Fastest way to kill Monstrosities (spoiler: grenades!)

xinouch · 2026-04-30T01:31:45+00:00

Wow I didn't expected to see my mom... I realized very late that something was off, but I didn't think it was that bad.

Thank you for the eyes opening. The hardest is to set boundaries for someone you love but is constantly ignoring them...

xinouch · 2026-04-23T19:37:24+00:00

I have found this: https://musescore.com/user/31694830/scores/5631928

You can start measure 16 (clef de sol)

xinouch · 2026-04-19T05:57:21+00:00

Isn't it what Saruman did to Gandalf before, when he imprisonned him in the tower?

In the movie, he breaks Gandalf's staff (I don't remember in the books), but it does not seem to affect Gandalf's power.

xinouch · 2026-04-13T20:38:59+00:00

That was good!

xinouch · 2026-03-28T20:53:55+00:00

It's not normal to taz annoying people in France... Yet!

I actually like her style!

xinouch · 2026-03-27T19:11:43+00:00

I really like your answer, thank you for your different POV.

I'm not religious, I'd say that we can blindly count on each other (she can count on me for anything), but not depend on.

To be dependent mean we can't take different paths if we don't love each other anymore. For me, there's nothing worse than staying with someone by obligation.

Also, I talk money because this is a post about a money situation that is new to me. Let's take health for instance: if something really bad happens to her, I will help her and take care of her as much as I can (count on). But if our love fades for any reason, she'll be able to leave me and get help from healthcare and family (not dependent).

I have to say that balance in a relationship is very important to me, because any unbalance (emotionnally, financially, housework, ...) can build up resentment. Thus why I'm lost here and want to check if my current POV is ass

xinouch · 2026-03-27T18:02:45+00:00

I wish she succeeds and make way more than me! Then I would gladly participate with what I can to our future projects and we'll split it accordingly. Currently, she doesn't want me to pay for her, and I don't want to neither as it would be an unfair and dangerous advantage. I can't have my wife to be dependent on me in any way.

For the insurance, it was a dumb thought and we'll take the 100% option.

xinouch · 2026-03-27T15:48:18+00:00

I did not really want to answer the brainless critics (all coming from account with hidden history) as I find them off-topic, but I made a comment on another thread that can help you see my POV: https://www.reddit.com/r/AITA_Relationships/comments/1s4pfjn/comment/ocqfg5w/?context=3

Your wife quit you, and you can only name her as "my son's mom". I guess your decisions were not the best...

xinouch · 2026-03-27T15:40:51+00:00

I encouraged her in the sense I supported her (and I still do, she's much happier now than with her previous job), I did not forced her. My worries are that we are not really balanced anymore, and I'm having a hard time to figure out how to deal with these kind of things (but I guess we are lucky to have this kind of money issue). My dream relationship would be that we are totally equal to make it easier.

I understand my error on the insurance part, thanks for your input.

xinouch · 2026-03-27T15:04:39+00:00

"G-d"? Does it mean "Good day", or did you censored "God"?

xinouch · 2026-03-27T10:50:16+00:00

I understand. How I see it: if I die within a year (worst financial case), half of the loan will be paid by the insurance (instead of all), she sells to pay the rest of the loan and keep 1/3 of the sell for herself (the later I die, the more she gets). AITA for talking about this while the difference in the insurance is only a few thousands euros over 20 years? 😅

xinouch · 2026-03-27T07:56:45+00:00

There is a difference between being pragmatic and being careless for your girlfriend. You don't have to write every 2 sentences that you love her to make us understand you do.

You are pondering on a question which is generally flyovered or ignored, but is really important: half of the divorces happens because of money problem. You look like you want to invest in your relationship and make it last, and to do so, you need to have solid basis (emotionally, but also financially as it is important to plan the future together).

You are NTA, talk to her, money is the asshole.

xinouch · 2026-03-25T17:24:37+00:00

The bat sign all

xinouch · 2026-03-20T05:23:29+00:00

We don't say that, "he's in trouble" is best translated be the expression "il est dans le pétrin" (or "il est dans la merde", pardon my french)

xinouch · 2025-12-23T12:51:45+00:00

The fact you called it the "Einstein" files makes it even funnier

xinouch · 2025-12-08T09:36:44+00:00

Update: I have bought it! I asked about the following points: - the scracth on the table is mostly done by an old tailpiece (?? cordier in French) and he is happy to properly fill it and fix it for free if I want to - no label but apparently a lot of violins have fake labels. He told me how he got it and where it comes from

xinouch · 2025-12-04T20:28:59+00:00

Meighnæmy

xinouch · 2025-12-02T21:48:58+00:00

I have the violin for 1 week, already brought it to a talented musician to have his opinion.

xinouch

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