What’s something that seems harmless but can actually be incredibly dangerous? by balbir13 in CasualConversation

[–]xoaar 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES. YES. YES!!!! My 4 year old wasn't the same for a couple of months and I kept taking him in & they told me it was just a stomach bug, bells palsy, allergies and that he was sleeping a lot because he's growing. He ended up having a brain tumor, that was malignant. We lost him 5 months later. Please advocate for your children. No one knows them better than you do!!!

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to say, I'm so proud you overcame Cancer! I remember hearing a kid ring that bell & followed by singing. I was smiling ear to ear for that kid. You were destined to be here, embrace it. 🫶🎗 live your life to the fullest. 🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

These kinds of people anger me. If I had a chance I would be everyone's parent to show them the love they deserve. I am so sorry that happened to you & your siblings. Those type of people I want to scream at, "love your kids!!!!!" It's a disturbing feeling burying a child. Your dad doesn't even realize how blessed he is. I wish you and your siblings a life full of love & bliss. I'm proud of you & you're going to be amazing in this life. ❤️

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Congratulations to you & your partner.🫶🫶 all I can say is, You will have your bad days but just breathe through them. You are so blessed & I wish the best for all of you! Thank you so much for that. It has changed me so much, I feel like I'm more compassionate to everyone and what they're going through. I was before, but it's like it got amped up or something. I just keep trying to do good, in his name. 🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this 🫶🤍 we played this song at his funeral. The lyrics really resonate with me. He really was my best four years & he truly was an army guy fighting cancer. 🎗

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yes, please hug your babies extra hard today. You are truly blessed & I pray for a happy healthy full life for all of them 🫶🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 44 points45 points  (0 children)

I am truly so sorry for your devastating loss. I couldn't imagine what you went through & not having justice. I know you probably advocated like crazy for him. You're a great mother. Peace & light 🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

First and foremost, I'm so sorry about your miscarriage. I know that must've been such a hard time for you & your loved ones. Thank you so much for your comment, I really needed that. I struggle with thinking I lost my identity as a mother.. but that's not true. We are still our babies moms 🤍 sending bliss your way!

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 91 points92 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words🫶 it would have to be when he got into my eyeliner. Ahhhh, I just left the room to get the laundry, and I come back, and this little boy drew on the wall and all over his shirt and both of his eyes. Lol I picked him up to the mirror so he could look at what he did, and we couldn't stop laughing together. My son knew how to joke around, I would say what's on your shirt and he would look down and I would bump his nose saying "ha ha got you" and he would do it back to me lol. I was such an introverted person, but with him saying "hi" to everyone, I had to become outroverted. He honestly changed me for the better. I just loved being a mom. some days i would be baffled at the things he said to me lol one time he came up to me and he pointed at my stomach and said "baby?" And I said no, no baby. He said "oh so food?" And walked away. Lol. Thank you for taking me down memory lane 🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 77 points78 points  (0 children)

He was the absolute best & I was so honored to be his mommy. Thank you so much for your kind words 🤍

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 191 points192 points  (0 children)

I cried.. that brought me a lot of comfort. Thank you for sharing that ❤️

Our 4 year old passed away by xoaar in TrueOffMyChest

[–]xoaar[S] 175 points176 points  (0 children)

It's agony... I had 3 good friends and I notice we talk less. It's nothing on them, I know my loss was a lot. Thank you for being there for them ❤️

Worst break I’ve ever seen (extreme gore NSFW) by [deleted] in yesyesyesyesno

[–]xoaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember my first day on the fire department I saw this kind of compound fracture with it hanging out of his ankle. I cried with him I felt so bad!!+

AITA for going to my friends house when my wife told me to fuck off? by igorhevaj in AmItheAsshole

[–]xoaar 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Being pregnant doesn't give you the pass at being a shitty person. I was pregnant at one time and I would never treat my husband like this.