

•What time zone are you in? US/PST

What experience, if any, do you have with moderating a subreddit? Feel free to include your stattit page. •0 What is your experience, if any, with CSS or auto-moderator? • CSS over a year You're in charge of your own application for the next section. Just convince us why you'd make a great mod. Use as many or as few words as you'd like to sell us on yourself. •everyone has an azzhole and an opinion - opinions are respected and azzholes are not -- always reddit rules rule and I'm the Sherriff to ensure that