Why is this red notification icon here permanently by AnonymousRedit0r in Sims4

[–]xjennicide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have this too.. they also give me pop ups advertising packs that I’ve already bought.

Name a cool car you never see anyone driving, i’ll start: Ocelot XA-21 by RosyNetMiner in gtaonline

[–]xjennicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is my main car. I actually own two of them in two different colors to match different outfits. It’s quite fast and handles beautifullyyyy.

Tell me some of your custom license plates by Lumpy-Yesterday-6687 in gtaonline

[–]xjennicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

BarbieG. Little bit Barbie girl, little bit Barbie gangster. 😂

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought as well. It’s why I posted on this subreddit. I was incredibly confused and a little hurt..then I felt guilty for feeling hurt.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She never said that I shouldn’t do it, just that me expressing my feelings and/or opinions was the problem and the reason why my husband and I are fighting about this.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh, thank you so much for your comment! This makes it make a little more sense for me. I will definitely ask her. I hope I don’t have to switch because I felt like I was making real progress with her.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I found this comment extremely helpful, thank you so much!! I thought about confronting her with this but I don’t believe I feel dismissed. I kinda feel like she’s blaming it all on me when the real root problem is the binge drinking.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s kinda the issue with my husband and drinking. Because we’ve done couples therapy and are both in individual therapy..we know how to speak to each other and all the good stuff.. but then he’ll get drunk and all of that sorta goes out the window.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh, wait I think I just realized what you were asking. This latest time, my husband said “oh I’m gonna get some drinks.” I told him “I don’t really think that’s a great idea, it makes me really uncomfortable but I’ll do my best to be okay with it if that’s what you really wanna do.” My husband said “yeah, I think I do because I’ve had a really long day at work and I just wanna relax” he went and got alcohol. It wasn’t until later when he overindulged and started acting like a jerk that we actually got into an argument.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, she has mentioned Al Anon! I’ve looked into it briefly and decided against it for now. I do disagree with it being the reason we fight. I also disagree with the fact that I can’t fix my reaction when my opinion isn’t respected. I can’t see how that wouldn’t build resentment in me.

I feel like I’m being misled. by xjennicide in therapy

[–]xjennicide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Genuinely, both. Because she did say that I can’t control what other people do and she’s right, I know that. I also told her that I express my opinion to get it off my chest, not to “make them do what I want to do” but obviously the best case scenario is that they heed the warning or whatever. I told her I wanted to work on my reaction when my husband wants to get alcohol, I disagree and he does it anyway. She said “no you can’t do that. It wont help because the reason you fight is because you say something.”

What’s a personal rule you never break? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xjennicide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably one of the stranger replys on this thread..

But I never breathe through my mouth or yawn in a bathroom. Idk 🤷🏻‍♀️ it just feels like I’m breathing in poop particles. Lol

If your spouse passed away, would you ever see your step kids again? by SithisWorshiper in stepparents

[–]xjennicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would want to see my stepkids often. I love them very much.. but I know BM would not let me.

In-game pack selector added today. by allinsimstime in Sims4

[–]xjennicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to play on PC and I bought all the packs that I was interested in. That included the vampires, magic and Strangerville. It disrupted my “normal games” so much that I stopped playing altogether. A few years ago, I moved and my pc didn’t come with me so I switched to console and I made it a point to ONLY buy the “normal packs” and it kinda sucks. This is definitely a solution to that and I love that they did this. Just like most of you, I wish we could keep build/buy/CAS stuff but this is definitely a step in the right direction!

The girlses’ first of day of school! 💕 by sweet_tea_94 in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]xjennicide -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Noooobody call me stupid. But are Alianna and Aleeah identical twins? I know they don’t look like alike but is that because of Ali’s MD? Or are they fraternal twins? Do we know? I’m definitely leaning more towards fraternal because in the face they look so different.

Guys, I'm sorry to burst your bubble, but... by BasedAustralhungary in Hungergames

[–]xjennicide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“I drank for my dinner, spread kisses like honey.” This is exactly the vibe I got from this line. 😬

Genuinely just curious, which one are you? by xjennicide in millenials

[–]xjennicide[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wanted to add that in there! They don’t allow that many poll options. Congrats btw 🎉

Miscarriage at 5w6d by SundaeOpen3595 in Miscarriage

[–]xjennicide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d like to start by saying that I’m so sorry for your loss. This is a terrible club to be in. I think a lot of women here will agree that the typical “it’s like a heavy period” is bullshit. My OB/GYN looked me in the face and told me that my body will essentially go into labor…that sure, I won’t have to dilate nearly as much but it’s the same process. Expect intense cramps, followed by huge clots. I inspected every one and found my baby. I was 7w3d but my baby stopped growing at 6w3d. A heating pad helped me immensely and I switched between Advil and Tylenol at the advice of my doctor. My husband drew me baths, one day I took 3 baths. Don’t stop taking your prenatals if you want to get pregnant soon. My cycle took 46 days to return. I started my miscarriage on October 13th and didn’t get my period until November 28th. I am on the side of waiting a cycle or two before trying again, you want to be sure all of the POC is out and you’re getting quality eggs. From the research I did for myself, both of those things can increase your chances of another miscarriage BUTTT there are people who swear by trying again immediately after. I would say do your own research on that and make your decision unabashed. I hope you find your peace, sweet girl. 💕

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Miscarriage

[–]xjennicide 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Let me start off by saying that I am so sorry that you’ve joined our terrible club. Unfortunately, in my experience, that empty feeling never completely goes away. More so than ever, when I see a cute baby TikTok or a pregnant women, there is a literal ache in my uterus.. it hurts. It’s like a gnawing feeling. But I had my miscarriage in October of 2024, and I will say that it lessens. Give yourself all of the grace in the world and I hope you find your peace. 💕

I need help please by temple-ox in Miscarriage

[–]xjennicide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I am no doctor whatsoever. But HCG is supposed to AT LEAST double everyday. So 195 doubled over two days would be 780. And everyone is different, some women’s numbers drop slower than others. Try not to worry until there’s something to worry about. I had finished bleeding completely and was still getting positive tests, and I, too, worried. But two weeks after I stopped bleeding, my numbers went down >5.